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Topic: iS IT SO HARD?!
SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Tue 08/19/08 12:48 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal?

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Tue 08/19/08 12:53 AM Edited by Spaceman2008 on Tue 08/19/08 12:53 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? I think its because we are built different...guys are built with a drive with hormones that rage sometimes out of control, and a need has to be met. I can control these urges to an extent, but it takes a lot of discipline...but every guy is built different.

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Tue 08/19/08 12:55 AM
For me no, in fact I intend to wait for marriage to actually have sex for the first time.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Tue 08/19/08 12:58 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? I think its because we are built different...guys are built with a drive with hormones that rage sometimes out of control, and a need has to be met. I can control these urges to an extent, but it takes a lot of discipline...but every guy is built different. Thank you... we need more like you... if your control is tolerable for over a few dates of course... ha ha ha

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Tue 08/19/08 12:59 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? Have you looked in the mirror lately....you do realize that are irresistale right. Yeah...i'm def not trying to be cute or anything.

Golden Joined Fri 09/01/06 Posts: 31	Tue 08/19/08 01:00 AM
I prefer to wait as well, But the drive is deffinatly there! Some guys just cant controll them selves!!

transientmind Joined Sat 03/10/07 Posts: 4827	Tue 08/19/08 01:00 AM
Nope. Depends on how deep a relationship you want. Some men are more deeper than others.

YouveBeenServed Joined Sun 08/17/08 Posts: 118	Tue 08/19/08 01:01 AM
It's not a problem for me at all. I've actually found it hard for the woman to slow it down a bit though. However, I am not going to stop her.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24661	Tue 08/19/08 01:01 AM
Someone gonna Hump or what?

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Tue 08/19/08 01:02 AM
Someone gonna Hump or what?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 08/19/08 01:03 AM Edited by Gypsy41 on Tue 08/19/08 01:05 AM


Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 08/19/08 01:07 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? why wait?a guy has to know if the woman is worth another date or not

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Tue 08/19/08 01:08 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? Have you looked in the mirror lately....you do realize that are irresistale right. Yeah...i'm def not trying to be cute or anything. Hmmm... are you sure... i felt a little blushing coming on on my end there... he he he

YouveBeenServed Joined Sun 08/17/08 Posts: 118	Tue 08/19/08 01:08 AM
For me no, in fact I intend to wait for marriage to actually have sex for the first time. And that is actually a plus in your book. I wish I would have waited some times. Like I said, some times. I have many memories, learned many lessons, gained knowledge that makes me a walking guide to being a master in the bedroom, and I have received 2 very adorable children. But, your future bride would cherish the fact that you waited. Like I said, waiting is very respectful to your future spouse.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Tue 08/19/08 01:08 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? why wait?a guy has to know if the woman is worth another date or not Ew... so you base all your dates on how far she will put out on each??? ha ha ha hmmmm

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Tue 08/19/08 01:11 AM
stereotyping uumm !! thats ok !! some women think all men are a like and can't wait to get our hands on ya !! I like things to simmer , before I have my meal !!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 08/19/08 01:11 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? why wait?a guy has to know if the woman is worth another date or not Ew... so you base all your dates on how far she will put out on each??? ha ha ha hmmmm yep,depending how much she puts out sexually shows how much she will put into the relationship

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24661	Tue 08/19/08 01:11 AM Edited by Beachfarmer on Tue 08/19/08 01:12 AM
Yes it's SO HARD....and when you think of it being SO HARD.... ...is it easy for you to..ya know...just cuddle on the couch and watch "You've Got Mail"?

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Tue 08/19/08 01:12 AM
Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? I've gone out on dates with quite a few guys who couldn't just give a goodnight kiss, or lean in for a kiss, let the kiss happen and then take it slow. They always try and push it on me, and when I say no to sex, they leave. Eventually if a relationship develops sex does happen, but not right when you first meet someone. I mean me, I can go without sex. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone rather than jump at the chance to have sex. If I wanted that I wouldn't join a site like this. I'm not saying I don't like sex and that I don't enjoy it. I would just enjoy it more if I went out with a guy and he just gave me a kiss goodnight and we waited a bit before fooling around. Guys, is it a problem for you to wait to have sex with a girl? What IS the deal? why wait?a guy has to know if the woman is worth another date or not Ew... so you base all your dates on how far she will put out on each??? ha ha ha hmmmm yep,depending how much she puts out sexually shows how much she will put into the relationship wow... interesting...

YouveBeenServed Joined Sun 08/17/08 Posts: 118	Tue 08/19/08 01:12 AM
Yes it's SO HARD....and when you think of it being SO HARD.... ...is it easy for you to..ya know...just cuddle on the couch and watch "You've Got Mail"?