I don't know. I like to think I'm unique!!

I'm generally ready around the third date. The soonest I've slept with someone after meeting them was on the second night we spent together (which turned into a 5-year relationship). I have no qualms about sleeping with someone on the first date in theory; it just takes me longer to adjust to a new partner.

As to a "respectable" amount of time, the entire premise there confuses me. Why shouldn't people have safe, protected, consensual sex as soon as they're both ready? I know plenty of people who will get busy on the first date, and I find that perfectly respectable. Why wouldn't it be?

oh god,,,another 29 yo vergin,,,,,,,,,lol just wonderering which hole is vrgin,,,,,,,,maby ear????

My rule is a couple of months but there have been those few exceptions..

I'm with solestria on this one.

I've had sex on the first date, I've waited weeks, I've waited months. The two relationships that I've had that lasted over 10 years each - both were sex on the first date. As long as everyone's safe and happy why not? Sex is so much FUN!

I agree. Does it really matter? If your both horny, and have feelings for eachother, it works out. I've never met a guy or girl who lost any amount of respect for the girl or guy because they had sex with them on the first, second or third date. Usually you get the respect loss from sleeping with people you don't care about.

Realisiticly, if you both have a good feeling about eachother and trust eachother enough to have sex, i doubt it will damage anything. Infact, a year into the relastionship, i doubt you will remember which day or number of times you gave it up. Though i understand some girls don't because they don't want to see themselfs as sluts. Most guys that are honorable, look past that and see who you are and decide, most dishonorable guys like sluts. So it doesn't matter to them.

It depends on the person and if there is a mutual feeling involved.

Soonest??? Before the 1st date is even over.

depends....on if there is alcohol involved.

But usually, if I am interested in the guy for more than sexual purposes, I will wait. If i just want to know what he's like in bed, I might be a little more liberal

SOME,,,,DO-IT before they even MEET!!!!!!lol



And OTHER'S want at least three months to wait so they can get rid of their boyfriend or husband,,,,,

it takes as long as it takes

it won't be right off that bat that's for sure...
this ain't no nick-knack

you want this loving you have to show me a lot of love and respect

and if the guy is timing our first intimate encounter, then he has a problem

2nd date has seem to be my unconcious rule these days.............. i did that with my current bf and we have been together for a year.......

No rules, no time limits, just whenever we happen to do it

Marry me!

i'd like to remember the feeling of sex it's been to long for me.