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Topic: I HAVE A QUESTION,,,,
Jill298's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:37 AM
The thing is I see alot of people complaining (not saying you are nicennaughty) about how people should never ever judge a book by it's cover. You should always look at the inner beauty. You don't know what you could be missing... and so on and so on... However, I have yet to see them dating the ugliest person on the block cause she's got a great personality. ohwell

Myrrdin's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:40 AM



everyone has their attractions. Whether you think they are shallow or not, you won't just simply date whoever comes along. There has to be something that attracts you to them, physically. Otherwise everyone would just date anyone.


why would that be such a bad thing as long as people were smart about it?
Define "smart" about it... There is nothing wrong with looking for someone you are physically attracted to. As long as you realize that if all they have is the physical part working for them, it will never work out in the long run.


I never said there was anything wrong with it... I just don't think physiology being the primary attraction is healthy. If you find someone your attracted to on the inside, most of the time the outside appearance wont matter. Our society is ridiculous with it's ideals of attraction. Someone missed the class on beauty being within, not without.

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:42 AM

The thing is I see alot of people complaining (not saying you are nicennaughty) about how people should never ever judge a book by it's cover. You should always look at the inner beauty. You don't know what you could be missing... and so on and so on... However, I have yet to see them dating the ugliest person on the block cause she's got a great personality. ohwell

cheers! drinker

ugly, lazy eyed, or club footed is one thing...but a few tattoos? well, it's prolly for the best anyhow cuz the people that DO accept them are waaaaay more fun devil

Myrrdin's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:44 AM


The thing is I see alot of people complaining (not saying you are nicennaughty) about how people should never ever judge a book by it's cover. You should always look at the inner beauty. You don't know what you could be missing... and so on and so on... However, I have yet to see them dating the ugliest person on the block cause she's got a great personality. ohwell

cheers! drinker

ugly, lazy eyed, or club footed is one thing...but a few tattoos? well, it's prolly for the best anyhow cuz the people that DO accept them are waaaaay more fun devil


I've done it, and you know what? I liked it.. so theresmokin

usernamefayou's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:46 AM



Your own reflection in the mirror over the years helped define who you are now. Why do you hold it against people if they do the same looking at you?


I answered your question, and it was a resounding yes. It's not really open for discussion. Whether you hold it against people or not, and I'm sure you have and are sort of insinuating such a thing, is entirely irrelevant.


DUDE, WHY WOULDN'T IT BE OPEN FOR DISCUSSION? AM I INSINUTATING ANYTHING? JUST ASKING A QUESTION IS ALL, I SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT,, THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPINION ALTHOUGH IT DOES SEEM A LITTLE CLOSE MINDED,, BUT, THAT IS YOU,, AND I ACCEPT YU FOR THAT..

AS FAR AS JUDGIN A BOOK BY ITS COVER.. LEMME TELL YA,, I AM A DAMN GOOD READ!!!


Just because something is fact doesn't mean it's closed-minded. Why can't you see that this isn't something that needs to be conceptualized? People judge each other in ways they aren't even conscious about, the same way we judge ourselves. Everything defines who we are, especially the way we look and how we look to others.

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:51 AM



The thing is I see alot of people complaining (not saying you are nicennaughty) about how people should never ever judge a book by it's cover. You should always look at the inner beauty. You don't know what you could be missing... and so on and so on... However, I have yet to see them dating the ugliest person on the block cause she's got a great personality. ohwell

cheers! drinker

ugly, lazy eyed, or club footed is one thing...but a few tattoos? well, it's prolly for the best anyhow cuz the people that DO accept them are waaaaay more fun devil


I've done it, and you know what? I liked it.. so theresmokin


you dated a lazy eyed club footed gal? kudos! drinker

KymmieSue's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:53 AM

WHY IS IT THAT YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE,, GET TO KNOW THEM, AND ALL THAT NONSENSE, BUT, WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU HAVE TATTOOS, A PAST, ARE A BIT OVERWEIGHT,, **** CHANGES?

DO APPEARANCES REALLY DEFINE WHO WE ARE?





I am a little overweight, people see that. I have a past, who doesn't. I have several tattoos & piercings, I tell everyone, some people don't like them I happen to love them.

If someone wants to hold that against me, their loss not mine.

Myrrdin's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:56 AM




The thing is I see alot of people complaining (not saying you are nicennaughty) about how people should never ever judge a book by it's cover. You should always look at the inner beauty. You don't know what you could be missing... and so on and so on... However, I have yet to see them dating the ugliest person on the block cause she's got a great personality. ohwell

cheers! drinker

ugly, lazy eyed, or club footed is one thing...but a few tattoos? well, it's prolly for the best anyhow cuz the people that DO accept them are waaaaay more fun devil


I've done it, and you know what? I liked it.. so theresmokin


you dated a lazy eyed club footed gal? kudos! drinker


lol not quite that bad, but close and definitely fit her "ugliest person on the block" scenario, at least physically, turns out she was quite beautiful on the inside and we got along great, till I found out mommy still needed to cut the cord smokin

Jill298's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:58 AM





The thing is I see alot of people complaining (not saying you are nicennaughty) about how people should never ever judge a book by it's cover. You should always look at the inner beauty. You don't know what you could be missing... and so on and so on... However, I have yet to see them dating the ugliest person on the block cause she's got a great personality. ohwell

cheers! drinker

ugly, lazy eyed, or club footed is one thing...but a few tattoos? well, it's prolly for the best anyhow cuz the people that DO accept them are waaaaay more fun devil


I've done it, and you know what? I liked it.. so theresmokin


you dated a lazy eyed club footed gal? kudos! drinker


lol not quite that bad, but close and definitely fit her "ugliest person on the block" scenario, at least physically, turns out she was quite beautiful on the inside and we got along great, till I found out mommy still needed to cut the cord smokin
I'm impressedflowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:05 AM
What some people consider is beautiful, others consider ugly. What some consider ugly, others consider to be beautiful.

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Fri 09/05/08 10:41 AM
That's a very good question. huh It tells you a lot about THEM and what is really on their mind.

1.)Maybe they want a trophy wife.:tongue:
2.)They care more about what you look like than who you are.
3.)The want perfection, according to their specs... which means real trouble.

JB

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