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Topic: 1st Email
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 08/04/08 12:25 PM
I email people for different reasons. So yes, I've sent the first email sometimes. I don't go searching profiles for people to email, though.

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Mon 08/04/08 12:25 PM
Guys, how do you feel about a lady e mailing you 1st? If you were interested wouldn't you send her one? Absotivly

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/04/08 04:20 PM
Hi Mindsi.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/04/08 04:22 PM
Hi Alice, it turned out OK, he wasn't being mean, I just knocked him silly with a cyber club.

Wolf19 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 6172	Mon 08/04/08 04:22 PM
i always get emailed 1st,if they`re interested in me then im confident that they will,even if i do wanna talk to them,i will never email them first(just makes me feel kinda desperate)

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/04/08 04:22 PM
Guys, how do you feel about a lady e mailing you 1st? If you were interested wouldn't you send her one? Absotivly Posolutely?

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Mon 08/04/08 04:24 PM
i'm all for it If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested? yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me Thanks for your responses. I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have dropped strong hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested. I was raised the same way. It is unusual for me to send the first email to a man. yeah bt our momas did not have computers. haha

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/04/08 04:25 PM
I email people for different reasons. So yes, I've sent the first email sometimes. I don't go searching profiles for people to email, though. I've met a few interesting men in the forums, but I don't know how to go from debate to romance. I guess I need to quit hinting & start hitting! swings club

constancewrites Joined Tue 07/22/08 Posts: 21	Mon 08/04/08 04:29 PM
I usually get plenty of attention without doing the first email. I figure that I want the man who is most interested in me, because then I can hang onto him a bit easier. If I have to chase him, I figure I'll lose him to the one he finds worth chasing eventually. I do find sometimes that I intimidate men and they are afraid they'll be shot down immediately- or at least I've been told that. All I have to say is... no guts, no ME for you.

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Mon 08/04/08 04:39 PM
I have written to men first in a friends capacity but never as a love interest first write. I have seen a couple of guys in the forums that caught my interest but they lost it as fast as they caught as I don't like flirts as potential loves/lovers, or at least indiscriminate flirts. Why would I want to share my guys attention in that way with everyone?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 08/04/08 05:42 PM
I email people for different reasons. So yes, I've sent the first email sometimes. I don't go searching profiles for people to email, though. I've met a few interesting men in the forums, but I don't know how to go from debate to romance. I guess I need to quit hinting & start hitting! swings club It doesn't need to start out in a romantic way. Just be friendly. Try it.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/04/08 06:53 PM Edited by littleredhen on Mon 08/04/08 07:14 PM
Oh I always start out as friends, but that's all I ever am! I almost picked "Peppermint Patty" as my name. Remember her? The freckle faced best buddy that always had Charlie Browns back, while he pined for the little redheaded girl.

Mindsi Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 1666	Mon 08/04/08 07:08 PM
Hi Mindsi. Hi, yourself!