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Man don't let one persons opinion guide your decision! Say what you want when you want where you want how you want. We're all in here for a reason, hell I would rather be at a Reggae concert outdoors with a long legged female. There is a reason I'm not
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i go along with sassy,,,,,th papper is th frist mistake,,stay in love longr,live together
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He is so right Dave ..listen to him!
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I already told him. He'll listen to a female though. Males opinions usually don't hold much water in these circumstances Take the advice or continue to wander...it is rather simple really, you are simply not taking anyone's advice. Hopefully you get a brighter outlook on things, and you find a lady that you care for and equally she cares for you back...however moaning over and over on this forum no matter what is said isn't going to help you. Not putting you down, simply saying what you need to do...you know what you need to do, we cannot help you any further then what we have already done. |
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Stop posting get on the game threads and occupy your mind for awhile you need the distraction. We have fun with word games and laugh alot. Don't let what people say get to you, it won't help you.
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We want good thing for you Dave.
And for you to take care of yourself!
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He is so right Dave ..listen to him! i am talk about hffmana something sorry I really messed this up! |
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As I am getting older I want to be married before I die. Age is just a number . You should take one day at a time . All people in this site are in the same boat and are looking for friends and spouses . However lots of them are having fun and enjoying themselves in emails , IM , and forums . Marriage is not an obligation on people and when the time is right it will come withoiut one knowing it . I got two divorces and I am so happy now as if I was born yesterday . I knew some wonderful people here and I am sure you can make many friends . Be optimistic , see life as it is and not as it should be . One day you will have a sweet heart and a wife . Take care and make yourself happy . I am sure you can . |
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((((((Sam)))))
That was terrific , listen to him Dave!
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We want good thing for you Dave. And for you to take care of yourself! Good thoughts. I hope you're right. |
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eventually everything dies alone, whether there is "someone there" or not..
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i was single for 10 years befor i met my wife through yahoo personals. it was a rough time, but my secret to success was to be ok with being single. loveing yourself and being comfortable with living alone is a key ingredent. i spent 4 of those 10 years living with my siberian husky in the mountains of colorado in a cabin. i learned to be alone, learned patience, learned how to cook good healthy meals for myself. i learned how to get up at 3 in the morning and shovel tons of snow off a gravel driveway till dawn so i could go to work. i learn how to sew buttons on my shirts. i learned how to be a deadly shot with a bow. i hiked at 10,000 feet above sea level for hours on end, i learned how to make brownies at that level by adding extra flour. there is so much stuff to think about, besides a mate.
boys, get real about yourselves and stop being such big babies. life is too short to worry about having a mate. your best mate is yourself! learn to live alone, then and then only if your blessed by God, the right mate will someday walk around the corner and there she will be! stop your wineing, want some cheese with that wine? "men will be men if men can learn how to be men". libraleo |
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I don't think this is "whining" as a lot of people have. I just take it to mean someone is unhappy and voicing it. We Can do that right? People voice when they are happy. I'm not sure everyone, due to various circumstances can see how to pull oneself up out of the hole they might be in and I think we have to allow for so many variables that we may not be aware of. Obviously we all wanted something when we came here, whether to meet someone to date, or to make friends. Perhaps some have been out of the habit of that for so long, they may not remember how any more. Just some thoughts.
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i was single for 10 years befor i met my wife through yahoo personals. it was a rough time, but my secret to success was to be ok with being single. loveing yourself and being comfortable with living alone is a key ingredent. i spent 4 of those 10 years living with my siberian husky in the mountains of colorado in a cabin. i learned to be alone, learned patience, learned how to cook good healthy meals for myself. i learned how to get up at 3 in the morning and shovel tons of snow off a gravel driveway till dawn so i could go to work. i learn how to sew buttons on my shirts. i learned how to be a deadly shot with a bow. i hiked at 10,000 feet above sea level for hours on end, i learned how to make brownies at that level by adding extra flour. there is so much stuff to think about, besides a mate. boys, get real about yourselves and stop being such big babies. life is too short to worry about having a mate. your best mate is yourself! learn to live alone, then and then only if your blessed by God, the right mate will someday walk around the corner and there she will be! stop your wineing, want some cheese with that wine? "men will be men if men can learn how to be men". libraleo |
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We want good thing for you Dave. And for you to take care of yourself! I have forgoten your name, thank you for the good thoughts. I feel worse then before I started the thread. |
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couple of things you could try to remain positive:
Make a pact with yourself to be responsible for choices that you make that affect your healing. I am responsible for the victim thoughts which stay in my mind. I am responsible for denying what I know to be true about myself. I am responsible for the people with whom I surround myself. I am responsible for remaining in victim beliefs. I let my victim thoughts go. I affirm that I am healthy and whole. while it may not be easy, once you have stopped being the victim you can be the hero of your own life. good luck!!!
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couple of things you could try to remain positive: Make a pact with yourself to be responsible for choices that you make that affect your healing. I am responsible for the victim thoughts which stay in my mind. I am responsible for denying what I know to be true about myself. I am responsible for the people with whom I surround myself. I am responsible for remaining in victim beliefs. I let my victim thoughts go. I affirm that I am healthy and whole. while it may not be easy, once you have stopped being the victim you can be the hero of your own life. good luck!!! |
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couple of things you could try to remain positive: Make a pact with yourself to be responsible for choices that you make that affect your healing. I am responsible for the victim thoughts which stay in my mind. I am responsible for denying what I know to be true about myself. I am responsible for the people with whom I surround myself. I am responsible for remaining in victim beliefs. I let my victim thoughts go. I affirm that I am healthy and whole. while it may not be easy, once you have stopped being the victim you can be the hero of your own life. good luck!!! must be my fault 
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couple of things you could try to remain positive: Make a pact with yourself to be responsible for choices that you make that affect your healing. I am responsible for the victim thoughts which stay in my mind. I am responsible for denying what I know to be true about myself. I am responsible for the people with whom I surround myself. I am responsible for remaining in victim beliefs. I let my victim thoughts go. I affirm that I am healthy and whole. while it may not be easy, once you have stopped being the victim you can be the hero of your own life. good luck!!! Why aren't you the cheerful type... |
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couple of things you could try to remain positive: Make a pact with yourself to be responsible for choices that you make that affect your healing. I am responsible for the victim thoughts which stay in my mind. I am responsible for denying what I know to be true about myself. I am responsible for the people with whom I surround myself. I am responsible for remaining in victim beliefs. I let my victim thoughts go. I affirm that I am healthy and whole. while it may not be easy, once you have stopped being the victim you can be the hero of your own life. good luck!!! Why aren't you the cheerful type... |
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