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I answer all questions honestly and don't leave out things or try to cover things up... However, I don't have much to tell  Thats probably true but at the same time, thats what I mean, all women say they have nothing to tell. Us guys know that isn't true but we let you slide on it! Why do they all say they have nothing to tell? Well...I can't speak for all women But im a virgin and have chosen to lead me life a certain way...not only sex wise But sometimes maybe for others it's that they are ashamed And/or don't want you to view them a certain way My question isn't motivated by anger or judgement but you kind of make my case for me. How do you think men feel? We don't want women to view us "a certain way" but we fess up, if we don't, we're in deep **** and we never hear the end of it. Does that mean that no woman has let her boyfriend take shall we say photos of her? Has she never had more than one man in her bed(you are allowed to you know)! Does she have no mistakes at all? I don't have that answer for you... We all make mistakes...mine just aren't sexual  But I think you are honestly giving men too much credit...men lie 2...and I have had plenty of male friends admit they have skeletons they wouldn't tell their gf's.... So this is not a female issue...it's a human issue that varies from person to person Whoever wants to believe me...that's on them I don't lie...I have always been honest...and if that person doesn't like me....NEXT I think people care what others think in general too much... If they don't like the real you...that's their loss :] |
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Edited by
izzie
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WOW
ok you have some serious issues.... first off.. i dont think that ALL men are DOGS!!! some yes.. and some girls are b!tch whores... if everyone were the same then we'd all be sittin on a burgendy couch in a white tank and green pj pants.... but we arent... i dont lie about my past... not all women lie.... what do you want to know??? ive been with 17 guys willingly.. been raped by 3 guys.. one twice.. but cannot pres charges cuz there was no proof.. ive had a gun held to my head and a knife to my throat... by a male... not to mention the hell that i lived in for 6 years with myex.. who thought that after he puched few walls then i should be next..... and through all of this.. im still not near as jaded as you!!!!!!!!! i feel sorry for you.... good luck 
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I'd say on the field of dating, men/women have about the same batting average. They are both human, capable of the same manipulation and lies. There is no all men or all women. Each gender has their own anf same amount of fallacies.
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I answer all questions honestly and don't leave out things or try to cover things up... However, I don't have much to tell Thats probably true but at the same time, thats what I mean, all women say they have nothing to tell. Us guys know that isn't true but we let you slide on it! Why do they all say they have nothing to tell? Well...I can't speak for all women But im a virgin and have chosen to lead me life a certain way...not only sex wise But sometimes maybe for others it's that they are ashamed And/or don't want you to view them a certain way My question isn't motivated by anger or judgement but you kind of make my case for me. How do you think men feel? We don't want women to view us "a certain way" but we fess up, if we don't, we're in deep **** and we never hear the end of it. Does that mean that no woman has let her boyfriend take shall we say photos of her? Has she never had more than one man in her bed(you are allowed to you know)! Does she have no mistakes at all? I don't have that answer for you... We all make mistakes...mine just aren't sexual But I think you are honestly giving men too much credit...men lie 2...and I have had plenty of male friends admit they have skeletons they wouldn't tell their gf's.... So this is not a female issue...it's a human issue that varies from person to person Whoever wants to believe me...that's on them I don't lie...I have always been honest...and if that person doesn't like me....NEXT I think people care what others think in general too much... If they don't like the real you...that's their loss :] A fair and true statement, I guess maybe I shouldn't have made it gender specific but I get told I'm honest to the point of being brutal! When someone asks me a question in private, I answer. I didn't really mean to put a sex overtone on the conversation, but I guess thats how it came out though. I was sort of shooting for general but now that you mention it, thats usually what a new parter goes fishing for man or woman. Okay, rephrase! Are you totally honest with your partner about who you are and where you've been when you enter into a new relationship? Hows that? |
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I'd say on the field of dating, men/women have about the same batting average. They are both human, capable of the same manipulation and lies. There is no all men or all women. Each gender has their own anf same amount of fallacies. Wise words, maybe my ex is just super cagey! I guess I should give the background in that she wasn't just an ex per say, we were engaged to be married but immigration wouldn't let her stay in Canada so she had to go home. We still talk online and that is what promted my question. She's always fishing for my dirt and playing angel at the same time. I know her though! Thats whats funny about it. She has mischeif bones in her body for sure! |
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Edited by
Peccy
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izz you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol
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izz you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol if not then no..  |
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iss you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol LMAO  Have you noticed though that few women actually came to the table for this thread! Drinks for those who did! The rest just coward like they always do!
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iss you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol LMAO Have you noticed though that few women actually came to the table for this thread! Drinks for those who did! The rest just coward like they always do! |
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iss you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol LMAO Have you noticed though that few women actually came to the table for this thread! Drinks for those who did! The rest just coward like they always do! its 2 AM!!!! they are sleeping..... i dare you to post this at noon and see what lilith has to say to you!!!!! 
