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You just describe your best friend.  i mean do you think you would be physically attracted to him/her after some time?? i think so eventually the more you was with that person i think feeling could grow if u just gave them a chance...see there was one guy i really liked and just after 2 dates he said there was no chemestry but if he would have giving me a chance to get more relaxed i think it would have worked out cause i really liked him  i understand what your saying. with one guy i dated i didnt fancy him, but on the second date i did find myself getting attracted to him. but with me by the 4th date if im still not attracted then i dont think i ever would be |
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thats why there is alot of good people alone because poeple dont now how to loook inside deep inside
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I don't know. I would have to have some kind of attraction in order for it to grow more. Besides, I would be spending the rest of my life with this person. Great personality is aways a plus...but I have to look at them too. (no offense) i totally agree. there has to be some physical attraction there, else a relationship would be stupid, how can you kiss and have sex with someone your not attracted to, i know i couldnt. |
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I think you need some physical attraction...but physically attractive to one person can be alot different to another. well yes of course, its one you find attractive, NOT what other people think. |
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JMO Debbie. Attraction is important. Good looks is important initially!!
Sometimes it can work out but sometimes it does not. Its like any relationship, it requires work. In any experience that I had, if I was not physically attracted to the girl then the relationship ended soon after!! I know people will call that "shallow" but I am only expressing my honest opinion in regards to myself. I do not speak for all!!! 
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thats why there is alot of good people alone because poeple dont now how to loook inside deep inside well thats wrong, because i have dated men im not attracted to, and ive got to know them inside as well, but IMO, you need to be attracted to the inside and out.
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Depends on how much you want to invest yourself in what could be outside your ability to change.
 Me? Heck no. I haven't got a spare decade to get a woman to be different...I meet ladies that I fit with, and steal their heart.        (They take my breath away, and then give it back, but that's part of daring to live.) |
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Edited by
Mrtap
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Sun 07/27/08 03:12 PM
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what happens when your with some one and their looks get alter from what ever then what????
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JMO Debbie. Attraction is important. Good looks is important initially!! Sometimes it can work out but sometimes it does not. Its like any relationship, it requires work. In any experience that I had, if I was not physically attracted to the girl then the relationship ended soon after!! I know people will call that "shallow" but I am only expressing my honest opinion in regards to myself. I do not speak for all!!! thats not being shallow. ive dated guys, and the physical attraction never came, so the relationship ended, like i said before you need attraction to the inside and outside.
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Attraction/Chemistry is too important....I can tell that on the first date(within minutes)
so if that wasn't there for me even if she had a great personality, it would still be our last date...it wouldn't be fair to her to do otherwise....that is deception.... |
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what happens when your with some one and looks get alter from what ever then what???? well you grow old together dont you, you still love each just as much because they have grown old togther. |
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Attraction/Chemistry is too important....I can tell that on the first date(within minutes) so if that wasn't there for me even if she had a great personality, it would still be our last date...it wouldn't be fair to her to do otherwise....that is deception.... yes i agree. i normally give it 4 dates, and if buy the 4th date theres no attraction, it would end there. |
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It can happen its happened to me. My friend had a crush on me for nearly 3 years but I wasnt attracted to him like that then one day I really looked into his eyes and was like "wow..". Needless to say we dated for about 4 years after that. thats cool i guess everyone different |
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No. Even though im not the most physically attractive person. But as crazy as it may sound, if im attracted to any one part of you, then that makes everthing else attractive  thats good
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Date no...hang out as friends yes. yes if things dont work out, i always ask if we can be friends, but sometimes they say my feelings are to strong for you and i could never be JUST friends. |
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never know until u take the chance
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that word (friends)
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never know until u take the chance i always take the chance, and have dated them for a bit, but they have all ended because i wasnt physically attracted to him. i couldnt have sex with him because there was no attraction,m and i hated it when he kissed me and touched me. if your not attracted to someone after a while, i dont think theres any point in carrying on. plus your just wasting each others time. |
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i believe that there must be SOME physical attraction there for a long relationship to last....you have to WANT to look at this person and want to be with this person...JMO
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never know until u take the chance i always take the chance, and have dated them for a bit, but they have all ended because i wasnt physically attracted to him. i couldnt have sex with him because there was no attraction,m and i hated it when he kissed me and touched me. if your not attracted to someone after a while, i dont think theres any point in carrying on. plus your just wasting each others time. true very true
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