Topic: How to make a man recover his selfsteem? | |
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." WHAT???????????? YUP! You heard it! |
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She was crazy Spaceman
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." WHAT???????????? YUP! You heard it! Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? |
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Edited by
YamilethJ
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Wed 08/06/08 10:10 PM
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no thank me....It is just real, the truth, and a fact.
so keep sexy,,,, When someone does not see us the way we expect it does not mean that the rest of the world thinks the same. this goes for you spaceman, Great name by the way men of the space, or more like men out of the space. |
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She was crazy Spaceman You really think so??? |
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She was crazy Spaceman You really think so??? Yes sweets, I do... |
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Edited by
Spaceman2008
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Wed 08/06/08 10:11 PM
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." WHAT???????????? YUP! You heard it! Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....she did have some psychological problems, though.... |
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." WHAT???????????? YUP! You heard it! Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it.... I've seen it happen before. Not saying that's what happened in your case, but anything's possible... |
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no thank me....It is just real, the truth, and a fact. so keep sexy,,,, When someone does not see us the way we expect it does not mean that the rest of the world thinks the same. this goes for you spaceman, Great name by the way men of the space, or more like men out of the space. |
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She was crazy Spaceman You really think so??? Yes sweets, I do... |
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." WHAT???????????? YUP! You heard it! Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....she did have some psychological problems, though.... And she tried to bring you down with her.. That's very typical... |
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Edited by
YamilethJ
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Wed 08/06/08 10:14 PM
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alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice body )so that works for me Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well.... No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive." WHAT???????????? YUP! You heard it! Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....she did have some psychological problems, though.... |
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And she tried to bring you down with her.. That's very typical... Yeah...my issue was, I didn't set the boundaries as strongly as I should have...the ones I set, she disrespected them... |
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Edited by
Spaceman2008
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Wed 08/06/08 10:15 PM
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The point being...you should not deliberately hurt the ones you love....but yeah, she did that quite a bit... |
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The point being...you should not deliberately hurt the ones you love....but yeah, she did that quite a bit... That is just right. |
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong...
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Do not let anyone have your selfsteem in their hands, they can just destroy you, create you or just be dependent.
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You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong... Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this.... |
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Do not let anyone have your selfsteem in their hands, they can just destroy you, create you or just be dependent. Yeah, that was a chance I took, and it turned out badly.... |
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If I may interject. When at the end of the day, the only person you have to measure up to is the one in the mirror.
I came from a place where my self esteem was lower than whale $%^&, and with the help of a lot of true friends who believed in me when I didn't believe in myself, and told me what I needed to hear, not what I wanted to hear, today life is great. At least I can roll with the flow of the river today, even when life isn't so great. |
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