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Topic: Obvious Warning Signs
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:40 AM
:smile: Any obvious warning signs that a person you met online is deceiving you?:smile:

liltazz's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:41 AM
Deceiving in what way?

Jules0565's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:44 AM
Only online at certain hour (usually work hours), only gives out cell phone number not home phone, not available on weekends..

These things would throw up a red flag to me.. ran across it before, usually means they're married :angry:

no photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:44 AM

:smile: Any obvious warning signs that a person you met online is deceiving you?:smile:
when there lips move laugh

bluesunflower's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:47 AM

comments left on their page from woman saying stuff like baby you mean the world to me...maybe i read to much into it..but it strikes me as odd

constancewrites's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:48 AM
Grainy pics.... won't tell you much, just wants to hear you chat, basically... pics taken only from one weird angle... pics look like they were taken ten years ago because the car in the background looks new but isnt anything recent.... lots of ways.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:49 AM

Deceiving in what way?

happy In any way.flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:50 AM


comments left on their page from woman saying stuff like baby you mean the world to me...maybe i read to much into it..but it strikes me as odd
laugh Sounds like me lollaugh

No1sLove's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:51 AM

Only online at certain hour (usually work hours), only gives out cell phone number not home phone, not available on weekends..

These things would throw up a red flag to me.. ran across it before, usually means they're married :angry:
But Jules, some people don't have a land line anymore. I have not used anything buy my cell in almost 6 years now. Got tired of paying just for telemarketers to leave me messages. laugh

bluesunflower's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:54 AM



comments left on their page from woman saying stuff like baby you mean the world to me...maybe i read to much into it..but it strikes me as odd
laugh Sounds like me lollaugh



laugh laugh

Jules0565's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:54 AM


Only online at certain hour (usually work hours), only gives out cell phone number not home phone, not available on weekends..

These things would throw up a red flag to me.. ran across it before, usually means they're married :angry:
But Jules, some people don't have a land line anymore. I have not used anything buy my cell in almost 6 years now. Got tired of paying just for telemarketers to leave me messages. laugh


Ok, that's fine... but the other things would still apply. And if the cell is turned off after a certain time each night..that would make me wonder. Or if they never answered after let's say 10pm, no call back if I left a message until the next morning.. Granted, I'm not talking just "one" night of this happening..but all the time.

lionsbrew's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:54 AM
the ones who are best at it dont leave signs.best way is to keep track of your conversations with that person and look for inconsistancies in there conversations.

kojack's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:56 AM

Only online at certain hour (usually work hours), only gives out cell phone number not home phone, not available on weekends..

These things would throw up a red flag to me.. ran across it before, usually means they're married :angry:


I agree USUALLY, but I work weekend nights....

I always give my cell # first and when I get to know the person well and know they aren't a stalker then I'll give my home #, and if I want to have a relationship I'll give them a copy of house key so they can stalk me laugh

Jules0565's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:58 AM


Only online at certain hour (usually work hours), only gives out cell phone number not home phone, not available on weekends..

These things would throw up a red flag to me.. ran across it before, usually means they're married :angry:


I agree USUALLY, but I work weekend nights....

I always give my cell # first and when I get to know the person well and know they aren't a stalker then I'll give my home #, and if I want to have a relationship I'll give them a copy of house key so they can stalk me laugh


I agree, cell phone first.. then home phone if you feel comfortable enough.. and working is one thing.. lol

LightVoice's photo
Tue 08/05/08 08:58 AM


Only online at certain hour (usually work hours), only gives out cell phone number not home phone, not available on weekends..

These things would throw up a red flag to me.. ran across it before, usually means they're married :angry:


I agree USUALLY, but I work weekend nights....

I always give my cell # first and when I get to know the person well and know they aren't a stalker then I'll give my home #, and if I want to have a relationship I'll give them a copy of house key so they can stalk me laugh


*hands on hips* hey! how come I never got a key??? :angry: grumble grumble grumble

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: {{{{{ Scott }}}}} smitten

kojack's photo
Tue 08/05/08 09:00 AM
Cuz your heart belongs to another flowerforyou

....but still lubbers you

No1sLove's photo
Tue 08/05/08 09:00 AM
I have had in depth conversations with someone who I believed had a medical condition and later discovered they had not researched their lie very well and let something slip that alerted me to their deception. The slip they made everything they'd said prior physically impossible. I don't understand why someone would spend so much time talking about an issue they didn't even have. frown

Jules0565's photo
Tue 08/05/08 09:02 AM

I have had in depth conversations with someone who I believed had a medical condition and later discovered they had not researched their lie very well and let something slip that alerted me to their deception. The slip they made everything they'd said prior physically impossible. I don't understand why someone would spend so much time talking about an issue they didn't even have. frown


Me either.. what would be the point to that?? Attention/Feel sorry for me??grumble

LightVoice's photo
Tue 08/05/08 09:02 AM

Cuz your heart belongs to another flowerforyou

....but still lubbers you


hhhhmmmmmmmm spock

that excuse may work NOW... winking

and you know I lubbers you back! :heart: :heart:

No1sLove's photo
Tue 08/05/08 09:03 AM



Only online at certain hour (usually work hours), only gives out cell phone number not home phone, not available on weekends..

These things would throw up a red flag to me.. ran across it before, usually means they're married :angry:
But Jules, some people don't have a land line anymore. I have not used anything buy my cell in almost 6 years now. Got tired of paying just for telemarketers to leave me messages. laugh


Ok, that's fine... but the other things would still apply. And if the cell is turned off after a certain time each night..that would make me wonder. Or if they never answered after let's say 10pm, no call back if I left a message until the next morning.. Granted, I'm not talking just "one" night of this happening..but all the time.
I would agree that if there is not much variance to their schedule then there is reason to question them most certainly. I think time is a biggest teller of truth too though.

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