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WHY IS IT THAT YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE,, GET TO KNOW THEM, AND ALL THAT NONSENSE, BUT, WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU HAVE TATTOOS, A PAST, ARE A BIT OVERWEIGHT,, **** CHANGES?
DO APPEARANCES REALLY DEFINE WHO WE ARE? |
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Edited by
tigerman1956
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Fri 09/05/08 09:11 AM
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WHY IS IT THAT YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE,, GET TO KNOW THEM, AND ALL THAT NONSENSE, BUT, WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU HAVE TATTOOS, A PAST, ARE A BIT OVERWEIGHT,, **** CHANGES? DO APPEARANCES REALLY DEFINE WHO WE ARE? ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!  IF THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE JUDGING YOU ON, THEN YOU DON'T NEED THEM ANYWAY HEY, I AM UGLIER THEN SIN, AND PEOPLE STILL LIKE & LOVE ME, AND IF THEY DON'T, THEN I DON'T NEED THEM. 
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some people are just way too shallow for their own good.
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WHY IS IT THAT YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE,, GET TO KNOW THEM, AND ALL THAT NONSENSE, BUT, WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU HAVE TATTOOS, A PAST, ARE A BIT OVERWEIGHT,, **** CHANGES? DO APPEARANCES REALLY DEFINE WHO WE ARE? not for me..... |
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Physical appearance does not define who you are, but physical attraction is important in a relationship.
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unfortunately, yup
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WHY IS IT THAT YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE,, GET TO KNOW THEM, AND ALL THAT NONSENSE, BUT, WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU HAVE TATTOOS, A PAST, ARE A BIT OVERWEIGHT,, **** CHANGES? DO APPEARANCES REALLY DEFINE WHO WE ARE? NO the only one that can define you is you. If someone "judges/prejudges or makes assumptions" based on looks, thats their problem not yours. |
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People can say no till their blue in the face....but the sad fact is yes it matters. Not for me personally but it's just the nature of humans.
When I started the Matchmaking Game it was exactly for this reason. For people to get to know others that they would no normally give the time of day too. And it has worked for the most part. But I still get twinkleheads that will say she is to fat or not pretty enough..blah blah blah. I tell them they are going to be lonely souls for ever. |
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yes physicall attraction is important, but thats mostly physcological.
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Your own reflection in the mirror over the years helped define who you are now. Why do you hold it against people if they do the same looking at you?
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I have a little tattoo, and I was shocked that this funny looking dweeb of a guy had issues with it. It's a half inch DAISY!!! It's pretty!!! He wasn't!!!
And it CRACKS ME UP when some funky farty beer belly butt scratchin' miscreant of a man expects Miss USA to sit on his face. Gimme a break!!! Okay, I'm being really bad here. |
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i have full sleeve tattoos and have been rejected many times because of them. people tend to stereotype.
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Unfortunately, sometimes that is how people are. But I have come to realize that if people don't love me for me, then that is their loss.
WHY IS IT THAT YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE,, GET TO KNOW THEM, AND ALL THAT NONSENSE, BUT, WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU HAVE TATTOOS, A PAST, ARE A BIT OVERWEIGHT,, **** CHANGES? DO APPEARANCES REALLY DEFINE WHO WE ARE? |
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People can say no till their blue in the face....but the sad fact is yes it matters. Not for me personally but it's just the nature of humans. When I started the Matchmaking Game it was exactly for this reason. For people to get to know others that they would no normally give the time of day too. And it has worked for the most part. But I still get twinkleheads that will say she is to fat or not pretty enough..blah blah blah. I tell them they are going to be lonely souls for ever. sorry feral, but people's perception at best is an assumption not a defining moment in anyones lives. appearances can enhance or deter a persons desire to meet/get to know someone but is it a defining moment - I dont think so, and if they believe it is, it's their loss 
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at least you know without putting up a whole lot of time and effort that this person is a jerk and not worth anymore of your time.
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on the other hand, everyone is entitled to have their own preferences. Even if it is a bit shallow, if they don't want someone with tattoos... they are entitled to that
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Your own reflection in the mirror over the years helped define who you are now. Why do you hold it against people if they do the same looking at you? MAYBE YOU MISUNDERSTOOD ME,, I AM NOT HOLDING IT AGAINST ANYONE, IT IS A SIMPLE QUESTION,, ONE OPEN FOR DISCUSSION,, I KNOW WHO I AM, WHERE I HAVE BEEN, WHAT I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED, WHAT I HOPE TO ACHIEVE, WHAT I WILL AND WILL NOT TOLERATE,, |
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And it CRACKS ME UP when some funky farty beer belly butt scratchin' miscreant of a man expects Miss USA to sit on his face. Gimme a break!!! Okay, I'm being really bad here. This is TOO funny!!!!!! 
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what ever happened to falling for the heart not the face? Just a thought
 
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WHY IS IT THAT YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE,, GET TO KNOW THEM, AND ALL THAT NONSENSE, BUT, WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU HAVE TATTOOS, A PAST, ARE A BIT OVERWEIGHT,, **** CHANGES? DO APPEARANCES REALLY DEFINE WHO WE ARE? |
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