must girls play highschool head games!? lead a guy on FOR MONTHS to walk away in a heartbeat? im so sick of this, im about to reenlist and GTFO america for a while again

Don't generalize, it's a bad idea.

Aside from that, they're the wrong girls hon, don't give up. Running away won't solve the problem, only prolong the resolution.

Just my thought on it anyway

because most havent figured themselves out yet im guessing

Ms Right won't lead you on. Ms Right Now drops you like a disposable razor.

hey man, at least you know after a few months instead of years. We've all had our hearts ripped out and handed back to us with a note that says "ha, fix it now". It's not just women that play those games.

Def. don't generalize there are good women who want a long steady relationship out there. You just have to weed thru the bad ones first.

They can only do it if you let them. Until you are ready to marry the one dont get caught up in the games. You should date plenty of Woman, and then when you are ready for the one, start eliminating the ones that was fun, but not marriage material, and them keep doing that until you get too the best candidate

Oh I dunno,Maybe you gave her a reason?

Say this to yourself real slowly, "hmmmm maybe I gave her a reason" HA!

i was nothing but nice to her!

Awww quit going for the girls and start going for Women and just maybe you will get out of the game stage

You may be sincere in thinking that...you may even be right. But, generally...stuff like that doesn't happen without a reason...is all im saying. Unless she just started to play you from the beginning...that does happen sometimes.

oh jeez...move on...thousands of women...life is a head game

amen!

sometimes things appear as games to us.. and really they are completely innocent.. maybe she really did like you and then changed her mind.. you don't really know her thought process... all you know is it didn't work and its time to go out and find someone who is what you are looking for :)

If you haven't figured all of that out by now, you should probably just stick to your Playstation 3.

dont own one actually. to busy out enjoying life

Angel...it's stuff like that ( thinking " maybe I GAVE her a reason " ) that causes guys to be so damn insecure at times.

Three out of the four long term relationships I have been in....the woman has cheated on me.

The first time....yeah...probably my own fault to a good extent because at the time, I wasn't the most pleasant person to live with.

The NEXT two times....well...I thought, for a LONG time, that it was ( again ) my fault. It took quite some time for me to realize that it WASN'T my fault. I was just picking the wrong women.

I see a lot of women saying they want a guy who is secure with who he is....well...with someone telling him that even if he THOUGHT he was " nothing but nice " it may still be his own damn fault,that is what is going to make a guy start questioning himself EVERY time he even thinks about trying to meet someone.