Topic: How to make a man recover his selfsteem?
Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:07 PM





alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice bodyblushing )so that works for mebigsmile


Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well....
oh great,now im making some people feel worse,my bad spacemandrinker


No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive."


WHAT???????????? noway


YUP! You heard it!

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:07 PM
She was crazy Spaceman

wiley's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:08 PM






alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice bodyblushing )so that works for mebigsmile


Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well....
oh great,now im making some people feel worse,my bad spacemandrinker


No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive."


WHAT???????????? noway


YUP! You heard it!


Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? laugh

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:09 PM
Edited by YamilethJ on Wed 08/06/08 10:10 PM
no thank me....It is just real, the truth, and a fact.
so keep sexy,,,,
When someone does not see us the way we expect it does not mean that the rest of the world thinks the same.drinker this goes for you spaceman, Great name by the way men of the space, or more like men out of the space.

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:09 PM

She was crazy Spaceman


You really think so???

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:10 PM


She was crazy Spaceman


You really think so???


Yes sweets, I do...

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:10 PM
Edited by Spaceman2008 on Wed 08/06/08 10:11 PM







alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice bodyblushing )so that works for mebigsmile


Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well....
oh great,now im making some people feel worse,my bad spacemandrinker


No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive."


WHAT???????????? noway


YUP! You heard it!


Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? laugh


Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....she did have some psychological problems, though....

wiley's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:11 PM








alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice bodyblushing )so that works for mebigsmile


Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well....
oh great,now im making some people feel worse,my bad spacemandrinker


No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive."


WHAT???????????? noway


YUP! You heard it!


Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? laugh


Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....


I've seen it happen before. Not saying that's what happened in your case, but anything's possible...

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:11 PM

no thank me....It is just real, the truth, and a fact.
so keep sexy,,,,
When someone does not see us the way we expect it does not mean that the rest of the world thinks the same.drinker this goes for you spaceman, Great name by the way men of the space, or more like men out of the space.


blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:12 PM



She was crazy Spaceman


You really think so???


Yes sweets, I do...


blushing drinker blushing blushing blushing blushing

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:12 PM








alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice bodyblushing )so that works for mebigsmile


Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well....
oh great,now im making some people feel worse,my bad spacemandrinker


No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive."


WHAT???????????? noway


YUP! You heard it!


Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? laugh


Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....she did have some psychological problems, though....



And she tried to bring you down with her.. That's very typical...

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:13 PM
Edited by YamilethJ on Wed 08/06/08 10:14 PM








alot of girls been complimenting me(they say i gotta nice bodyblushing )so that works for mebigsmile


Yeah, that would work for me too, Wolf, but I never get told that....oh well....
oh great,now im making some people feel worse,my bad spacemandrinker


No sweat man...not your fault! I was told for 4 years by my ex that I was not "sexually attractive."


WHAT???????????? noway


YUP! You heard it!


Well I can easily say I'm not sexually attracted to you Space. Maybe she was conflicted or something? laugh


Speculation has it that she may be slightly gay.....but I couldn't prove it....she did have some psychological problems, though....
Well maybe she was just checking your weak spot in this case ...selfsteem remember that when people knows our weakness the can use them as a very sharp weapon against us, up to us how strong or how deep we want that sword hurt us/

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:14 PM




And she tried to bring you down with her.. That's very typical...


Yeah...my issue was, I didn't set the boundaries as strongly as I should have...the ones I set, she disrespected them...

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:15 PM
Edited by Spaceman2008 on Wed 08/06/08 10:15 PM


Well maybe she was just checking your weak spot in this case ...selfsteem remember that when people knows our weakness the can use them as a very sharp weapon against us, up to us how strong or how deep you want that sword hurt you/


The point being...you should not deliberately hurt the ones you love....but yeah, she did that quite a bit...

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Wed 08/06/08 10:16 PM



Well maybe she was just checking your weak spot in this case ...selfsteem remember that when people knows our weakness the can use them as a very sharp weapon against us, up to us how strong or how deep you want that sword hurt you/


The point being...you should not deliberately hurt the ones you love....but yeah, she did that quite a bit...
That is just right.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:16 PM
You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong...

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:17 PM
Do not let anyone have your selfsteem in their hands, they can just destroy you, create you or just be dependent.

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:17 PM

You're right, you didn't keep the boundaries which is a "my bad" but if she pushed them or disrespected them under NO circumstances is that ok.. She was wrong...


Yeah...I'm learning more every day that it really was not all my fault in this....

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:18 PM

Do not let anyone have your selfsteem in their hands, they can just destroy you, create you or just be dependent.


Yeah, that was a chance I took, and it turned out badly....

vlpete's photo
Wed 08/06/08 10:18 PM
If I may interject. When at the end of the day, the only person you have to measure up to is the one in the mirror.
I came from a place where my self esteem was lower than whale $%^&, and with the help of a lot of true friends who believed in me when I didn't believe in myself, and told me what I needed to hear, not what I wanted to hear, today life is great. At least I can roll with the flow of the river today, even when life isn't so great.