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yep, it is waht matters and that wahy i'm doing this. it's been ten years this has been going on with her. and i'm at least if nothing else. Giving my son a chance in life to live his own life and not by somone pushing there issues on him
if you take his mother away from him, how are you giving him a chance to live his own life, and how are you not pushing your values on him? look back through this thread. i explaind what i was looking for. not taking my son away from her. just trying to keep her BF from my son. |
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So you are saying you plan to impregnate every female you date and then try to gain custody of the child? Or are you going to wait until they start acting crazy to impregnate them? Somehow this plan seems flawed.... No silly, help them. What i'm getting at is, it take people to be threaten to do anything some time for the beter in there life. if this what it take for some to pull there head out of there Ass. GOOD! I'm wondering if I need meds to truly understand what the hell he's trying to say. if your not understanding then ask. It's really not hard to ask question, now is it? Your use of the english language is extremely difficult to understand. |
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So you are saying you plan to impregnate every female you date and then try to gain custody of the child? Or are you going to wait until they start acting crazy to impregnate them? Somehow this plan seems flawed.... No silly, help them. What i'm getting at is, it take people to be threaten to do anything some time for the beter in there life. if this what it take for some to pull there head out of there Ass. GOOD! if you can type it and i can read it and everyone can understand what you said. Then your doing just fine. So what is it, that your not understanding? I'm wondering if I need meds to truly understand what the hell he's trying to say. if your not understanding then ask. It's really not hard to ask question, now is it? Your use of the english language is extremely difficult to understand. |
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sorry bro but by seeking treatment she is ok....,..if the doctors thought she was a threat to herself or anyone else...she would be committed!!! therefore by brining any mental health issues into court it just makes you look petty!!!! if you truely want custody.....do whats right and be there for him......be stable!!! and have support in place. its not a battle, its about doing whats best for the child. yes I know what you've been through...... I have too!!! \just say if ya need anyone to talk to I have been there too!!! sorry bro but by seeking treatment she is ok....,..if the doctors thought she was a threat to herself or anyone else...she would be committed!!! therefore by brining any mental health issues into court it just makes you look petty!!!! It's knowing that she is not mentally stable in making the right choices in my sons life by sating with a mentally abusive and physical man is whats going to look bad on her side because this guy has been in and out of jail for at least 6 years and getting booted out of recovery homes etc etc. And No she is not seeking help. this is so she loks ok in cort and fater this in her head if this don';t work out for me. She will stop taking the meds. This is how this woman is. :
my kids are with me full time........but the courts gave her custody.........4 lawyers.....my entire retirement....and enough stress to kill 6 ordinary men...,. and in the end they are with me because I was there for them.....and not a threat to her. it isnt about the fight........its about whats best for the child!!! I had to let her realize she coukldnt handle |
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So you are saying you plan to impregnate every female you date and then try to gain custody of the child? Or are you going to wait until they start acting crazy to impregnate them? Somehow this plan seems flawed.... No silly, help them. What i'm getting at is, it take people to be threaten to do anything some time for the beter in there life. if this what it take for some to pull there head out of there Ass. GOOD! I'm wondering if I need meds to truly understand what the hell he's trying to say. if your not understanding then ask. It's really not hard to ask question, now is it? Your use of the english language is extremely difficult to understand. Ya bro, I have to agree with the lady.. You seem like a nice guy going through some tough sh*t but you reaaaaallly need spell check or a dictionary...It makes it hard to follow when every third word is misspelled... Sorry just trying to help you out.. |
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Shadow, just make sure you have evidence and documentation, even if it's just dates and personal observations, recollections of events and conversations, to back you up so you can take care of your son in the best possible manner.
I hope she gets and stays with the help she needs. In the interim, requesting a least SUPERVISED visitations will make you less out to be a vengeful, scornful type. And, if you go with supervised, KNOW ahead of time what kind of supervision, who supervises, etc. This way it won't seem so much like you are taking a baby AWAY from his Mother. Best wishes to you and your son. 
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This whole thread needs a good dose of meds.
I think I just became bipolar reading it!! Let's party 
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Well I think what some are not gathering it is not so much the mother you have the problem with. It is the fact that the man she is involved with is abusive and a heavy drinker. They have had many domestic abuse reports on them. And TheShadow (Mike) does not want his son to grow up with that man around his son. The man takes it upon his self to beat on the mother and sooner or later that will finally befall upon one of the kids. Which one do you think he will go after first his own child or the one that don't belong to him?
