Topic: Do older women actually go for younger guys??
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Mon 07/28/08 09:49 AM

this is a funny thread....the divide by 2 and add 6 is interesting.....but for me i just go by the person & really don't care what age....but then again i've been around a few hundred years
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Yea I also go by person and don't have any restrictions. The formula I gave is just a well known rule of thumb.

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Mon 07/28/08 09:50 AM
bigsmile bigsmile im 26

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Mon 07/28/08 10:00 AM

bigsmile bigsmile im 26


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Mon 07/28/08 12:30 PM
As an older woman, much older woman, yes, we do look at the younger profiles. My deceased husband was 6 years younger than me. He was my soulmate. I will never marry again. He, too, wanted a woman of confidence, self-assurance, astute and settled. But the younger man must also have something to bring to the relationship for it to solidify. If it's just a fling you want.......go for it. We do that too, lol.

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Mon 07/28/08 12:32 PM

As an older woman, much older woman, yes, we do look at the younger profiles. My deceased husband was 6 years younger than me. He was my soulmate. I will never marry again. He, too, wanted a woman of confidence, self-assurance, astute and settled. But the younger man must also have something to bring to the relationship for it to solidify. If it's just a fling you want.......go for it. We do that too, lol.
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Mon 07/28/08 12:36 PM
I am 31 and usually go for older men. No lower in age than 28 and no more above 42 unless they gave me a good reason to change my mind!

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Mon 07/28/08 12:39 PM

I see on TV and the movies that older women date younger guys however in my life I never see it. I am just woundering how women feel about the situation?? I have never dated or been with an older woman, I know I know I am missing out hehe...However I am feed up with girls my age, who want to act like they are still in college and just go out and party everynight. I find an older woman to be more confident, smarter, stronger, they know who they are in life and what they want and they do not settle for anything short of what they want. well that is how I feel...love to get some feedback from some women feelings





that's why this thread is a hit hon ..

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148307


and I've only dated younger guys for the past 5 years. works for me.

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Mon 07/28/08 12:44 PM
yes it does happen. you just need to connect with them and speak to their intelligence. the rest just comes along quitelylaugh laugh laugh

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Mon 07/28/08 12:45 PM


I see on TV and the movies that older women date younger guys however in my life I never see it. I am just woundering how women feel about the situation?? I have never dated or been with an older woman, I know I know I am missing out hehe...However I am feed up with girls my age, who want to act like they are still in college and just go out and party everynight. I find an older woman to be more confident, smarter, stronger, they know who they are in life and what they want and they do not settle for anything short of what they want. well that is how I feel...love to get some feedback from some women feelings





that's why this thread is a hit hon ..

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148307


and I've only dated younger guys for the past 5 years. works for me.



how much younger have you dated??

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Mon 07/28/08 12:47 PM
dude just go check it out. it's under relationship advice titled the demi/ashton success stories.

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Mon 07/28/08 01:39 PM
Edited by corin1985 on Mon 07/28/08 01:39 PM
Maybe I'm a bit young... 22, but the oldest I've ever been interested in was just 7 years older and younger 2 years at the most.

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Wed 07/30/08 05:12 AM
5-6 years younger is all I'd consider. The girl wants to feel young, pretty, feminine, all that good stuff.. If she is much older, she feels like she has to be more jealous and is less confident her man will stay with her in my opinion...
reassure her if you get an older woman, ok?
:) Good Luck!

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Wed 07/30/08 05:29 AM



I see on TV and the movies that older women date younger guys however in my life I never see it. I am just woundering how women feel about the situation?? I have never dated or been with an older woman, I know I know I am missing out hehe...However I am feed up with girls my age, who want to act like they are still in college and just go out and party everynight. I find an older woman to be more confident, smarter, stronger, they know who they are in life and what they want and they do not settle for anything short of what they want. well that is how I feel...love to get some feedback from some women feelings





that's why this thread is a hit hon ..

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148307


and I've only dated younger guys for the past 5 years. works for me.



how much younger have you dated??



Honestly? I have dated up to 27 years younger than myself. I know .. I'm edgy. It's all about chemistry with me.

I just don't do well with my age or even close. All the guys I've seen in past 5 years have been at least 10 years younger (5 years diff with adults is not really dating younger) ..

Suffice it to say I date at least a generation below me.

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148307

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Wed 07/30/08 05:29 AM
Edited by Fade2Black on Wed 07/30/08 05:37 AM

dude just go check it out. it's under relationship advice titled the demi/ashton success stories.



lol .. thanks for the plug babe :wink: and hello back :tongue:

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Wed 07/30/08 05:32 AM

5-6 years younger is all I'd consider. The girl wants to feel young, pretty, feminine, all that good stuff.. If she is much older, she feels like she has to be more jealous and is less confident her man will stay with her in my opinion...
reassure her if you get an older woman, ok?
:) Good Luck!


I beg to differ here. First off we aren't 'girls' we are mature women who have it goin on. It's the REASON younger guys like to date us. Cuz we are NOT 'girls' anymore.

More importantly..we don't do the jealousy and lack of confidence thing .. we don't NEED reassurance like young girls do. We KNOW we are hot and really don't rest on a guy's affirmation to feel that way. It's why we are who we are. :wink:

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Wed 07/30/08 05:48 AM
Don't listen to these "cougars!!!"


Naw I'm just kidding, when I was a hair younger than you (23) I dated a 38 year old. She was a blast to be around. Get yourself an older woman, you'll find them a lot more agreeable than the younger versions.

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Wed 07/30/08 05:54 AM

Don't listen to these "cougars!!!"


Naw I'm just kidding, when I was a hair younger than you (23) I dated a 38 year old. She was a blast to be around. Get yourself an older woman, you'll find them a lot more agreeable than the younger versions.


We rock .. just sayin smokin

and btw, I think the cougar term is misleading. Makes it sound like WE are the ones hunting the younger guys. I am never at a loss for the younger guys to be hunting me. Why would I need to go proactive? bigsmile

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Wed 07/30/08 05:59 AM
I think you see the term in misrepresentation. I think it implies that once you get your claws into a younger man, a younger woman won't stand a chance of prying hime away. Look at the positive!!!

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Wed 07/30/08 06:01 AM

I think you see the term in misrepresentation. I think it implies that once you get your claws into a younger man, a younger woman won't stand a chance of prying hime away. Look at the positive!!!



Well I only say the other because of inferrences made on the term babe.

And ya .. I like your perspective. I'll be usin' it from here on out.

We do have a way of influencing for the long term .. LOL

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Wed 07/30/08 06:18 AM


5-6 years younger is all I'd consider. The girl wants to feel young, pretty, feminine, all that good stuff.. If she is much older, she feels like she has to be more jealous and is less confident her man will stay with her in my opinion...
reassure her if you get an older woman, ok?
:) Good Luck!


I beg to differ here. First off we aren't 'girls' we are mature women who have it goin on. It's the REASON younger guys like to date us. Cuz we are NOT 'girls' anymore.

More importantly..we don't do the jealousy and lack of confidence thing .. we don't NEED reassurance like young girls do. We KNOW we are hot and really don't rest on a guy's affirmation to feel that way. It's why we are who we are. :wink:


Fade....I lust you now!:wink: bigsmile laugh flowerforyou