Topic: i do not get it
nurjoyce's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:11 PM
okay, so i matched with this guy
on his profile he asked a lot of questions
ppl always say i do not write enough or give short answers
so i thought okay, i will make the first move
i sent him an email which went into a lot of details about me and answered the questions on his profile.... he never wrote me back
why check yes or even maybe that you are interested in someone if you are not?
and if something in my email "turned him off"
why not write someone and say hey thanks, but...?
i mean i did not just write out of the blue---
we matched

plk1966's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:13 PM
I have only ever been contacted by one of my mutual matches and he turned out to be a great friend not a love interest.flowerforyou

think Patsfan is right MM doesn't worklaugh

markc48's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:16 PM
Join the club. I had messages that didnt go through for a week than a popped up at the same time:smile:

duckiegiggles's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:25 PM
Edited by duckiegiggles on Sun 09/14/08 04:25 PM
drinker here's to another perfect pick by mutual match!!:banana:

no photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:29 PM
laugh no kidding

papersmile's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:34 PM
Edited by papersmile on Sun 09/14/08 04:34 PM
maybe he read the email but got caught up doing other stuff and wanted to have the time available to properly respond?

BayouMafia's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:38 PM
I don't know...Its worked for me so far.. I hooked up with a mutual match my very first day... Now I am going to meet a second one I met through mutual match this weekend.. First one was cool but a little crazy and has issues she still needed to deal with, within herself ...

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:50 PM
Mutual Match means nothing to me heck I get the matches no one ever contacts me that said yes or maybe so I leave them up for a while then go back and delete them all and start back over just for the heck of it lol

It is a worthless tool to me. lolnoway :laughing: :laughing:

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:51 PM

Mutual Match means nothing to me heck I get the matches no one ever contacts me that said yes or maybe so I leave them up for a while then go back and delete them all and start back over just for the heck of it lol

It is a worthless tool to me. lolnoway :laughing: :laughing:


i agree

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:53 PM
Heh. I've never bothered to delete them.

I have a bad short term memory, so I just leave em up to remind me who didn't respond. lol

RKISIT's photo
Sun 09/14/08 04:54 PM
mutual matchscared surprised ill

plk1966's photo
Sun 09/14/08 05:03 PM
I think you would have better luck letting Ferel match youflowerforyou

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 09/14/08 05:11 PM

Heh. I've never bothered to delete them.

I have a bad short term memory, so I just leave em up to remind me who didn't respond. lol


Shshs not me first time I deleted them there was 40 something of them lmao

To me it is just something to play with for a bit then start over with new lol just to see lol