then it's their loss for missing meeting the greatest women their could be.......hmmmmmmmm seems kind of lame to me......

well...i dont know if it's lame or not...just aggravating
but at least now i know how to find out if my email will go through BEFORE i type it in its entirety.

No not envy, but I don't come here to chat with married people... I come here trying to meet someone...Married people who hang out on a dating site tells me a lot about their marriage...If I was married I wouldn't be cool with my wife coming to a site like this at all... Thats just me, to each their own though..

I'm with you, that's what myspace is for

I will address the following with the individual people as to not disrupt the thread......But man oh man are you so wrong......both of you.

Why am I wrong?? Please enlighten me..Is it or is not a dating site?? So what bussiness do married people have on a dating site other then creeping behind their spouses back..

you got mail twinklehead

twinklehead?? And no I haven't got any mail, maybe you sent it to the wrong person.. But hey like I said to each their own.. I am not mad at anyone.. If married people want to come on here more power to them its a free country.. But don't complain when someone looking for someone to maybe start a relationship doesn't want to chat with you.. Thats was my point..

What about those who are here because they like the forums and have made friends here?

yea you are a clueless twinklehead...and mail shows sent....I redid....so hopefully you get this time.\

And I chat with plenty and have many friends here......and get a clue before you label ppl Mr.

Get a clue...and pull your head out of the sand. You don't know me or the lady that started this thread.........

Please read above post... I addressed this twice I have no problem with it... Thats their bussiness... My original comments were to the lady who complained that she couldn't talk to someone because she was married.. Some people aka Me are here to meet someone not to chat it up with married people.. Yes I may here on the forum but I don't want married women emailing me... I don't think its right and as an xhusband I wouldn't like my wifey doing so.. Thats all end of story..

So don't talk to the people in relationships. Simple as that. But this is more than a dating site, as there are forums.. so people will make friends with others here.

I sure hope there aren't many people on here that won't befriend a married person. I came here because of a reason/or reasons and most or ALL of you have been there before. I just thought it might be nice to have some one or everyone to talk to about things from time to time....maybe there IS someone out there who will understand that......

Someones awful defensive, never a good sign.. And I never judged you or her, I only gave my opinion on the matter, which she brought up.. Don't like it tough, thats life live with it.. You and her are the ones getting mad because someone doesn't want to chat "privately" because you guys are married.. Yet I need to get a clue riiiight!! You have a nice day now..

Yes I understand that and agree... Like I said i wasn't talking about the forums and I have no problem chatting with married people here.. I was talking about private emails which the original posters was talking about... I think it is ridiculous that a married person wouldn't understand why someone that isn't on this board may not be interested in talking to a married person through private emails, but I am the clueless one, funny..

You want to know why defensive.....for the same reason I started the match thread......People should get to know all people....but they don't fit in the "mold" so you don't give them the time of day. Do you even phanthom how lame that is..I am married not dead. I have a ministry here and friends that came from another and forums...I am not here because my husband and I don't love each other or have awesome sex......be real and get your mind out of the gutter. You can't have intellecual or nice conversation.....with just another fellow human being.....then your pathetic. And that is my opinion.

This is my last post on this matter, because you have a husband so go argue with him, LOL.. Reading comprehension must not be your strong suit, because I have said in THREE previous post that I have no problem chatting with married people on these forums but not in "private" email, why is that so hard to understand or is considered my mind being in the gutter or better yet makes me pathetic, who is judging who here?? End of rant have a nice evening, BM is out of this thread!!

WHAT have i started???

i just wanted to vent a bit because i didn't like the restrictions on emails....
my emails to the ones with these restrictions had nothing to do with me wanting to get with them. i wanted to give an opinion on a post in a thread i felt would have been better said in private.
i'm married
happily
and i am here for the forums...THAT IS ALL
just because i'm here on this DATING AND FRIENDS SITE does not give anyone a clue as to how my marriage is...it merely tells ME that they are quite stereotypical about sites like this.

*deep breath* ok....i feel better now

I you Feral