Topic: Cynical or is there a catch?
shortiemix's photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:44 PM
So, I went out on a date last night. It went amazingly well. He was a gentlemen. He drove 2hrs. to come and see me. We went to a really nice move, for a walk in the park, and played some pool. He has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen and the best hair. SO, basically, he is sexy, fun, and kind. I think he would be perfect for me. What's the catch? There is always a catch. Maybe I am cynical. I even told him that he was perfect and asked him what the catch was and he said, you are the catch. How whitty and charming. I plan on seeing him again, but when people are too good to be true...are they?
Am I being cynical or did I really meet someone nice?

tanyaann's photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:47 PM
Just enjoy your next date, don't worry about catches and truly get to know him. And have fun! Don't think about it as a date, just as hanging out with a cool person.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:49 PM

So, I went out on a date last night. It went amazingly well. He was a gentlemen. He drove 2hrs. to come and see me. We went to a really nice move, for a walk in the park, and played some pool. He has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen and the best hair. SO, basically, he is sexy, fun, and kind. I think he would be perfect for me. What's the catch? There is always a catch. Maybe I am cynical. I even told him that he was perfect and asked him what the catch was and he said, you are the catch. How whitty and charming. I plan on seeing him again, but when people are too good to be true...are they?
Am I being cynical or did I really meet someone nice?


Don't question it, just go with it.... there's too much to worry about in life to worry about when the shoe is going to drop...

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:49 PM

So, I went out on a date last night. It went amazingly well. He was a gentlemen. He drove 2hrs. to come and see me. We went to a really nice move, for a walk in the park, and played some pool. He has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen and the best hair. SO, basically, he is sexy, fun, and kind. I think he would be perfect for me. What's the catch? There is always a catch. Maybe I am cynical. I even told him that he was perfect and asked him what the catch was and he said, you are the catch. How whitty and charming. I plan on seeing him again, but when people are too good to be true...are they?
Am I being cynical or did I really meet someone nice?
You're not being cynical. Your sense's picked up on something. Listen.......carefully. You're not stupid. You know something's not right.

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:49 PM
There's always a "catch".

But you just gotta decide if the "catch" is something you can deal with.

Simple.

no photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:51 PM
WATCH and learn........dont put all your eggs in one basket.........the catch will be revealed before your eyes.........soon!!!devil noway shocked

plk1966's photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:51 PM
Edited by plk1966 on Thu 09/04/08 01:52 PM

So, I went out on a date last night. It went amazingly well. He was a gentlemen. He drove 2hrs. to come and see me. We went to a really nice move, for a walk in the park, and played some pool. He has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen and the best hair. SO, basically, he is sexy, fun, and kind. I think he would be perfect for me. What's the catch? There is always a catch. Maybe I am cynical. I even told him that he was perfect and asked him what the catch was and he said, you are the catch. How whitty and charming. I plan on seeing him again, but when people are too good to be true...are they?
Am I being cynical or did I really meet someone nice?


don't mean to rain on your parade, but didn't you just announce last week that you were pregnant and your boyfriend ran away? Does the new guy know you are pregnant?

no photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:58 PM
Good luck to you and just let it flowbigsmile flowerforyou

shortiemix's photo
Thu 09/04/08 01:58 PM


So, I went out on a date last night. It went amazingly well. He was a gentlemen. He drove 2hrs. to come and see me. We went to a really nice move, for a walk in the park, and played some pool. He has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen and the best hair. SO, basically, he is sexy, fun, and kind. I think he would be perfect for me. What's the catch? There is always a catch. Maybe I am cynical. I even told him that he was perfect and asked him what the catch was and he said, you are the catch. How whitty and charming. I plan on seeing him again, but when people are too good to be true...are they?
Am I being cynical or did I really meet someone nice?


don't mean to rain on your parade, but didn't you just announce last week that you were pregnant and your boyfriend ran away? Does the new guy know you are pregnant?

Yes, he knows and he is perfectly fine with it. He even asked me if the baby was a girl or boy.

tanyaann's photo
Thu 09/04/08 02:01 PM
how old is he? 'Cause if he is under 30, he is just looking to probably get laid and not worry about getting a gal pregnant because you already are.

Most guys in their 20's run when a girl is pregnant, even if it isn't theirs.

plk1966's photo
Thu 09/04/08 02:03 PM



So, I went out on a date last night. It went amazingly well. He was a gentlemen. He drove 2hrs. to come and see me. We went to a really nice move, for a walk in the park, and played some pool. He has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen and the best hair. SO, basically, he is sexy, fun, and kind. I think he would be perfect for me. What's the catch? There is always a catch. Maybe I am cynical. I even told him that he was perfect and asked him what the catch was and he said, you are the catch. How whitty and charming. I plan on seeing him again, but when people are too good to be true...are they?
Am I being cynical or did I really meet someone nice?


don't mean to rain on your parade, but didn't you just announce last week that you were pregnant and your boyfriend ran away? Does the new guy know you are pregnant?

Yes, he knows and he is perfectly fine with it. He even asked me if the baby was a girl or boy.


Good for you. Now he is a keeper, most guys would have ran away as fast as they could. Take things slow, get to know him and let him get to know you.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 09/04/08 02:07 PM

how old is he? 'Cause if he is under 30, he is just looking to probably get laid and not worry about getting a gal pregnant because you already are.

Most guys in their 20's run when a girl is pregnant, even if it isn't theirs.


That's not true.... My friend was pregnant and she started dating this guy who has been the "father" of her child for 4 years now... and he was 23 when he started dating her.

I would say be careful though.

no photo
Thu 09/04/08 02:39 PM
Put an aspirin between your knees and hold it there.

It'll keep you from getting pregnant again in the future and you dont need a prescription and it wont make you fat.

SVImager's photo
Thu 09/04/08 02:53 PM



So, I went out on a date last night. It went amazingly well. He was a gentlemen. He drove 2hrs. to come and see me. We went to a really nice move, for a walk in the park, and played some pool. He has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen and the best hair. SO, basically, he is sexy, fun, and kind. I think he would be perfect for me. What's the catch? There is always a catch. Maybe I am cynical. I even told him that he was perfect and asked him what the catch was and he said, you are the catch. How whitty and charming. I plan on seeing him again, but when people are too good to be true...are they?
Am I being cynical or did I really meet someone nice?


don't mean to rain on your parade, but didn't you just announce last week that you were pregnant and your boyfriend ran away? Does the new guy know you are pregnant?

Yes, he knows and he is perfectly fine with it. He even asked me if the baby was a girl or boy.




Wow.. you're prego...

Look... don't be cynical... self fulfill prophecy is real.
If you look for a red Volkswagon Beetle, and that is what you will see and notice and magnify.

Focus on the good in him and magnify those things.
Remember a real judge of character is to see his family and then make your decisions. How is his relationship with his parents... does he respect them... How are his parents relationship to each other... What are his goals... Does he complete his tasks... What are the passions in his life...

Good luck


tanyaann's photo
Thu 09/04/08 04:23 PM

Put an aspirin between your knees and hold it there.

It'll keep you from getting pregnant again in the future and you dont need a prescription and it wont make you fat.


quarter works too! rofl

NURSE2000's photo
Thu 09/04/08 07:42 PM

There's always a "catch".

But you just gotta decide if the "catch" is something you can deal with.

Simple.

remember it was only 1 date you might find the catch later but for now enjoy

Donnar's photo
Thu 09/04/08 09:37 PM
can I adopt your baby?