So now with that in mind some might think different of Mike's reasons for taking the mother to court in the long run. Plus yes she does need to be on her meds. He is not saying she is a bad mother just that the choice of living with the man she chooses too is the wrong environment to raise his child in. |
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Well I think what some are not gathering it is not so much the mother you have the problem with. It is the fact that the man she is involved with is abusive and a heavy drinker. They have had many domestic abuse reports on them. And TheShadow (Mike) does not want his son to grow up with that man around his son. The man takes it upon his self to beat on the mother and sooner or later that will finally befall upon one of the kids. Which one do you think he will go after first his own child or the one that don't belong to him? So now with that in mind some might think different of Mike's reasons for taking the mother to court in the long run. Plus yes she does need to be on her meds. He is not saying she is a bad mother just that the choice of living with the man she chooses too is the wrong environment to raise his child in. I agree with you on this, and Shadow, if you have public data info on this man to show the judge, all the better. And, I can only hope that when/if you have seen your ex injured that you called Child Protective Services. |
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Well I think what some are not gathering it is not so much the mother you have the problem with. It is the fact that the man she is involved with is abusive and a heavy drinker. They have had many domestic abuse reports on them. And TheShadow (Mike) does not want his son to grow up with that man around his son. The man takes it upon his self to beat on the mother and sooner or later that will finally befall upon one of the kids. Which one do you think he will go after first his own child or the one that don't belong to him? So now with that in mind some might think different of Mike's reasons for taking the mother to court in the long run. Plus yes she does need to be on her meds. He is not saying she is a bad mother just that the choice of living with the man she chooses too is the wrong environment to raise his child in. I agree with you on this, and Shadow, if you have public data info on this man to show the judge, all the better. And, I can only hope that when/if you have seen your ex injured that you called Child Protective Services. |
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Ok, knowing both there back grounds and they both have records. I wont even really have to bring that up. It will show it in the records. I'm not looking for full custody. looking to get her help and keep my son away from her BF.
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good luck keep fighting...
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Well I think what some are not gathering it is not so much the mother you have the problem with. It is the fact that the man she is involved with is abusive and a heavy drinker. They have had many domestic abuse reports on them. And TheShadow (Mike) does not want his son to grow up with that man around his son. The man takes it upon his self to beat on the mother and sooner or later that will finally befall upon one of the kids. Which one do you think he will go after first his own child or the one that don't belong to him? So now with that in mind some might think different of Mike's reasons for taking the mother to court in the long run. Plus yes she does need to be on her meds. He is not saying she is a bad mother just that the choice of living with the man she chooses too is the wrong environment to raise his child in. Thanks Kirsti. This is why people need to read through the thread before they reply 
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Well I think what some are not gathering it is not so much the mother you have the problem with. It is the fact that the man she is involved with is abusive and a heavy drinker. They have had many domestic abuse reports on them. And TheShadow (Mike) does not want his son to grow up with that man around his son. The man takes it upon his self to beat on the mother and sooner or later that will finally befall upon one of the kids. Which one do you think he will go after first his own child or the one that don't belong to him? So now with that in mind some might think different of Mike's reasons for taking the mother to court in the long run. Plus yes she does need to be on her meds. He is not saying she is a bad mother just that the choice of living with the man she chooses too is the wrong environment to raise his child in. I agree with you on this, and Shadow, if you have public data info on this man to show the judge, all the better. And, I can only hope that when/if you have seen your ex injured that you called Child Protective Services. I do have the last Domestic violence reprt. the man was drun and trying to tak her bank card and thats what started it. He was picked up infront of my house all beat up too. and he keyed my truck. Anyway, he has a mile long record that is going to help me out alot. |
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Humm well Big Guy you did not make it clear actually and I wanted to make sure all understood. Where you were coming from. And yes there are records of the abuse and the guy does have a record and not a very good one at that. So Mike I do hope it all comes out the way that is best for your son. Keep the faith and stand your grounds for what is right for your son.
 Ya know I'm right here for ya if ya need me only a phone call away.
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Humm well Big Guy you did not make it clear actually and I wanted to make sure all understood. Where you were coming from. And yes there are records of the abuse and the guy does have a record and not a very good one at that. So Mike I do hope it all comes out the way that is best for your son. Keep the faith and stand your grounds for what is right for your son. Ya know I'm right here for ya if ya need me only a phone call away.
I know, i din't want to go to much into it, but to late lol. I know i should explain more sometimes. It's just me. Hm, but it would be nice to see people to ask questins if they'er not understanding whats going on. Anyway. I think i have a hell of a chance of keeping this man away and things working out for the better for me and my ex as far as taking care of our son. |
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Yeppiers just do what you know is right for your son!!
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