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Topic: Having a bit of a problem
trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 08/25/08 10:01 PM
maybe she wouldn't be looking for other guys if you told her the truth... You have a point....I think you're right...

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 08/25/08 10:03 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 08/25/08 10:06 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy well if she was doing that, she'd be playing games....and I'm not into game playing. No matter how much I like her, if I found out she was playing games.....it would be goodbye...

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 08/25/08 10:06 PM Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Mon 08/25/08 10:07 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy Ewww....that kinda falls under the " games " crap. Dude...just tell her. You will know one way or the other pretty quickly. Heh. You beat me to that one....lmao

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Mon 08/25/08 10:06 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy that's what I'm thinking, especially since the guy is "from your home town"... could be just a test that you might've failed by not showing any jealousy... lol

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 08/25/08 10:06 PM
it's her loss, you don't "deserve it"...for you did nothing wrong, see it's your strength not a weakness, so tell her how you feel, and then if it goes south, then moofooga's got a great idea that can be used in a healing process. Wise Darkowl1! thanks, he's a great friend, and i try my best to be there.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Mon 08/25/08 10:07 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy well if she was doing that, she'd be playing games....and I'm not into game playing. No matter how much I like her, if I found out she was playing games.....it would be goodbye... yes, but she could easily say the same of you not telling her your feelings... that you're playing games in keeping it a secret, expecting her to read your mind...

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 08/25/08 10:07 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy well if she was doing that, she'd be playing games....and I'm not into game playing. No matter how much I like her, if I found out she was playing games.....it would be goodbye... maybe she's trying to figer out if you r interested if you r not she'll give this other man a chance it doesn't have to be a game

countrymike Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 132	Mon 08/25/08 10:08 PM
This is way to simple...In poker we have a saying , it goes just like life, if you don't play the hand you cant win the pot!! Sometimes you gotta play the hand and risk it.!

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 08/25/08 10:08 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy Ewww....that kinda falls under the " games " crap. Dude...just tell her. You will know one way or the other pretty quickly. Heh. You beat me to that one....lmao Great Minds think alike!!!

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 08/25/08 10:09 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy that's what I'm thinking, especially since the guy is "from your home town"... could be just a test that you might've failed by not showing any jealousy... lol she has a very valid point......makes me wonder.....i hope not though

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 08/25/08 10:09 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy well if she was doing that, she'd be playing games....and I'm not into game playing. No matter how much I like her, if I found out she was playing games.....it would be goodbye... yes, but she could easily say the same of you not telling her your feelings... that you're playing games in keeping it a secret, expecting her to read your mind... I'm not keeping it from her to play games embers....I'm keeping it from her because I'm scared.....there is a difference

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 08/25/08 10:10 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy Ewww....that kinda falls under the " games " crap. Dude...just tell her. You will know one way or the other pretty quickly. Heh. You beat me to that one....lmao Great Minds think alike!!! Yep. But I DO see the point that Embers and Tina made s well...lol

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 08/25/08 10:10 PM
This is way to simple...In poker we have a saying , it goes just like life, if you don't play the hand you cant win the pot!! Sometimes you gotta play the hand and risk it.! Very good point...very good

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 08/25/08 10:12 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy Ewww....that kinda falls under the " games " crap. Dude...just tell her. You will know one way or the other pretty quickly. Heh. You beat me to that one....lmao Great Minds think alike!!! Yep. But I DO see the point that Embers and Tina made s well...lol I guess I do too but, it would be pretty childish....don't you think???

oceanprince Joined Wed 09/05/07 Posts: 95	Mon 08/25/08 10:14 PM
i believe the root cause of your anguish is the fear of being rejected, not so much that " you don't think that she's ready for a relationship". surely, you know that the right thing to do is to confront your fear and lay your soul and heart bare at this lady's feet..come what may. afraid of rejection or as some will say " being shy" is not ok. how will she ever know that you care for her if you keep it locked away inside you forever?

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/25/08 10:14 PM
its possible she's feelin you out wondering if it would bother you if she was interested in another guy well if she was doing that, she'd be playing games....and I'm not into game playing. No matter how much I like her, if I found out she was playing games.....it would be goodbye... Then don't play games with her. Tell her how you feel.

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Mon 08/25/08 10:17 PM
Well, if she is on this site...I think you already did tell her...If she looks at this post

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 08/25/08 10:17 PM
Well, I'm goin to bed. Fly, you get back to me on that frog thing if you need it. I'm here for ya!

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 08/25/08 10:18 PM
Well, I'm goin to bed. Fly, you get back to me on that frog thing if you need it. I'm here for ya! Thank you Ruth....I will...sweet dreams...