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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself... |
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself... |
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i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED. |
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lET ME ASK AGAIN.....WOULD LOVE CURE LOW SELFSTEEM? A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Yes I have and HE did not fix my self-esteem.. I did that... I am the only one in control of what I feel or think or do... Love is wonderful but it doesn't make us who we are.. If anyone thinks it does then they don't believe in theirself and that is where they need to work on things... not only can you not be loved until you love yourself, but you cannot love, if you do not love yourself... Ok PLEASE tell me why in the world I would want to forget myself??? Are you really believing what you're typing?? So you're saying that to be in love we lose who we are and that's ok b/c for the time it feels good??? What about when it's over? Obviously it's usally over b/c we're all here? So what then??? |
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Ok PLEASE tell me why in the world I would want to forget myself??? Are you really believing what you're typing?? So you're saying that to be in love we lose who we are and that's ok b/c for the time it feels good??? What about when it's over? Obviously it's usally over b/c we're all here? So what then??? Not to mention... how do you build a lasting relationship on that anyway? |
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Ok PLEASE tell me why in the world I would want to forget myself??? Are you really believing what you're typing?? So you're saying that to be in love we lose who we are and that's ok b/c for the time it feels good??? What about when it's over? Obviously it's usally over b/c we're all here? So what then??? Not to mention... how do you build a lasting relationship on that anyway? another point as well Wiley.. thank you Wolf |
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i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED. |
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i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED. We? |
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i AGREE ....BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOVE ...YOU FORGET YOURSELF, AND YOU JUST LOVE, ENJOY, HARDLY REALIZE THINGS, SO THE LOW SELFSTEEM COMES RIGHT AFTER YOU BROKE UP OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPEN, BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN LOVE ON A RELATIONSHIP ...IF SOMEONE GETS A NIDDLE AND TRY TO PICH YOU ,,,BELIVE ME YOU DO NOT FEEL A THING,,, i GUESS WE FEEL THE PAIN RIGHT AFTER THE WHOLE ENCHANTED STORY HAD ENDED. We? |
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Sadly...
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the newer people always often start conflict....so sad
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way out there
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I just love when someone defends their position until a point that it makes not sense and then ALL OF THE SUDDEN they are just messing with us... Cracks me the hell up...
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I just love when someone defends their position until a point that it makes not sense and then ALL OF THE SUDDEN they are just messing with us... Cracks me the hell up... hey indn, you were right on track, but it is her loss |
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Naw you just looked at the number of posts not the start date
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Edited by
littleredhen
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Wed 08/06/08 11:20 PM
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I am good at helping men regain thier confidence, then as soon as they do, they think they are too good for me & leave.
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I just love when someone defends their position until a point that it makes not sense and then ALL OF THE SUDDEN they are just messing with us... Cracks me the hell up... hey indn, you were right on track, but it is her loss Pete, some can't stand by their beliefs.. If you run that easily and quickly then you don't even believe in what you're saying... |
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I think it depends on the person. Happiness depends on many things, but mostly on you. If someone wants to regain their self-esteem, then they have to work on it themselves. Others cannot fix someone else's esteem issues. JMO
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We know how to make a woman recover her selfsteem, but men we do not know ...as a woman I am curious self esteem comes from one's self no one can give you self esteem it comes from within never want to depend on anyone to validate MY self worth |
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