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ONE thing i have stopped doing is dating younger guys, im only attracted to older man, so now i never date anyone younger than me, older men are more mature and they seem to know how to treat a lady better and im more attracted to older guys . jmo Ahmen a |
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Cheers having a cold beer debbie can i have one to please yes you may have two or three i hope there cold, its sooooooo hot here. |
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Cheers having a cold beer debbie can i have one to please yes you may have two or three i hope there cold, its sooooooo hot here. out of the freezer hot where? |
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ONE thing i have stopped doing is dating younger guys, im only attracted to older man, so now i never date anyone younger than me, older men are more mature and they seem to know how to treat a lady better and im more attracted to older guys . jmo Ahmen a im simply stating the truth, and its always been that way, even when i was 18 i always liked older men, not anyone younger and its always been that way to this day, and thats how it will always be, i like a man to treat a lady properly and in my experience only older men are like that |
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but you know DAMN it sucks because the ones i DIDNT fancy treated me like gold, and the ones im attracted to treat me like ****. typical hey? Story of my life. Medium height, chubby and bald don't seem to be all that attractive. Doesn't matter if you treat the person you are with like a queen or not. Just gotta have that " look ". I will say that to date someone, there needs to be at least SOMETHING that is physically attractive about them. You say that you give it 4 dates. I would much rather not have the woman even bother if there isn't something about me that attracts them. I know that personality and good treatment are no match for looks. but once a met this guy and i wasnt attracted to him and when we went on the second date i was attracted to him, we dated for a. while thats why i always give it chance. Ok. First, I want to say that in no way am I trying to pick a fight here...lol This post may sound like I am trying to be combative, but I am genuinely curious about this. Please don't take offense. How many times have you done that?? You said that you " dated for a while ", but here you are on this site. Kinda makes me wonder if taking the chance actually turns out to be worth it more often than not. Not to mention, you should also look at this from a guy's point of view. When you wind up talking to a potential date, but you don't find him attractive, does he know that?? When you realize that the attraction isn't likely to ever show up, how do you tell him? Do you tell him you aren't attracted or do you just give him some other reason? Most guys ( not saying ALL of them ) figure that if a woman continues contact with them in a " maybe date " kind of way, that she is attracted to him. Speaking only for myself, I would much rather not have the woman act like she is, if she isn't and is just " taking a chance " that she might be at some point. |
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Cheers having a cold beer debbie can i have one to please yes you may have two or three i hope there cold, its sooooooo hot here. out of the freezer hot where? im in the uk, and its boiling hot today, im practically naked talking to you i hate the heat |
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Cheers having a cold beer debbie can i have one to please yes you may have two or three i hope there cold, its sooooooo hot here. out of the freezer hot where? im in the uk, and its boiling hot today, im practically naked talking to you i hate the heat |
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Edited by
Mrtap
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Sun 07/27/08 03:37 PM
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quit teasing me its hot here now
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Sun 07/27/08 03:38 PM
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but you know DAMN it sucks because the ones i DIDNT fancy treated me like gold, and the ones im attracted to treat me like ****. typical hey? Story of my life. Medium height, chubby and bald don't seem to be all that attractive. Doesn't matter if you treat the person you are with like a queen or not. Just gotta have that " look ". I will say that to date someone, there needs to be at least SOMETHING that is physically attractive about them. You say that you give it 4 dates. I would much rather not have the woman even bother if there isn't something about me that attracts them. I know that personality and good treatment are no match for looks. but once a met this guy and i wasnt attracted to him and when we went on the second date i was attracted to him, we dated for a. while thats why i always give it chance. Ok. First, I want to say that in no way am I trying to pick a fight here...lol This post may sound like I am trying to be combative, but I am genuinely curious about this. Please don't take offense. How many times have you done that?? You said that you " dated for a while ", but here you are on this site. Kinda makes me wonder if taking the chance actually turns out to be worth it more often than not. Not to mention, you should also look at this from a guy's point of view. When you wind up talking to a potential date, but you don't find him attractive, does he know that?? When you realize that the attraction isn't likely to ever show up, how do you tell him? Do you tell him you aren't attracted or do you just give him some other reason? Most guys ( not saying ALL of them ) figure that if a woman continues contact with them in a " maybe date " kind of way, that she is attracted to him. Speaking only for myself, I would much rather not have the woman act like she is, if she isn't and is just " taking a chance " that she might be at some point. im on this site because im single. im going back like 4 years ago when this happened. i havnt dated recently due to my health. if i was taken then i wouldnt be on this site. and yes i do tell them, i say to them sopmetimes with me attraction comes later, and i say to them because that might never happen are you willing to try, some have said yes, and some said no, i dont want to get hurt. |
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quit teasing me its hot here now lol |
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To me there has to be some sort of attration...