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I answer all questions honestly and don't leave out things or try to cover things up... However, I don't have much to tell Thats probably true but at the same time, thats what I mean, all women say they have nothing to tell. Us guys know that isn't true but we let you slide on it! Why do they all say they have nothing to tell? Well...I can't speak for all women But im a virgin and have chosen to lead me life a certain way...not only sex wise But sometimes maybe for others it's that they are ashamed And/or don't want you to view them a certain way My question isn't motivated by anger or judgement but you kind of make my case for me. How do you think men feel? We don't want women to view us "a certain way" but we fess up, if we don't, we're in deep **** and we never hear the end of it. Does that mean that no woman has let her boyfriend take shall we say photos of her? Has she never had more than one man in her bed(you are allowed to you know)! Does she have no mistakes at all? I don't have that answer for you... We all make mistakes...mine just aren't sexual But I think you are honestly giving men too much credit...men lie 2...and I have had plenty of male friends admit they have skeletons they wouldn't tell their gf's.... So this is not a female issue...it's a human issue that varies from person to person Whoever wants to believe me...that's on them I don't lie...I have always been honest...and if that person doesn't like me....NEXT I think people care what others think in general too much... If they don't like the real you...that's their loss :] A fair and true statement, I guess maybe I shouldn't have made it gender specific but I get told I'm honest to the point of being brutal! When someone asks me a question in private, I answer. I didn't really mean to put a sex overtone on the conversation, but I guess thats how it came out though. I was sort of shooting for general but now that you mention it, thats usually what a new parter goes fishing for man or woman. Okay, rephrase! Are you totally honest with your partner about who you are and where you've been when you enter into a new relationship? Hows that? Definitely...because I would want the same For some it takes a while to find someone similar to you in that aspect that will value your relationship and be truthful ....as in my experience It is unfortunate, but keep lookin :] |
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dude, you've got to stop puttin all women into one category! All men/women are different.
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WOW ok you have some serious issues.... first off.. i dont think that ALL men are DOGS!!! some yes.. and some girls are b!tch whores... if everyone were the same then we'd all be sittin on a burgendy couch in a white tank and green pj pants.... but we arent... i dont lie about my past... not all women lie.... what do you want to know??? ive been with 17 guys willingly.. been raped by 3 guys.. one twice.. but cannot pres charges cuz there was no proof.. ive had a gun held to my head and a knife to my throat... by a male... and through all of this.. im still not near as jaded as you!!!!!!!!! i feel sorry for you.... good luck I'm not Jaded or angry, just get a chuckle out the whole thing. I was only asking a question! Cudos to you for stating openly, Its hard in these threads to keep from looking bitter when trying to have an open conversation! I do admit that the thread revolves around the people I interact with and does not include "all women" I'm not lashing out at women or making bitter statements, I'm just kind of saying what the hell! |
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dude, you've got to stop puttin all women into one category! All men/women are different. A Ditto on the thank you Peccy Big hugs for My Izzie somes Kiss's too  I for one am a very open person and when asked about it,,, We are all Human and have a past some nice and some not so nice,, I think when the comfort zone has been established then we are more able to let go and talk openly about it,,,, I think this might go both ways,, no one is perfect.. |
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iss you said ask, ever made out with a farm animal? excluding sheep because most have made out with those.............lol LMAO Have you noticed though that few women actually came to the table for this thread! Drinks for those who did! The rest just coward like they always do! its 2 AM!!!! they are sleeping..... i dare you to post this at noon and see what lilith has to say to you!!!!! This thread will still be around! I'm sure I will get right and truely lynched but I hope you see that its not bitterness or anger that drives me, its curiosity! Women have their secrets and I guess my ex's are just better at getting mine from me than I am from them! I"m not the person who put a hostile spin on this thread. Its the people who misunderstoon what i was asking! |
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((((((((((((mama))))))))))))))))
dude, you've got to stop puttin all women into one category! All men/women are different. A Ditto on the thank you Peccy Big hugs for My Izzie somes Kiss's too I for one am a very open person and when asked about it,,, We are all Human and have a past some nice and some not so nice,, I think when the comfort zone has been established then we are more able to let go and talk openly about it,,,, I think this might go both ways,, no one is perfect.. |
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((((((((((((mama)))))))))))))))) dude, you've got to stop puttin all women into one category! All men/women are different. A Ditto on the thank you Peccy Big hugs for My Izzie somes Kiss's too I for one am a very open person and when asked about it,,, We are all Human and have a past some nice and some not so nice,, I think when the comfort zone has been established then we are more able to let go and talk openly about it,,,, I think this might go both ways,, no one is perfect.. Hello Beautiful,,,
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i miss you sweet lady!
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Hostile spin?
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Edited by
theotherbachelor
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Hostile spin? Just replying to being called bitter Peccy. I'm not a bitter person at all, in fact, I'm pretty mellow and happy. The fact that everyone seems to say the past is the past and it doesn't matter is what gave rise to my original question. Well, I guess maybe a slightly altered version of my opening is why do women go digging into mens past so heavily if it doesn't matter? Not that I have drastic secrets mind you as I have never cheated, struck, or harmed any woman in my entire life! I just partied a lot when I was young! |
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