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Don't let one bad apple spoil the whole...
wait, did someone say Apple Martinis??? |
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pat's my friend, are ya ready for some football?
I'm sick of Dating sites |
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pat's my friend, are ya ready for some football?
I'm sick of Dating sites I sure am, waited all summer for it |
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same here.
pat's my friend, are ya ready for some football?
I'm sick of Dating sites I sure am, waited all summer for it |
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So I met Sherra yesterday afternoon at Grand Central Station. She's never been to the city so I was going to be her tour guide. I researched the best/cheapest option for her to travel from New Rochelle to NYC. It was an $11.00 Metro-North train. I left my house with 3 hours to spare just in case there were delays because I didn't want her to arrive at GCS before me. Her train was 30 minutes late. We were KIT via text the whole time. I was pleasantly surprised to see her because she's really pretty/sexy and nice and has a Southern accent which I love. She had responded to an ad which I placed in both the platonic and M4W sections of craigslist. She happened to reply to the platonic one, but I could totally tell from our emails, chats and texts that she was sizing me up for a date. She LOVES tall guys. So from Grand Central Station we walk to Central Park and I take her to the Alice in Wonderland statue that's in the park. She has a thing for Alice in Wonderland and she has a large tattoo on her back. She's psyched! We take pix and what not. We proceed to walk and talk and all that jazz. It's a great day and we're having a lot of fun. To make a long story short, I take over and start paying for everything: the meal, all the drinks, the cab ride from NYC to Bayside to get our party on there. I can totally tell she liked me from the way she was looking at me. When I assured her that she'd be safe crashing at friends house and I wouldn't be all over her she said "that's ok cuz I'm going to rape you" =) Anyway, so we get to the bar and I direct her to the bathroom. She's taking a long time to return so I go to check on her. I see her at the bottom of the stairwell making out with some guy. Some short guy. Some nobody. Anyway my **** was hurting after that. I really felt like **** and I wanted to leave her ass in the dust, but I just couldn't do that. We cont. to party all night which was mad stupid on my part cuz I spent insane loot and this afternoon when we woke up I gave her my LIRR ticket to get to the city and directed her on how to go home from there. I'm sick of dating. -B you should of left her at the bar you do not deserve that!! I know I went out of my way to meet this guy his kids loved me I thought We had a good relationship the last time we made love he called out LISA my Name is nowhere near lisa. He claims he doe not remember what he said b\c he had too much to drink The kicker that same Sunday morning LISA called him or Text him I am tired of dating jerks!! PS I love tall MEN |
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This sounds more like a "too much drinking" story than a "too much dating" one!
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Youre a better man than I...I would have left her ass there along with the bar tab. I would of done the same thing!!! |
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Sorry to hear, after reading that, im pretty happy being single, no offense. I totally agree 100% |
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try a tall fat chick.We appreciate a good man..Most pretty girls know it and will take men for a ride.
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So I met Sherra yesterday afternoon at Grand Central Station. She's never been to the city so I was going to be her tour guide. I researched the best/cheapest option for her to travel from New Rochelle to NYC. It was an $11.00 Metro-North train. I left my house with 3 hours to spare just in case there were delays because I didn't want her to arrive at GCS before me. Her train was 30 minutes late. We were KIT via text the whole time. I was pleasantly surprised to see her because she's really pretty/sexy and nice and has a Southern accent which I love. She had responded to an ad which I placed in both the platonic and M4W sections of craigslist. She happened to reply to the platonic one, but I could totally tell from our emails, chats and texts that she was sizing me up for a date. She LOVES tall guys. So from Grand Central Station we walk to Central Park and I take her to the Alice in Wonderland statue that's in the park. She has a thing for Alice in Wonderland and she has a large tattoo on her back. She's psyched! We take pix and what not. We proceed to walk and talk and all that jazz. It's a great day and we're having a lot of fun. To make a long story short, I take over and start paying for everything: the meal, all the drinks, the cab ride from NYC to Bayside to get our party on there. I can totally tell she liked me from the way she was looking at me. When I assured her that she'd be safe crashing at friends house and I wouldn't be all over her she said "that's ok cuz I'm going to rape you" =) Anyway, so we get to the bar and I direct her to the bathroom. She's taking a long time to return so I go to check on her. I see her at the bottom of the stairwell making out with some guy. Some short guy. Some nobody. Anyway my **** was hurting after that. I really felt like **** and I wanted to leave her ass in the dust, but I just couldn't do that. We cont. to party all night which was mad stupid on my part cuz I spent insane loot and this afternoon when we woke up I gave her my LIRR ticket to get to the city and directed her on how to go home from there. I'm sick of dating. -B |
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I think what you missed out on here was the woman that had the complete package. Looks, brains and honesty. I'm glad you didn't abandon the ditz after that episode. That speaks a great deal of your good heart. I would suggest a dating break... get that bad taste out of your mouth. Also stick to someone that has simple pleasures when meeting up the first time. Although all women appreciate a man that foots the bill, it is far wiser for you to not have to foot so great a bill until you determine she is worth the investment. I like to be sensible.
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mirror atleast let him buy you a drink first
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mirror atleast let him buy you a drink first |
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WOW!! Not all women are like this, maybe you just picked the wrong one! I think what you should have done was say something to her right in front of "the short guy." Why didn't you say something..you know communication is the best thing. I mean, she sounds like someone you would never want to see again...but I think you still should have said something. I am assuming that when you went back home...you weren't stupid enough to do anything with her? If so, you get the "boobie prize."
I would suggest that next time you go out on a date, don't be so free to pay for everything. Then that way if the date turns out bad, you won't have anything to complain about! HMMMM my thoughts are this, if a guy scores on a date does he think it was worth paying for everything? Plus does he tell all of his friends every detail?? HMM I think this is why I stopped dating...to much crap to put up with!!! |
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Humm sorry to hear of your luck with that one. But honestly heck I would have left her at the bar after I told the guy hope you get her back home. Sounds like she was only after one thing a good time that was paid for.
Humm heck I can't give up dating gotta start first lmao |
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Chilvary only goes so far, if the lady shows she is not one, don't treat her like one.
You only damaged YOUR pride, by still taking care of her. Bet she is back home telling another story of how she used another guy & has your pass to prove. Sorry for you learning the hard way, but we all have been there. Remember one thing; YOU can not be USED unless YOU allow it. Old Sage's words. |
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dating is a royal pain in the ***
was better in high school |
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You shouldn't have been so courtious with her after you seen her making out with the other guy. You should have walked up to her and said it's over and she can find her way home from there, then you should have made the best of the night because alot of women would have probably fell over you for your broken heart at that place. Next time, turn the negative into a positive and improvise!
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But why to write the names? I understand that it is not the happiness story but why to write her name. It was, it passed, you can not change anything, you don't know how she feels after this but told all world about her.
There are many nice and honest women. Find one of them! Good luck to you!:) |
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Sounds like a episode from Cheaters...
At least you found out what she was truly about early, and not later. |
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