What if your not his soulmate? An he is emotionally pulled by his soulmate?

What if that commitment is not with their soulmate? What if they were married before meeting their soulmate?

Wat if my soulmate was in fact my female best friend? wat if me and my boyfriend r destined to be together? wat if were not...?

Eitherway, thats a lot of 'wat ifs' I would rather concentrate on the here n now, and trust mines and his feelings, and act on that.

I'm not sure I believe there is such a thing as a "soulmate". But I do believe once you think you have found that someone special....what is the sense in continuing to look for men. That's like saying "Oh, I'm married; but maybe it won't work out". So my answer to your question is "NO."

If its your soulmate then they would want to be with you and not another......






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endless sex

Good point, but what if I am your soulmate...

What they discover later, does not cancel out that commitment.

"Soul mate" is such a vague concept.........could u really see people using the excuse that their spouse is not their soul mate and that they finally found theirs (it is used btw) as a reason and grounds to break up a family??

I wrote this in my previous post:

It is our society that confuses lust with love, romance with sex, beauty with man-made perfection.......

Love does not equate sex, and true love lets them go......to keep their commitment. Being a "soul-mate" does not give you claim to another.......

So if they were married, or you were married a divorce is in order? So that the two of you could be together.

I've got a question...........what if u found ur "soul mate" and married them.........

Then five years later found ur "soul mate" again, and divorced your partner.............and married ur new "soul mate".....

Then three years later that person believes they have found.........I think u get the hint.

Ultimately, a person can decide to end a relationship for any reason they choose, at least in the US. Don't make excuses for it, or try to ease ur conscience........just do it, and move on.

However, soul mates kind of brings in reincarnation, and reincarnation teaches that all relationship change......and that we truly have no claim to another.......

Someone who was your wife in a past life, could be your son in the next.........does that mean that you should marry your son??

What if a soulmate is a inherited true love emotion, and a instinctive feeling of being apart of each other. With that a natural sense of commitment. Out of love for your mate would you let them go to be with their soulmate?

and sometimes you just dont get to have your soulmate

I don't think every soulmate has to be a relationship. A soulmate to me can also be a close friend, advisor. I also think we can have multiple soulmates in life. I do think some soulmates can be that true love relationship.

Then i would come find you and kill you, as i am her boyfriend!

awwwwwww he's so cute and cuddly when he's jealous

Possibly.......if I really, truly, deeply believed that I had found mine, and they weren't it.

However, I have already been married once, for seven years............and IF ever I marry again, it will be to someone akin to being my soul mate. I would not get married with doubts of if I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this person...........and being married before, I know how to set boundaries so as not to allow others the chance to make me wonder about my relationship.

It all is a matter of ur life, ur partners life, and how u choose to live it.

I am rather honest with my partners.....my current partner knows where I stand on most anything..........and if I were to find my soul mate........it would be something we would discuss.........

Ultimately one must be true to themselves........but you also have to face the consequences to any decision that is made.

Now you run around bumping into walls and tellin the world about it...I do!!

Looks like to me if you found your soul mate you would not want to be with anyone else. That is if they see you as their soul mate also.

And if they are married then walk away there is more then one soul mate for each find the next one for that one is taken.

Well put... A soulmate can cause a few issues even when you're in a committed relationship with best intentions. Still not all soulmate maybe for personal relationships.