i didnt mean to
or
it was an accident..


followed closely by

well you werent here when i needed some.. so i found someone else...

(i was at work!!!)

yes he was a ahole

First one: "Well Julie, I'm just not ready for a relationship" (we had been dating a year)


Second man: Denied it.

the only excuse i got i dont find lame yet truthful.... we had a great sex life<unfortunately i was sharing that with others due to his activities>... im really sorry its not you... im a sex addict.. and im a sick person, well i chose not to take more chances, but i can say this dont think he cheated on his next girlfriend

I can't even recall them all.... I've had quite a few. Usually just "I'm sorry", and once "I never thought you'd find out".

There is no excuse though, so I really don't care what they said.

He was never MAN enough to own up to it!

There is absolutley NEVER a reason to cheat on your spouse, NEVER! If you are unhappy, get out.

Humm the famous last words....


I don't know why, it just happened followed by well it did not mean anything anyway! Cause I'm not going to leave you I Love you!

(Those were his words)


Hummm did not mean anything, too bad because you sure put a lot on the line for something that did not mean anything to you. You better hope she gives you a place to stay cause your not staying here another night.

The one that was cheating on me never admitted to
it, but I knew and had caught him. I guess if he never admitted to it, in his eyes he could'nt be guilty. He was one of those that went around using women. He was also an alcoholic, and used that excuse for anything and everything.
I put him out the door for endangering my life
with his escapades.

"Well you were my first and I wanted to see what other partners like and do different."

When I found out, and told him to hit the road (my first ex), he cried and said he just wasn't the type that could come home and mow the yard, etc? HUH? I asked when he'd ever had to mow---I always did it! So then he said I wasn't any fun because I didn't drink? Again, HUH? One of us had to stay sober and be a parent. He actually was an okay guy, we just got married too young.

My wife cheated on me last year.
"It was generational sin."
Her Great grandmother, grandmother, Dad and Mom and Aunts were all divorced and cheaters.

"Because she was raped by her dad as a child"

"Because she didn't respect me"
I don't drink or go to bars or stay out late.
I make the breakfast, the lunches and keep everybody on time for school and work. Her sister told me, it was because she lost respect for herself.



uh... I don't know... there were so many excuses. I just know everybody makes mistakes. I know I probaby would have made the same mistakes if I weren't so afraid of dieases and getting caught (I talk in my sleep).



My best friend who help introduce me to christianity, cheated on his wife. Yeah at the time he had a few excuses. Now after 3 years living with a girlfriend and pretty well off finanically, I think he still loves his EX and his new excuse that just recently occurs to him is his medication. He was on "Testorone" medication for his bones (no pun intended). He realizes when he was on the medication, he was really aggressive and had road rage and it affected his personality. Couple with Alcohol and a out of state business trip and his guilt and her unforgiveness (with Pain) after telling the truth... created a divorce situation. She is still hurt and he is still miserable and lost.