Topic: 1st Email
faithfullguy31's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:10 PM
Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient.

Good things come to he who waits.

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Sun 08/03/08 09:12 PM

Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient.

Good things come to he who waits.


What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular?

Jtevans's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:13 PM

Guys, how do you feel about a lady e mailing you 1st? If you were interested wouldn't you send her one?




to get to this,women have to work for it smokin

Jules0565's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:16 PM






i'm all for itdrinker


If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested?
yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me


Thanks for your responses.flowerforyou
I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested.


I agree with you flowerforyou


TY Jules.:smile: But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad".


I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I thinkhappy

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Sun 08/03/08 09:18 PM


Guys, how do you feel about a lady e mailing you 1st? If you were interested wouldn't you send her one?




to get to this,women have to work for it smokin


I'm not a "working girl"laugh laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:19 PM
smokin I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a womansmokin

faithfullguy31's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:19 PM


Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient.

Good things come to he who waits.


What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular?


Yea, you could say that. My idea of beautiful usually means they could not possibly be interested in me.

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Sun 08/03/08 09:19 PM







i'm all for itdrinker


If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested?
yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me


Thanks for your responses.flowerforyou
I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested.


I agree with you flowerforyou


TY Jules.:smile: But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad".


I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I thinkhappy


*sigh* You are right I think. frown I am just not what they want.

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:20 PM
hi, ya hen flowerforyou

LightVoice's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:20 PM
I can honestly say I have only sent out a handful of emails first in my year here....

and I have NO regrets :heart: they are either good friends of mine now... or the one that fills my heart :heart:

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Sun 08/03/08 09:20 PM

smokin I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a womansmokin


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Jules0565's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:21 PM

smokin I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a womansmokin


laugh laugh
You would noooooooooooot

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Sun 08/03/08 09:21 PM


Either way, I am running at 50/50



Hi MM how are you? bigsmile


Doing just fine.bigsmile

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Sun 08/03/08 09:23 PM



Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient.

Good things come to he who waits.


What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular?


Yea, you could say that. My idea of beautiful usually means they could not possibly be interested in me.


So is beauty what gets your attention? If she's that beatiful you have to do something to stand out from the crowd of admirers. Like an original e mail!

You have a very nice smile!flowerforyou

Jules0565's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:25 PM








i'm all for itdrinker


If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested?
yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me


Thanks for your responses.flowerforyou
I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested.


I agree with you flowerforyou


TY Jules.:smile: But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad".


I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I thinkhappy


*sigh* You are right I think. frown I am just not what they want.


*sigh* me either ::shrug:: frown

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:25 PM


smokin I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a womansmokin


laugh laugh
You would noooooooooooot





I went to a party last night & missed out on getting a couple of phone #'s because I don't don't pick up on signals to wellgrumble



That being said, going to the gym is starting to work to my benifit nowbigsmile

Jules0565's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:30 PM



smokin I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a womansmokin


laugh laugh
You would noooooooooooot





I went to a party last night & missed out on getting a couple of phone #'s because I don't don't pick up on signals to wellgrumble



That being said, going to the gym is starting to work to my benifit nowbigsmile


bigsmile AWESOME JOB drinker Proud of you!

faithfullguy31's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:32 PM




Rejection sucks and usually the ones I'm interested in seem way out of my league. I'm patient.

Good things come to he who waits.


What do you mean "out of your league"? Do you mean beautiful & popular?


Yea, you could say that. My idea of beautiful usually means they could not possibly be interested in me.


So is beauty what gets your attention? If she's that beatiful you have to do something to stand out from the crowd of admirers. Like an original e mail!

You have a very nice smile!flowerforyou


Beauty does grab my attention altho it does not gain my full attention. I just believe that physical attraction is as important as mental and emotional attraction. For example: The tone of her voice, the way she looks at you, How deep can I get into her eyes... The list goes on and on.

Thanksblushing

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:32 PM




smokin I would have to be hit off the head with a brick to get a hint or signal from a womansmokin


laugh laugh
You would noooooooooooot





I went to a party last night & missed out on getting a couple of phone #'s because I don't don't pick up on signals to wellgrumble



That being said, going to the gym is starting to work to my benifit nowbigsmile


bigsmile AWESOME JOB drinker Proud of you!








flowerforyou Thank youflowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 08/03/08 09:33 PM







i'm all for itdrinker


If you have seen someone in the forums, maybe responed to her posts wouldn't you e mail her 1st if you were interested?
yes i would, but i hope that a woman would do the same for me


Thanks for your responses.flowerforyou
I was raised not to make that 1st move, of course this kind of technology was only on Startrek! I have transfered those "rules" my mom taught me here & I am not comfortable e mailing 1st. I have droped stronmg hints at times & I assume a guy would e mail me 1st if he were interested.


I agree with you flowerforyou


TY Jules.:smile: But I wonder if we are too old fashioned? it's hard for me to change this feeling that I have to wait to be approached. Last time I dropped a hint the guy did e mail me, he was a being a gentleman though, & not really interested so I felt "bad".


I don't know, maybe we are? But then again, I believe some things should stay the same.. men should make the first move. They can tell by our posts/hints..if we're interested, I thinkhappy


Some of us ( or maybe just me ) have never been good at picking up " hints " and " signals ".