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Topic: I WANNA DO THIS GUY...BADLY!
TwoTallOne Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 16854	Thu 08/14/08 01:17 PM
I am as insane as the rest, BUT I say wait as well.... its only date 2 or 3 .... BUT hey thats just me ... only you know your situation right ?..

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Thu 08/14/08 01:21 PM Edited by luv2roknroll on Thu 08/14/08 01:23 PM
Are you in it for just the sex or do you want more from him? If it's just for sex then maybe you should. If you want more from him, then wait a couple more dates and see how things go. Make sure he wants what you want. Follow your heart... So if I jump right into bed with you, your still gonna respect me.Oops busted ya TC_08!

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Thu 08/14/08 01:23 PM
id like to be all thoughtful about your question... ya know, if you aren't sure then you should probably wait...blah blah blah. but i cant. i say you give him the best night he has ever had!! do it! You GO girl!!!! MY kinda woman!!!!

BrooklineBaby Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 469	Thu 08/14/08 01:25 PM
In total honest... only you know if you should or not... don't base it on whether or not others say yes or no.... I agree COMPLETELY........just be careful hon

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Thu 08/14/08 01:34 PM
Ok, I met this guy...here amazingly so..(thanks Mingle), and im friggen crazy about him! And the feeling is mutual. Tonite will be only the second time we've ever met...but the chemistry between us is insane!! Should I do him, or should I wait? IF YOU DO,THEN YOURE BOTH FOOLS!

SVImager Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 579	Thu 08/14/08 01:47 PM
Do it.. because you're adult and he's an adult. He didn't go for it the first two dates??? what??? He must be one of those good people that you want to keep for long term relationship. If Long term is what you want... you have to listen to Fade.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Thu 08/14/08 01:55 PM
Well guys ive taken it all in.... and I agree with Kevin. "Just wait, and ill know when the time is right". I guess the loses again with me...lol. Thanks for the input!

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Thu 08/14/08 01:58 PM
Ok, I met this guy...here amazingly so..(thanks Mingle), and im friggen crazy about him! And the feeling is mutual. Tonite will be only the second time we've ever met...but the chemistry between us is insane!! Should I do him, or should I wait? Wait girlfriend. Just put it on slow simmer & take your time. Totaly agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!There can be no regrets that way.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Thu 08/14/08 02:06 PM
Wait, wait, no, don't stop. wait wait wait. AHHHHHHH. ZZZZZZZZZZZZZ Wait, go slow, whats the hurry? Feels great to want somebody like that and to be wanted like that. Go slow.

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Thu 08/14/08 02:34 PM
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH FOR GODS SAKE,WHY ASK? YOURE A BIG GIRL,ARENT YOU? Do what you want to do,and dont look back!!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Thu 08/14/08 04:13 PM
Check it out!!! All the guys say, "DO IT! DO IT!". And all the girls say, "WAIT". The sexes think so differently. Yeah, and thats because there thinking, make them suffer

30andbored Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 658	Thu 08/14/08 04:15 PM
Check it out!!! All the guys say, "DO IT! DO IT!". And all the girls say, "WAIT". The sexes think so differently. actually I thinnk if you wait it usually helps a relationship go farther . . but easier said than done . . I have been in the situation before and didn't wait . . and then I always doubted stuff because of it . . anywho thats just me

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Thu 08/14/08 04:21 PM
Build up trust and respect for each other first, he will appreciate you more, and you will be grateful that he does not think of you as "easy"

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Thu 08/14/08 04:26 PM
I'm a guy and I'd wait it out.

Lord_Psycho Joined Thu 06/26/08 Posts: 14878	Thu 08/14/08 05:58 PM
thats wat they all say they make u feel good at first till they do u then we will c if ull hear about him again!

SVImager Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 579	Fri 08/15/08 07:53 AM
A guy can't wait... otherwise she would think he isn't interested in her or think he is gay. It is the job of the man to escalate the relationship. A woman shouldn't have to do that... it will make her look desperate and easy.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Fri 08/15/08 08:02 AM
fukc his brains out...and practice safer sex

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Fri 08/15/08 08:06 AM
go for it i was in the same situation...our relationship lasted 2 1/2 years after our first encounter

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 08/15/08 09:37 AM
Ok, I met this guy...here amazingly so..(thanks Mingle), and im friggen crazy about him! And the feeling is mutual. Tonite will be only the second time we've ever met...but the chemistry between us is insane!! Should I do him, or should I wait? Wait. Then tap him on the third date.

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Fri 08/15/08 12:23 PM
Wait until you don't have any questions. The fact you do means you can't fully enjoy it. So let the pressure on the dam build up and when it gives way prepare for the flood. There are some questions which should not be posed. This is one of those. Do what is right for you. Peer pressure to either do it not do it is for when you were a child in school. You are an adult now. You'll know.