Topic: Who Makes The First Move?
Socratease's photo
Wed 07/30/08 05:50 PM
the one that makes the first move is usually the one with guts enough to take a chance,man or woman

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/30/08 05:52 PM

the one that makes the first move is usually the one with guts enough to take a chance,man or woman
drinker truedrinker

stardust50's photo
Wed 07/30/08 05:54 PM
Geez no wonder I have not dated in so long I am always waiting for the man to make the first move.frustrated

kcflower's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:04 PM
I usually wait. Recently I asked a man to join me at a show which I had gotten tickets for (to take someone else who ended up not being able to come). He said he had other plans- dang it (his words). I guess he was letting me down w/ out being mean. The whole he's not into you thing is confusing to me- as men say they would love if women took initiative. You never know at what point you seem desperate- which is what scares females. Thinking I need to work on flirting- so he asks.

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Thu 07/31/08 08:22 PM

flowerforyou Do you always make the first move in relationships, or do you wait to be asked out?flowerforyou


If a man doesn't know about the thrill of the chase
he won't get very far with me

I love for the guy to make the first move
show some initiative smitten

Like Janet Jackson says:

If you want my future then
You better work it boy
No it won't come easy no
I know you want this
By the time I'm through with you
You'll be beggin me for more
~You Want This lyrics

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:24 PM
i wait for the guy

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Mon 08/04/08 07:26 PM
I would wait . MaybeHer

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Tue 08/05/08 09:57 AM
im too shy to make the first move. thats prolly my biggest downfall, cuz once i decide that i will make a move it would be too late and i find myself in the "friend zone"

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Tue 08/05/08 09:58 AM
I wait......but I first put out those "clues":wink: devil

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:02 AM
If im feeling here i ask her out cuz if you don't the next kat in line will,

smokin

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Tue 08/05/08 10:05 AM

I wait......but I first put out those "clues":wink: devil

what clues? do tell.

lilith401's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:08 AM
Oh snap... I am forward and always ask. I like to pursue, and once they know I'm interested I let them lead.

Except one BF who took too long to kiss me, so I planted one on him. smitten He took the hint.

I once got an e-mail from a guy I was interested in and I responded that I was disappointed in his mail ONLY in that it did not end in "What are you doing Friday night?":laughing:

We went out on Friday night....

LadyOfMagic's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:13 AM

flowerforyou Do you always make the first move in relationships, or do you wait to be asked out?flowerforyou

Nope..I don't make the first move..wether its online or face to face..I have a fear of rejection..I fear that if you reject me I may have to kill you..lol

merlin2525's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:19 AM
In the real world I usually make the first move.
On the 'puter I wait because it seems that everyone is so far away from me.
There's no need to start anything when I have no intentions of relocating

KoolAidWoman's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:20 AM
love

the one that makes the first move is usually the one with guts enough to take a chance,man or woman
Ive been raising my little hand frist,
Since grade school and it just worked out.
And it still dose,A mover?Shaker,Koolaidwoman.
I am a finely tuned race car and i don't make meny pit stops,:heart: this Quote is mine registed trade.
Of mine!8/5/08,

lionsbrew's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:28 AM
id say it depends on the situation and mood.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:29 AM
Good day all Old man time waits for no woman/Man,
and i live my life this way,Time moves on so.
Im going to do what i do best, Get in the wind,and see where life takes me,as for sitting around not.
My style or my claim to fame,I have a great since of humor so if you want ride grab on! she slow's
Down for no one just like {Father Time}!Koolaidwoman-8/5/08shades

scoundrel's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:31 AM
She makes the first move, and the second, and I am probably still clueless, so then she either makes a third move or calls me a name.
ohwell

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Tue 08/05/08 10:33 AM


I wait......but I first put out those "clues":wink: devil

what clues? do tell.
devil devil devil pretty simple if ya cant figure it outdevil :wink:

KoolAidWoman's photo
Tue 08/05/08 10:33 AM

If im feeling here i ask her out cuz if you don't the next kat in line will,

smokin
Go-on and handle your busseness Man Kool!