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Topic: Is it all worth it!!
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Sun 08/03/08 01:51 PM



:smile: So it is probably best to remain true to ourselves!! And look forward to the day of our meeting with that special someone!!:smile:



Yes.:smile:


Have you just been playing with people to find out others opinions?:tongue: laugh
:wink:




With this place, I should have known better!laugh flowerforyou

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Sun 08/03/08 01:54 PM




:smile: So it is probably best to remain true to ourselves!! And look forward to the day of our meeting with that special someone!!:smile:



Yes.:smile:


Have you just been playing with people to find out others opinions?:tongue: laugh
:wink:




With this place, I should have known better!laugh flowerforyou
:smile: But i am considering doing the causal thing, i have never did it before. Who knows, it maybe exactly what I am looking for!!

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Sun 08/03/08 01:54 PM




:smile: So it is probably best to remain true to ourselves!! And look forward to the day of our meeting with that special someone!!:smile:



Yes.:smile:


Have you just been playing with people to find out others opinions?:tongue: laugh
:wink:
PLAYING is very cool to do on here and I LOVE TO PLAY,,,,but NEVER when it comes to ANYONES heart that might hurt their REAL FEELINGS,,I LIVE TO NEVER DO THAT..:heart:

So if you READ ME and I seem HURTFUL,,then LOOK AGAIN as im sure im PLAYING and someone just took me wrong,wink..
But if someone has an issue with me personally,,,SURE,,I can GIVE THEM all THEIR anger back in their face w/o even a blink,lol,loldrinker bigsmile smokin

This place is for having fun, meeting strangers to then call FRIEND, and for a chance to meet someone who will make you smile as you make them smile....:wink: :heart:




That' what I've always liked about your posts, you seem like a sincere, compassionate person who just puts it out there, take it or not.flowerforyou

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Sun 08/03/08 01:56 PM





:smile: So it is probably best to remain true to ourselves!! And look forward to the day of our meeting with that special someone!!:smile:



Yes.:smile:


Have you just been playing with people to find out others opinions?:tongue: laugh
:wink:




With this place, I should have known better!laugh flowerforyou
:smile: But i am considering doing the causal thing, i have never did it before. Who knows, it maybe exactly what I am looking for!!




Hey, it works for some, personally I just couldn't, but I've always believed in live and let live. Everybody finds their own happiness in their own way and time, and that's what we are supposed to be living for, our kids, and to be happy.

AtariBaby's photo
Sun 08/03/08 01:58 PM
Thank you so much. I think honesty is a forgotten trait. We tend to try and look good in the public eye but we only deceive ourselves!!

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Sun 08/03/08 02:02 PM
Love is depicted as romantic and passionate, and totally enveloping when written about by poets and depicted by artist... In the real world. love is easy, relatinships are hard. When people put their own expectations and demands in a relatinoship that's whn it gets bad.

I read tarot cards and I did a reading for a girl the other day, she was worried that her family did not like her fiance' my advise to her, (without the cards) was to keep them out of it, 2 people in a relatinship is hard enough, but to put 3 others in the equation is impossible.

I have one rule for all of my relationships, friends, family and romantic... RESPECT. If you give it to me, you'll get it in return.It's also about compromise, you have to compromise in situations, not compromise yourself for a situation, if you're not happy about something, take the appropriate measures to make you happy first, if the other person can't see that, they aren't the one for you.

AtariBaby's photo
Sun 08/03/08 02:07 PM

Love is depicted as romantic and passionate, and totally enveloping when written about by poets and depicted by artist... In the real world. love is easy, relatinships are hard. When people put their own expectations and demands in a relatinoship that's whn it gets bad.

I read tarot cards and I did a reading for a girl the other day, she was worried that her family did not like her fiance' my advise to her, (without the cards) was to keep them out of it, 2 people in a relatinship is hard enough, but to put 3 others in the equation is impossible.

I have one rule for all of my relationships, friends, family and romantic... RESPECT. If you give it to me, you'll get it in return.It's also about compromise, you have to compromise in situations, not compromise yourself for a situation, if you're not happy about something, take the appropriate measures to make you happy first, if the other person can't see that, they aren't the one for you.
I agree. Relationships are extremely hard but my point is should a relationship be such hard work if you have found the "one"!!

Lily0923's photo
Sun 08/03/08 02:09 PM

I agree. Relationships are extremely hard but my point is should a relationship be such hard work if you have found the "one"!!


If the relationship is hard, they aren't the "one"

AtariBaby's photo
Sun 08/03/08 02:11 PM


I agree. Relationships are extremely hard but my point is should a relationship be such hard work if you have found the "one"!!


If the relationship is hard, they aren't the "one"
Yes, my point exactly. I agree!!

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Sun 08/03/08 02:17 PM



I agree. Relationships are extremely hard but my point is should a relationship be such hard work if you have found the "one"!!


If the relationship is hard, they aren't the "one"
Yes, my point exactly. I agree!!




Exactly! That's what Ross and I say all the time.flowerforyou

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Sun 08/03/08 02:22 PM


I agree. Relationships are extremely hard but my point is should a relationship be such hard work if you have found the "one"!!


If the relationship is hard, they aren't the "one"


Kinda surprised at this one Lily...flowerforyou

....I wonder what ratio of "work" decrees a partner

to not be "the one". I'm not disagreeing by any means,

just wondering where the water mark is.

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Sun 08/03/08 02:59 PM
In answer to one of your questions, yes there are real love stories out there. My parents had one. Interupted by WWII, my Dad being MIA/POW but came home and married my Mother. They were married 52 years when he died. I grew up with a wonderful example of love and respect. I was blessed to have that for the 12 yrs of marriage prior to my husbands death.

AtariBaby's photo
Sun 08/03/08 03:01 PM

In answer to one of your questions, yes there are real love stories out there. My parents had one. Interupted by WWII, my Dad being MIA/POW but came home and married my Mother. They were married 52 years when he died. I grew up with a wonderful example of love and respect. I was blessed to have that for the 12 yrs of marriage prior to my husbands death.
:heart: It can exist :heart:

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