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Topic: He doesn't support you financially.
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/09/08 12:13 PM
If you're a woman, would you stay with a man who didn't support you financially?

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 08/09/08 12:14 PM
I don't need to be supported financially.. But he can't be there emotionally, as my best friend then thats a problem...

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Sat 08/09/08 12:15 PM
Mine doesnt even support his kids and we havent been together for years.....Can I hear a "LOSER"

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sat 08/09/08 12:15 PM
Done that. Not pretty. I've been working since I was 13. It would have been really cool if I could have had time off when the kids were young. With the second hubby & child, I also cleaned houses on top of my full time job to make ends meet. And he was the one with the college degree!!!

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Sat 08/09/08 12:17 PM
I could go on and on with this but I am just gonna say we are in this together or not at all now take a hike...and i would get the rolling pin out and chase him off get...get...get....

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 08/09/08 12:17 PM
i did? with my ex hubby and i did with a old bf... im not a push over anymore.. the guy better have some kind of job as im not going to pull%100 without them helping

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Sat 08/09/08 12:19 PM
Done that. Not pretty. I've been working since I was 13. It would have been really cool if I could have had time off when the kids were young. With the second hubby & child, I also cleaned houses on top of my full time job to make ends meet. And he was the one with the college degree!!! that is just wrong, I helped raise my kids as well as putting the food on the table

duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Sat 08/09/08 12:19 PM
if he cant atleast pay for a movie or dinner or when we go out every other time then he's gone!

ladylily29 Joined Sun 08/03/08 Posts: 3	Sat 08/09/08 12:20 PM
I have always been supported, helped out when asked to.My family believes the man should bring home the bacon and the women is to work the home,kids and help the man on the farm,lol. I believe that way too but I also believe in working to help out your man with bring home some of the bacon,lol.

ReconParty19 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 461	Sat 08/09/08 12:21 PM
<---Is a male Gold Digger. You chicks wanted ERA so you got it enjoy!

duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Sat 08/09/08 12:21 PM
I have always been supported, helped out when asked to.My family believes the man should bring home the bacon and the women is to work the home,kids and help the man on the farm,lol. I believe that way too but I also believe in working to help out your man with bring home some of the bacon,lol. but what if your man leaves you and you have no bacon then what?

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 08/09/08 12:23 PM
No one ever HAS supported me, nor do I expect them to. But I won't support him either--it has to be a team effort.

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Sat 08/09/08 12:23 PM
<---Is a male Gold Digger. You chicks wanted ERA so you got it enjoy! I'll be your sugar moma but you at least have to clean da house...i mean i could make one tiny exception....

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sat 08/09/08 12:23 PM
<---Is a male Gold Digger. You chicks wanted ERA so you got it enjoy! Equal rights means the ability for a woman to make her own choices, silly, not necessarily to indulge your concepts of the ERA!!

mekikis Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 229	Sat 08/09/08 12:24 PM
It is love and affection that is more important than supported financially

ReconParty19 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 461	Sat 08/09/08 12:26 PM
<---Is a male Gold Digger. You chicks wanted ERA so you got it enjoy! I'll be your sugar moma but you at least have to clean da house...i mean i could make one tiny exception.... Yoir on I have a maid come every week.

TheLonelyWalker Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11870	Sat 08/09/08 12:26 PM
why does a love relationship has to be based upon financial support? that is why marriage by the state is such a disgrace. the only ones who need to be supported are the children bore by the couple. the spouses are adult independant individuals who need to be able to financially support individually because as far as things are right now getting married and divorced is as easier as changing underwear.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/09/08 12:26 PM
Very interesting

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Sat 08/09/08 12:27 PM
<---Is a male Gold Digger. You chicks wanted ERA so you got it enjoy! I'll be your sugar moma but you at least have to clean da house...i mean i could make one tiny exception.... Yoir on I have a maid come every week. so then you dont gotta do nothing...but ...erm

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 08/09/08 12:28 PM
Done that. Not pretty. I've been working since I was 13. It would have been really cool if I could have had time off when the kids were young. With the second hubby & child, I also cleaned houses on top of my full time job to make ends meet. And he was the one with the college degree!!! that is just wrong, I helped raise my kids as well as putting the food on the table The way it SHOULD be! Kudos to you!