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Topic: would you date someone
debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:21 PM
that word (friends) whats wrong with that?? if things dont work out, friends is better than nothing, if he./she can handle it. none of my exes could be my friend because they could never look at me as a friend only as a GF

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sun 07/27/08 03:22 PM
but you know DAMN it sucks because the ones i DIDNT fancy treated me like gold, and the ones im attracted to treat me like ****. typical hey? Story of my life. Medium height, chubby and bald don't seem to be all that attractive. Doesn't matter if you treat the person you are with like a queen or not. Just gotta have that " look ". I will say that to date someone, there needs to be at least SOMETHING that is physically attractive about them. You say that you give it 4 dates. I would much rather not have the woman even bother if there isn't something about me that attracts them. I know that personality and good treatment are no match for looks.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:22 PM
i believe that there must be SOME physical attraction there for a long relationship to last....you have to WANT to look at this person and want to be with this person...JMO i totally agree

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:22 PM
never know until u take the chance i always take the chance, and have dated them for a bit, but they have all ended because i wasnt physically attracted to him. i couldnt have sex with him because there was no attraction,m and i hated it when he kissed me and touched me. if your not attracted to someone after a while, i dont think theres any point in carrying on. plus your just wasting each others time. true very true i will always take the chance because you never know.

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Sun 07/27/08 03:23 PM
but it does usually turn out that the ones we are not physically attracted to are the ones that treat us the best....that sucks

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Sun 07/27/08 03:24 PM
if i dont think its going to work i try not go to next level plus women look their best when they are not trying

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:25 PM
but you know DAMN it sucks because the ones i DIDNT fancy treated me like gold, and the ones im attracted to treat me like ****. typical hey? Story of my life. Medium height, chubby and bald don't seem to be all that attractive. Doesn't matter if you treat the person you are with like a queen or not. Just gotta have that " look ". I will say that to date someone, there needs to be at least SOMETHING that is physically attractive about them. You say that you give it 4 dates. I would much rather not have the woman even bother if there isn't something about me that attracts them. I know that personality and good treatment are no match for looks. but once a met this guy and i wasnt attracted to him and when we went on the second date i was attracted to him, we dated for a. while thats why i always give it chance.

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Sun 07/27/08 03:25 PM
that word (friends) Friends are great. They are usually the best of our lives especially if you are single.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:26 PM
but it does usually turn out that the ones we are not physically attracted to are the ones that treat us the best....that sucks i know thats exactly what i said ina post just a few minutes ago.

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Sun 07/27/08 03:26 PM
Cheers having a cold beer debbie

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:26 PM
if i dont think its going to work i try not go to next level plus women look their best when they are not trying

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:27 PM
that word (friends) Friends are great. They are usually the best of our lives especially if you are single. i agree, you can never have to many friends

AtariBaby Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1497	Sun 07/27/08 03:27 PM
JMO Debbie. Attraction is important. Good looks is important initially!! Sometimes it can work out but sometimes it does not. Its like any relationship, it requires work. In any experience that I had, if I was not physically attracted to the girl then the relationship ended soon after!! I know people will call that "shallow" but I am only expressing my honest opinion in regards to myself. I do not speak for all!!! thats not being shallow. ive dated guys, and the physical attraction never came, so the relationship ended, like i said before you need attraction to the inside and outside. When we refer to the "one" that is who that person is. We are attracted in every sense!!!!!!!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:27 PM
Cheers having a cold beer debbie can i have one to please

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:27 PM
Cheers having a cold beer debbie can i have one to please

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Sun 07/27/08 03:28 PM
nothing wrong with friends when things dont work out thats when it use let just be friends

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:29 PM
ONE thing i have stopped doing is dating younger guys, im only attracted to older man, so now i never date anyone younger than me, older men are more mature and they seem to know how to treat a lady better and im more attracted to older guys . jmo

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Sun 07/27/08 03:29 PM
Cheers having a cold beer debbie can i have one to please yes you may have two or three

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:29 PM
JMO Debbie. Attraction is important. Good looks is important initially!! Sometimes it can work out but sometimes it does not. Its like any relationship, it requires work. In any experience that I had, if I was not physically attracted to the girl then the relationship ended soon after!! I know people will call that "shallow" but I am only expressing my honest opinion in regards to myself. I do not speak for all!!! thats not being shallow. ive dated guys, and the physical attraction never came, so the relationship ended, like i said before you need attraction to the inside and outside. When we refer to the "one" that is who that person is. We are attracted in every sense!!!!!!!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 07/27/08 03:30 PM
nothing wrong with friends when things dont work out thats when it use let just be friends i agree, but sadly none of my exes could see me as a friend, only as a girlfriend.