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JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sun 07/27/08 08:51 PM
Shadow... I would hope that he would at least be within driving distance. Long distance just does NOT work for me.... But what qualifies as " driving distance ". Remember, here in Michigan, we qualify " driving distance " in hours.....not miles....lol Ok... I live in NY. I would say anywhere between MA to MD, Massachuttes to Maryland. 1700 miles you have to get on a plane to. It would not have worked. I would say that about 4 hours would be my limit. Pah. 4 hours is NOTHING....lmao

Sassier2u Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 1024	Sun 07/27/08 08:51 PM
I have found someone but not from this site and he lives 2 hours away and the weekends go way tooooooo fast. We rotate weekends so it is easier on one another but it is hard to leave him on Sunday night. Miss him so very much. Thank goodness for unlimited text messages and the Im's and of course the phone. Good for you! This may be a time of compromise & even sacrafice, but isn't that part of a long term committed relationship anyway? Evently you will either decide it's not worth it, in which case you are not meant to be together, OR you will find a way to be together all the time! We do great at communicating and compromising our weekend and we have made an agreement that neither one of us is going into debt for the relationship. And if things work out then he will move here and that is the way both of us want it. He is the best man I have ever dated in my life.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 07/27/08 08:54 PM
Shadow... I would hope that he would at least be within driving distance. Long distance just does NOT work for me.... I know what you mean, most of us that are looking for someone would hope that. For me, come to realize that it don't matter where i live. it's unlikely that i would and most think and have said it on this thread, Not going to met somone in are area. So i say to most. look at the facts and go from there

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 07/27/08 08:56 PM Edited by TheShadow on Sun 07/27/08 09:00 PM
I have a 2000 mile radius.... So I've got that going for me, which is nice. it's really funny seeing profiles with the distance of 50 miles in order to email them Ya know...I should prolly go check to see what mine is set at....LOL I have mine that anyone can email me. Who knows who i might meet.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 07/27/08 08:58 PM
Shadow... I would hope that he would at least be within driving distance. Long distance just does NOT work for me.... But what qualifies as " driving distance ". Remember, here in Michigan, we qualify " driving distance " in hours.....not miles....lol Ok... I live in NY. I would say anywhere between MA to MD, Massachuttes to Maryland. 1700 miles you have to get on a plane to. It would not have worked. I would say that about 4 hours would be my limit. Pah. 4 hours is NOTHING....lmao Agree, i drive 12 house to go see my family. 4 hours would be a break for me.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 07/27/08 08:59 PM Edited by TheShadow on Sun 07/27/08 08:59 PM
I have found someone but not from this site and he lives 2 hours away and the weekends go way tooooooo fast. We rotate weekends so it is easier on one another but it is hard to leave him on Sunday night. Miss him so very much. Thank goodness for unlimited text messages and the Im's and of course the phone. Good for you! This may be a time of compromise & even sacrafice, but isn't that part of a long term committed relationship anyway? Evently you will either decide it's not worth it, in which case you are not meant to be together, OR you will find a way to be together all the time! We do great at communicating and compromising our weekend and we have made an agreement that neither one of us is going into debt for the relationship. And if things work out then he will move here and that is the way both of us want it. He is the best man I have ever dated in my life. If it works, don't fix it

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 07/27/08 09:05 PM Edited by littleredhen on Sun 07/27/08 09:06 PM
(to Sassier) Congratulations! It sounds good!

discoafternoon Joined Fri 04/11/08 Posts: 2977	Mon 07/28/08 04:27 AM
Shadow... I would hope that he would at least be within driving distance. Long distance just does NOT work for me.... But what qualifies as " driving distance ". Remember, here in Michigan, we qualify " driving distance " in hours.....not miles....lol I would think that would depend on each person.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Mon 07/28/08 04:39 AM
This is my point, Almost everyone said NO and why? Distance, it's time to face that facts people, hoping to find that one or maybe somthing close to it, is most likely not going to happen in your area for everyone one, well better said, Most. So stop using disance as an excuse to meet someone. Ok. But here's the problem. I live in a VERY small town. I am not willing to leave this small town because I have gotten 7 years into the place where I work. I am 38, and it's a little late for me to be starting over at a new job somewhere else. That, combined with the fact that I LIKE my job, is what will keep me here. Now....if there is a woman out there who is willing to take a chance on someone who lives in a town that is located at least 30 minutes away from anything to do...she should let me know...lol At one point, I gave up on any of the locals being right for me, and figured if I had to drive multiple hours to be with someone perfect for me... Why settle? So I didn't. T-10 days 11 hours 45 minutes. Warning: Emoticon abuse in progress.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 07/28/08 04:42 AM
If any of us are going to find someone or "the one" out here then it most likely will NOT be local.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Mon 07/28/08 04:46 AM
lol, i can not find any one, but when i do they like too talk too me for a week an then just through me out like yesterdays garbage. i think being friends frist and trying too get too know each other is a good thing. I Love Too Talk And Laugh My name Is Tiffany, I'm 33, 5-5 And Live In The Florida Keys The friends first is where it all starts. I would say go meet somone you just met, but whats wrong in doing so after getting to know them for sometime This dopey guy found his match, mingled in with the batch _only_ thought of as friends. Were it my plan, I'd have analysed everything, calculated all possibilities, and got it dead wrong.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Mon 07/28/08 05:01 AM
What are my chances of finding someone local??? Hmmmmmmm? Slim chance Fat chance China-men's chance Snowball's chance (in Hell) But notice I did not say NO chance.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 07/28/08 05:03 AM
Think your going to find somone in your area on this site? not even trying really .. wish the best to you though Shadow

Madtanker03 Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 262	Mon 07/28/08 07:18 AM
Just a guess but I'm thinking NOT. But I like talking to everyone close or not. Wish I still lived in Ga, I loved the alpharetta area, and was supposed to buy a house there... I'll still talk to you anyway. Sweet, I am a dayamed yaynkee!!!