BUT, to me...beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. what I might think is SEXY as hell, you might not be attracted to at all, each person does have a preference. That what makes the world go round.... |
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I to stick my head in the freezer to cool off
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To me there has to be some sort of attration... BUT, to me...beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. what I might think is SEXY as hell, you might not be attracted to at all, each person does have a preference. That what makes the world go round.... i totally agree, if we all fancied the same type of person, there would be millions of people single. what i find attractive, you might not, the only thing that matters is as long as i fancy him, i dont give a **** about what anyone else thinks |
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I to stick my head in the freezer to cool off lol, i need to do that |
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but you know DAMN it sucks because the ones i DIDNT fancy treated me like gold, and the ones im attracted to treat me like ****. typical hey? Story of my life. Medium height, chubby and bald don't seem to be all that attractive. Doesn't matter if you treat the person you are with like a queen or not. Just gotta have that " look ". I will say that to date someone, there needs to be at least SOMETHING that is physically attractive about them. You say that you give it 4 dates. I would much rather not have the woman even bother if there isn't something about me that attracts them. I know that personality and good treatment are no match for looks. but once a met this guy and i wasnt attracted to him and when we went on the second date i was attracted to him, we dated for a. while thats why i always give it chance. Ok. First, I want to say that in no way am I trying to pick a fight here...lol This post may sound like I am trying to be combative, but I am genuinely curious about this. Please don't take offense. How many times have you done that?? You said that you " dated for a while ", but here you are on this site. Kinda makes me wonder if taking the chance actually turns out to be worth it more often than not. Not to mention, you should also look at this from a guy's point of view. When you wind up talking to a potential date, but you don't find him attractive, does he know that?? When you realize that the attraction isn't likely to ever show up, how do you tell him? Do you tell him you aren't attracted or do you just give him some other reason? Most guys ( not saying ALL of them ) figure that if a woman continues contact with them in a " maybe date " kind of way, that she is attracted to him. Speaking only for myself, I would much rather not have the woman act like she is, if she isn't and is just " taking a chance " that she might be at some point. im on this site because im single. im going back like 4 years ago when this happened. i havnt dated recently due to my health. if i was taken then i wouldnt be on this site. and yes i do tell them, i say to them sopmetimes with me attraction comes later, and i say to them because that might never happen are you willing to try, some have said yes, and some said no, i dont want to get hurt. Fair enough. Like I said. I was just curious. |
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here for friends then we will see what happens
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but you know DAMN it sucks because the ones i DIDNT fancy treated me like gold, and the ones im attracted to treat me like ****. typical hey? Story of my life. Medium height, chubby and bald don't seem to be all that attractive. Doesn't matter if you treat the person you are with like a queen or not. Just gotta have that " look ". I will say that to date someone, there needs to be at least SOMETHING that is physically attractive about them. You say that you give it 4 dates. I would much rather not have the woman even bother if there isn't something about me that attracts them. I know that personality and good treatment are no match for looks. but once a met this guy and i wasnt attracted to him and when we went on the second date i was attracted to him, we dated for a. while thats why i always give it chance. Ok. First, I want to say that in no way am I trying to pick a fight here...lol This post may sound like I am trying to be combative, but I am genuinely curious about this. Please don't take offense. How many times have you done that?? You said that you " dated for a while ", but here you are on this site. Kinda makes me wonder if taking the chance actually turns out to be worth it more often than not. Not to mention, you should also look at this from a guy's point of view. When you wind up talking to a potential date, but you don't find him attractive, does he know that?? When you realize that the attraction isn't likely to ever show up, how do you tell him? Do you tell him you aren't attracted or do you just give him some other reason? Most guys ( not saying ALL of them ) figure that if a woman continues contact with them in a " maybe date " kind of way, that she is attracted to him. Speaking only for myself, I would much rather not have the woman act like she is, if she isn't and is just " taking a chance " that she might be at some point. im on this site because im single. im going back like 4 years ago when this happened. i havnt dated recently due to my health. if i was taken then i wouldnt be on this site. and yes i do tell them, i say to them sopmetimes with me attraction comes later, and i say to them because that might never happen are you willing to try, some have said yes, and some said no, i dont want to get hurt. Fair enough. Like I said. I was just curious. thats fine your curious, im glad my answer to your question explained what you were curious about. nonesty is the best option IMO |
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I to stick my head in the freezer to cool off lol, i need to do that You started ohh here your beer |
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thats fine your curious, im glad my answer to your question explained what you were curious about. nonesty is the best option IMO My sentiments exactly.... |
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thats fine your curious, im glad my answer to your question explained what you were curious about. nonesty is the best option IMO My sentiments exactly.... I SENT YOU A EMAIL BTW |
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