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Topic: Pillow Talk And Secrets: A Question For Women
sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Sat 07/26/08 02:38 AM
I think a better question is, who cares about the past? I don't believe that it is relevent to the present. JMO.

starryeyed346 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 412	Sat 07/26/08 02:39 AM
^--a woman who holds her secrets like a vault

theotherbachelor Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 267	Sat 07/26/08 02:41 AM
I think a better question is, who cares about the past? I don't believe that it is relevent to the present. JMO. Thats kind of my point, the women I've dated would beg to differ or though it would seem for if I don't answer their questions, then I'm a liar and a ****! Does that past matter, how much have you asked the men in your life about their past? Did you let them off the hook if the gave you a cagey reply?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 07/26/08 02:42 AM
iss you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol LMAO Have you noticed though that few women actually came to the table for this thread! Drinks for those who did! The rest just coward like they always do! or..... its 2 AM!!!! they are sleeping..... i dare you to post this at noon and see what lilith has to say to you!!!!! Lilith would tear this apart! How are you (((Izzie)))? Sorry to hear of your misfortune in the past.

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Sat 07/26/08 02:42 AM
^--a woman who holds her secrets like a vault Must be hun.

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Sat 07/26/08 02:43 AM
I like to hold a woman's vault like a secret.

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Sat 07/26/08 02:44 AM
I think a better question is, who cares about the past? I don't believe that it is relevent to the present. JMO. Thats kind of my point, the women I've dated would beg to differ or though it would seem for if I don't answer their questions, then I'm a liar and a ****! Does that past matter, how much have you asked the men in your life about their past? Did you let them off the hook if the gave you a cagey reply? I don't ask about someone's past. I learned, that hard way, that all it will do is mess with your head.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 07/26/08 02:44 AM
I think a better question is, who cares about the past? I don't believe that it is relevent to the present. JMO. This is what I said too

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 07/26/08 02:46 AM
I think a better question is, who cares about the past? I don't believe that it is relevent to the present. JMO. Thats kind of my point, the women I've dated would beg to differ or though it would seem for if I don't answer their questions, then I'm a liar and a ****! Does that past matter, how much have you asked the men in your life about their past? Did you let them off the hook if the gave you a cagey reply? I don't ask about someone's past. I learned, that hard way, that all it will do is mess with your head. Plus, where is the garuntee they are being honest? Their word? Puhleaze!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 07/26/08 02:47 AM
I like to hold a woman's vault like a secret. Sometimes it is a secret, and dusty with cobwebs!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 07/26/08 02:48 AM
Some past issues come up naturally, legal issues I know to be a big one...well at least a lot of women ask me about them...must be the look.

theotherbachelor Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 267	Sat 07/26/08 02:50 AM
Their is always the get to know each other conversation that happens when you date someone new but what is relevant and what is the past that can be left behind? If you don't tell somebody about something and they find out later then its this big OMG I can't believe you didn't tell me!

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Sat 07/26/08 02:50 AM
no worries, it made me me!!!! iss you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol LMAO Have you noticed though that few women actually came to the table for this thread! Drinks for those who did! The rest just coward like they always do! or..... its 2 AM!!!! they are sleeping..... i dare you to post this at noon and see what lilith has to say to you!!!!! Lilith would tear this apart! How are you (((Izzie)))? Sorry to hear of your misfortune in the past.

theotherbachelor Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 267	Sat 07/26/08 02:52 AM
Some past issues come up naturally, legal issues I know to be a big one...well at least a lot of women ask me about them...must be the look. Legal issues are fair and square, if you have a criminal history its pretty much manditory you fess up! I'm being more general than that! Good statement though!

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Sat 07/26/08 02:59 AM Edited by sweetandstrong on Sat 07/26/08 03:00 AM
My point and I think Peccy's point, is the past is just that and simply not relevent to a present realtionship. What's to be gained by going over all the details of past realtionships?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 07/26/08 03:01 AM
My point and I think Peccy's point, is the past is just that and simply not relevent to a present relationship. What's to be gained by going over all the details of past relationships? I once had a hamster...his name was rocky...he was fluffy...

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Sat 07/26/08 03:05 AM Edited by sweetandstrong on Sat 07/26/08 03:08 AM
My point and I think Peccy's point, is the past is just that and simply not relevent to a present relationship. What's to be gained by going over all the details of past relationships? I once had a hamster...his name was rocky...he was fluffy... Fabulous. I thought you were hot and now you went and ruined it! I'm jealous about your hamster.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 07/26/08 03:06 AM
My point and I think Peccy's point, is the past is just that and simply not relevent to a present relationship. What's to be gained by going over all the details of past relationships? I once had a hamster...his name was rocky...he was fluffy... Fabulous. I thought you were hot and no you went and ruined it! I'm jealous about your hamster. But he runned away...women...never let us finish the story.

theotherbachelor Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 267	Sat 07/26/08 03:07 AM
My point and I think Peccy's point, is the past is just that and simply not relevent to a present realtionship. What's to be gained by going over all the details of past realtionships? Thats what I was asking though, I'm with you to a certain extent that the past is the past but I've never dated a women that would let that past be! Don't you find it odd that only a handfull of women have come to the table to speak their mind while the rest just hover? I just checked and over 300 people have viewed this thread but only what, four, maybe five women have been strong enough to discuss it? Thats kind of my point! I'm with you that the past is the past but again, thats why I'm asking, I've never dated a women with that philosophy! The few that have posted are rare gems indeed and hats off to you! The ones that are hovering without posting are the ones I'm asking I think!

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Sat 07/26/08 03:10 AM
My point and I think Peccy's point, is the past is just that and simply not relevent to a present realtionship. What's to be gained by going over all the details of past realtionships? Thats what I was asking though, I'm with you to a certain extent that the past is the past but I've never dated a women that would let that past be! Don't you find it odd that only a handfull of women have come to the table to speak their mind while the rest just hover? I just checked and over 300 people have viewed this thread but only what, four, maybe five women have been strong enough to discuss it? Thats kind of my point! I'm with you that the past is the past but again, thats why I'm asking, I've never dated a women with that philosophy! The few that have posted are rare gems indeed and hats off to you! The ones that are hovering without posting are the ones I'm asking I think! Maybe the other ladies are still asleep?