i want an Opinion . i was see'n this guy for around 6 months or so. i
broke up wit him and when i brung it up he said we weren't ever in a
relationship. i lived with him 5 out 7 days. i also wore one of his
work shirts to work. he would also say things like i need to be in
boyfriend training again, this was before anything ever happen though.
then he had said at one point that he wasn't sleeping wit no one else.
also i had cloths and tooth brush and a hair brush at his place. he paid
a car paymen for me you know all the goodies. when we ever planned
anything we'd work around eachothers schedules. i thought that was a
relationship. theres a lot more but i thought i'd keep it discreet. i
don't have a lot of exprence in them but i know what they are and to me
thats what it was. i would like your Opinion

I would have said that there was a relationship between the both of you.
If it would have been me and you (for example), I would have said that
there was a relationship after that much time.

sounds like since you ended it, he just said that to hurt you. It sounds
very much like a relationship to me. Some men can't handle the fact that
they are not the ones who end the relationship, so they have to be
like---what relationship? I myself, wouldn't worry to much about him, he
sounds like an immature person, just find someone else that would suit
you better. But if he calls you talking about the relationship, I would
throw it back at him about it not being a relationship.

I would have to agree with you also unsure the guy pride were hurt for
sheena broke up with him and he just made it seem like they were just
friends with benefits may be and that you didn't mean all that much to
him when the fact is you really did and he can't deal with it.

oh i love him very much, but like unsure said he's immature. i need
someone who'll take care of me. but if he's going to let pride get in
the way then i don'e need him.

Girl,
You were in a relationship.
No doubt about it.
He just said that shit cos he was
hurt and wanted to say something to hurt you
and because he's a guy
and we men are some fucked up
people sometimes!

if he realizes how much he needs you, he'd treasure you more for sure.

are you giving in too much to him?

it sounds like he might be taking you for granted.

a relationship cuts both ways, if it's too single-sided, obviously
someone is gonna end up hurt/.

Andrew Wee
www.WhoIsAndrewWee.com
www.myspace.com/andreww38

hey girl cut him lose there is more fishes in the sea.

get rid of him!!

I am so glad u agree.

Experience shall be your teacher hun...but I can't opinion on this one
and I want to steer clear...but advice is great!!! ^_^ hope you get what
you want in life...

Thank You, Chismah

Hey know problem...I'm glad I was able to throw in some advice & my 2
cents!! ^_^ cha chingggg...

Ask yourself this question.

If he were to say he wants to come back and be with you. What would your
response be?

If you can't answer that then you must get over him. And don't look for
substitutes. You will only hurt them. Many people who are hurt in a
relationship go out and find either someone to sleep with and or try to
use othere's to get even with society.

That will only hurt you in the long run. Your haterd will only bring you
down and maybe a possible Mr. Right.

Peace.

Ghostrecon