So considering this city is pretty huge you would think it would be very easy to meet someone. I have not had much luck in this department. I do work alot and have very little time to go places. Plus I can be on the shy side when faced with going out to a bar with friends. I guess its the big fear of rejection that makes taking a chance a problem. So does anyone know a spot that lots of singles head to in the city?

It sucks cuz now I don't even really want a relationship. I don't really
feel like hurting like this anymore. Most people tell me I should just
go out, play the field and have some "fun". I went through so much with
her. I mean I was there for her through tons of ****. I feel like she
never gave me that clen break. I rather be told I'm a ****ing asshole
than be told your an awesome person by the person who just dumped you.
But I guess I'll just see where this all takes me.

Damn that sucks. Oh well I guess I'll just have to deal. Thanks for the
help to everyone though.

See that's the problem. I still have feelings for this girl. And its
apparent she feels nothing for me. I just don't think being a friend
could be good enough for me. She really broke my heart. Especially since
she was my first. How big a part does that play in this?

I have been broken up with my ex for almost about a year now. She dumped
me with the old I need space and its not you its me. It took me a while
but I have come a long way since those early days so long ago. We had
began talking and it was friendly conversation with no arguments. But I
saw that I was the one always doing the calling.

So I got tierd of it and figured this wasn't really what you call a good
friendship. So I took her off my myspace and of course I got her being
all pissed off about this now. I guess I'm asking if I did the right
thing?