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Topic: Are All Guys Jerks
DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 09/11/08 04:43 PM Edited by DTHRomeo on Thu 09/11/08 04:43 PM
Ok. So I've been talking to this guy for the last 4 days or so. I met him on this website. We had so much in common, talked for hours on the phone, and he had even said he wanted to come visit me from WA. I live in FL. Everything is going good. We even talked about if it would be ok for the both of us to do a long distance dating relationship for now and see how things go. Then today, I get an email, not a phone call, but an email telling me that he has too much going on in his personal life right now, and has no time for me, and that he would love to pursue more, but can't. UM OK......You didn't have all this stuff going on in your life 4 days ago? I felt totally blown off. I know not all guys are like this, but enough with the head games already. I guess I just attract the jerks. 4 days ... better to find out now than Let's say 5 months later Sorry I hope you find what you're looking for Not all of us are jerks

Jbomb Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 916	Thu 09/11/08 04:49 PM
Yes we are ALL jerks. So why not try females? Maybe then we will not have to read ANOTHER THREAD about how we are all jerks. I knew I'd find you on here You love these topics

snarkytwain Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 2789	Thu 09/11/08 04:58 PM
Maybe, Try not to go for looks every time That's good and all, but you have to be attracted to someone too. In order for a relationship to work, it's gotta have more than a few "goods"... and mutual attraction is important, no matter what anyone says. That said, I know not all guys are jerks, nor are all girls *****es; sometimes maybe we're just being lost in translation.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 09/11/08 05:01 PM
Yes we are ALL jerks. So why not try females? Maybe then we will not have to read ANOTHER THREAD about how we are all jerks. I knew I'd find you on here You love these topics It's the people that use absolutes I love. The topic has been done one or two hundred times before

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 09/11/08 05:02 PM
Another classic man bashing thread!!

kerbear73 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 3884	Thu 09/11/08 05:05 PM
<<<< Not a Jerk, just a sweet lovable KerBear

bergeia Joined Tue 08/12/08 Posts: 4022	Thu 09/11/08 05:20 PM
sure why not, im a jerk and im ugly. lol

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Thu 09/11/08 05:22 PM
No, just Peccy , Etrain and Patsfan and

bergeia Joined Tue 08/12/08 Posts: 4022	Thu 09/11/08 05:23 PM
theyre the only jerks and ugly? lol or theyre the only nice ones? lol

Friendleewon Joined Wed 08/27/08 Posts: 141	Thu 09/11/08 06:23 PM
In fairness to Guys, We're only Jerks when We're breathing.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 09/11/08 06:25 PM
All guys? Is that like are ALL women b*tches? Or like why don't women like nice guys? And ALL australians wrestle crocodiles and wear khaki.. Yep ALL generalisations are just that...

guitaedreams Joined Fri 09/05/08 Posts: 278	Thu 09/11/08 06:27 PM
i guess im a jerk

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 09/11/08 06:27 PM
to guys being......guys

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Thu 09/11/08 06:29 PM
You know what I understand that generalizations suck, but if someone is hurt and has been a few times in a row isn't it normal to go straight to the generizations? Sometimes it takes a minute to look in the mirror and calm down when something happens.... It's called being human people...get off her case. and I'm the b*tchy one around here right?

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 09/12/08 02:16 PM
You know what I understand that generalizations suck, but if someone is hurt and has been a few times in a row isn't it normal to go straight to the generizations? Sometimes it takes a minute to look in the mirror and calm down when something happens.... It's called being human people...get off her case. and I'm the b*tchy one around here right? If you say so..

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Fri 09/12/08 02:23 PM
me not jerk nuff said

RivathatFlows Joined Mon 09/08/08 Posts: 75	Fri 09/12/08 02:28 PM
Ok. So I've been talking to this guy for the last 4 days or so. I met him on this website. We had so much in common, talked for hours on the phone, and he had even said he wanted to come visit me from WA. I live in FL. Everything is going good. We even talked about if it would be ok for the both of us to do a long distance dating relationship for now and see how things go. Then today, I get an email, not a phone call, but an email telling me that he has too much going on in his personal life right now, and has no time for me, and that he would love to pursue more, but can't. UM OK......You didn't have all this stuff going on in your life 4 days ago? I felt totally blown off. I know not all guys are like this, but enough with the head games already. I guess I just attract the jerks. I am so glad I am not looking. I feel for you. It is his loss though.

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Fri 09/12/08 02:32 PM
99.9% are jerks but all of them jerk off

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Fri 09/12/08 02:40 PM
Mr_Brightside doesnt, he has no penis(true fact!)

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 09/12/08 02:41 PM
Mr_Brightside doesnt, he has no penis(true fact!) You did the data collection on that did ya Dannyboy?