Topic: How to make a man recover his selfsteem?
no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:38 PM




lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM?



A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE?


Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself...
your so smartflowerforyou

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:39 PM




lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM?



A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE?


Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself...
i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED.

wiley's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:40 PM


i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED.


huh

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:41 PM





lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM?



A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE?


Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself...
i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED.


Ok PLEASE tell me why in the world I would want to forget myself??? Are you really believing what you're typing?? So you're saying that to be in love we lose who we are and that's ok b/c for the time it feels good??? What about when it's over? Obviously it's usally over b/c we're all here? So what then???

wiley's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:42 PM

Ok PLEASE tell me why in the world I would want to forget myself??? Are you really believing what you're typing?? So you're saying that to be in love we lose who we are and that's ok b/c for the time it feels good??? What about when it's over? Obviously it's usally over b/c we're all here? So what then???


Not to mention... how do you build a lasting relationship on that anyway? noway

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:43 PM


Ok PLEASE tell me why in the world I would want to forget myself??? Are you really believing what you're typing?? So you're saying that to be in love we lose who we are and that's ok b/c for the time it feels good??? What about when it's over? Obviously it's usally over b/c we're all here? So what then???


Not to mention... how do you build a lasting relationship on that anyway? noway


another point as well Wiley..

thank you Wolf flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:43 PM



i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED.


huh
BELIEVE ME ...SOMETIMES WE APPROACH OURSELVES ASKING,,,WHY i WAS SO STUPID, WHY I DID THAT , I COULD NOT REALIZE IT.....IN LOVE IT IS AN STATE OF MIND,,,tHANKS FOR CHATTING i AM TEASING SOME OF YOU ...PLAYING WITH WORDS AND JOKING AROUND, DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY WE ARE JUST KIND LIKE TRYING TO GO TO BED AND WE JUST CAN NOT SLEEP....GOOD NIGHT AND THANKS SO MUCH BYE BYE.

wiley's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:43 PM




i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED.


huh
BELIEVE ME ...SOMETIMES WE APPROACH OURSELVES ASKING,,,WHY i WAS SO STUPID, WHY I DID THAT , I COULD NOT REALIZE IT.....IN LOVE IT IS AN STATE OF MIND,,,tHANKS FOR CHATTING i AM TEASING SOME OF YOU ...PLAYING WITH WORDS AND JOKING AROUND, DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY WE ARE JUST KIND LIKE TRYING TO GO TO BED AND WE JUST CAN NOT SLEEP....GOOD NIGHT AND THANKS SO MUCH BYE BYE.


We? huh

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:45 PM





i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED.


huh
BELIEVE ME ...SOMETIMES WE APPROACH OURSELVES ASKING,,,WHY i WAS SO STUPID, WHY I DID THAT , I COULD NOT REALIZE IT.....IN LOVE IT IS AN STATE OF MIND,,,tHANKS FOR CHATTING i AM TEASING SOME OF YOU ...PLAYING WITH WORDS AND JOKING AROUND, DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY WE ARE JUST KIND LIKE TRYING TO GO TO BED AND WE JUST CAN NOT SLEEP....GOOD NIGHT AND THANKS SO MUCH BYE BYE.


We? huh
WHO IS WE? YOU AND WHO?smokin

wiley's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:46 PM
Sadly...

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:48 PM
the newer people always often start conflict....so sadfrown

vlpete's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:50 PM
way out therefrustrated

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:52 PM
I just love when someone defends their position until a point that it makes not sense and then ALL OF THE SUDDEN they are just messing with us... Cracks me the hell up...

vlpete's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:54 PM

I just love when someone defends their position until a point that it makes not sense and then ALL OF THE SUDDEN they are just messing with us... Cracks me the hell up...

hey indn, you were right on track, but it is her loss

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:54 PM
Naw you just looked at the number of posts not the start date :wink:

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:20 PM
Edited by littleredhen on Wed 08/06/08 11:20 PM
I am good at helping men regain thier confidence, then as soon as they do, they think they are too good for me & leave.ohwell

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:26 PM


I just love when someone defends their position until a point that it makes not sense and then ALL OF THE SUDDEN they are just messing with us... Cracks me the hell up...

hey indn, you were right on track, but it is her loss


Pete, some can't stand by their beliefs.. If you run that easily and quickly then you don't even believe in what you're saying...

jtitol's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:37 PM
flowerforyou drinker smokin drinker smokin

Amathyst2's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:08 PM
I think it depends on the person. Happiness depends on many things, but mostly on you. If someone wants to regain their self-esteem, then they have to work on it themselves. Others cannot fix someone else's esteem issues. JMO

no photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:54 PM

We know how to make a woman recover her selfsteem, but men we do not know ...as a woman I am curious


self esteem comes from one's self
no one can give you self esteem it comes from within

never want to depend on anyone to validate MY self worthnoway