I have been broken up with my ex for almost about a year now. She dumped
me with the old I need space and its not you its me. It took me a while
but I have come a long way since those early days so long ago. We had
began talking and it was friendly conversation with no arguments. But I
saw that I was the one always doing the calling.

So I got tierd of it and figured this wasn't really what you call a good
friendship. So I took her off my myspace and of course I got her being
all pissed off about this now. I guess I'm asking if I did the right
thing?

if you don't want to be that close a friend then yes, so really it boils
down to how you feel screw how she feels

If it's over, it's over, no need to be rude about it though. Perhaps you
should've talked to her about your decision before you did remove her.
But it's already done. If you really don't want to talk with her or be
with her then what are you worried about?

put her back on your myspace...but let her be the one to call you once
in awhile....no matter how long it takes for her to do it.

See that's the problem. I still have feelings for this girl. And its
apparent she feels nothing for me. I just don't think being a friend
could be good enough for me. She really broke my heart. Especially since
she was my first. How big a part does that play in this?

That plays a huge Part. You never really get over your first bro.I'm
sorry for you.

Damn that sucks. Oh well I guess I'll just have to deal. Thanks for the
help to everyone though.

she's the rude one...if she wanted to be friends with you, she should
have been calling u too...don't put her back on myspace, don't call her,
look for new friends and you'l soon forget about the hurt

You're welcome and good luck. It might be hard for a while, but you will
get over it and find someone who will be everything you've ever wanted.

Just believe in your self bro, never let her make you doubt who you
are.Soon enough you will find someone.

Leave her off dear, more room to find the next Ms. Right ;)

It sucks cuz now I don't even really want a relationship. I don't really
feel like hurting like this anymore. Most people tell me I should just
go out, play the field and have some "fun". I went through so much with
her. I mean I was there for her through tons of ****. I feel like she
never gave me that clen break. I rather be told I'm a ****ing asshole
than be told your an awesome person by the person who just dumped you.
But I guess I'll just see where this all takes me.

You'll be alright, your first often breaks your heart, such is life. But
they also make you stronger. And now you know what you "don't" want.

it comes down to the point when you just have to let go....its hard but
it can be done...

Well as long as there are feelings there and you talk to her you will
never get past that point so best to leave her off. And most the time
when they are ignored like that hummm funny how they seem to come
running back when you are no longer doing the calling.

Shugar your ex is strokin HER EGO. Kick that biatch to the curb! Yes it
sux big time being hurt the way you were but many of us here have been
done the same way. Its time to move on and darlin the best thing to do
is get out there and enjoy yourself. You dont need a woman to be happy
and when the right one comes along...oh..you will know it. There are
alot of very beautiful women here. BIG HUGS!!

don't go out and play the fild just because u think it will make things
better...it doesn't go out whin u are ready give yourself sometime to
rest if u find a girl u like problem is u maybe stell thinking of your
ex and then whin u find out that u are trying to replace your fillings
with someone new whin u didn't even have a chance to brith u could whind
up hurting someone in the prosise u don't want to hurt someone because u
were hurt u maynot mean to hurt them but if your heart is stell with the
ex u could hurt someone else. Take sometime out for yourself gether your
thoughts and your fillings forget the ex she ovesaly doesn't want to do
anything but hurt u more. its hard to just drop someone u loved but to
stop the hurt in your heart u have to drop her...i was married for 5 yrs
to a lier and a cheater he wasn't good to me but i loved him with all my
heart and i tryed so hard to make it work now that i have been divorced
from him i fill better it took me a long time to get over what happen
and somedays are better than uthers. i just know that i didn't want to
hurt anyone like i'd been hurt so i haven't dated anyone but now i'm
ready to move one i know now that my heart has held from what has happen
and i can now be happy with someone new. i think u sould just set back
and relace for a while dont start anything new yet wait till u are realy
ready.

Been there!Some family and friends.I do not block so they can
not contact me.I do quit contacting them tho.I will only continue just
so long.Some of these ppl we had Big fun.Bonfire,beers,jokes,songs,,,you
know.I have told them the phone rings on both ends.NO change.I quit
doing the contacting.To me if they never contact me then im not too
important to them.If they do not want contact I will not push in on
them.If they never go out of their way,why should I.

If your doing all the work, quit. She must not care enough. Lots more
ladies out there, go slow & enjoy.

Wait a minute; let me get this straight. She dumped you because she
"needed space," then she gets pissed because you took her off your (I
presume) friends list on a stupid Internet site? Why are you even
worrying about what she thinks, particularly with regard to something so
petty?

She needs space? Well, tell her you need space on your space on Myspace.
Or something like that.