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Topic: Being too attractive.........................
Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 07/21/08 10:13 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves K im not talking about someone who is conceited im talking about someone who just because they are considered attractive people treat them differently.............

hdjackyl Joined Mon 07/14/08 Posts: 313	Mon 07/21/08 10:13 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves Ain't that the truth. Fortunately, I don't have that problem. lol LOL

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Mon 07/21/08 10:14 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves Ain't that the truth.

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Mon 07/21/08 10:14 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves im sorry..were you saying something.. i cant seem to take my eyes off your back pockets long enough to read what you are saying... Aint it sad, that's my good side.. :( very distinguished... not your good side... tied..

hdjackyl Joined Mon 07/14/08 Posts: 313	Mon 07/21/08 10:14 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves im sorry..were you saying something.. i cant seem to take my eyes off your back pockets long enough to read what you are saying... Aint it sad, that's my good side.. :( k now im curious.. pervin ya.. You'll be sorry

cruisin Joined Wed 12/19/07 Posts: 316	Mon 07/21/08 10:15 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves Ain't that the truth. Fortunately, I don't have that problem. lol LOL then again, it would be kinda wierd if someone loved you more than you loved yourself.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 07/21/08 10:15 PM
Ohhh....you mean like..a guy sees a woman that just stuns him ( and not with a taser )...and he thinks about going up and saying hello...but then thinks about it and figures that she is so far out of his league....that she could have whoever she wanted...that he just doesn't bother??

hdjackyl Joined Mon 07/14/08 Posts: 313	Mon 07/21/08 10:16 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves im sorry..were you saying something.. i cant seem to take my eyes off your back pockets long enough to read what you are saying... Aint it sad, that's my good side.. :( very distinguished... not your good side... tied.. distinguished = Grey right?? lol

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 07/21/08 10:16 PM
By the way if you consider yourself attractive there is nothing wrong with that............it means that you are comfortable with who you are and dont need outside approval..............

hdjackyl Joined Mon 07/14/08 Posts: 313	Mon 07/21/08 10:17 PM
Hard to love someone when you can never love them as much as they love themselves Ain't that the truth. Fortunately, I don't have that problem. lol LOL then again, it would be kinda wierd if someone loved you more than you loved yourself. Hmmmm, not in my book

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/21/08 10:17 PM
By the way if you consider yourself attractive there is nothing wrong with that............it means that you are comfortable with who you are and dont need outside approval.............. And I am beautiful!

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Mon 07/21/08 10:17 PM Edited by izzie on Mon 07/21/08 10:30 PM
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Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 07/21/08 10:20 PM
People who are too attractive infact, attract hate. Its not a silly question. Men, how many times have you seen another man who is better looking than you and felt threaten? Women, I know this...you see another girl who is prettier than you and up goes the defense. Based on looks alone, we all want the beatiful people to fail. We want them to succeed on brains and intellect, but if they have a better ass? let them die!! Therefore, the pretty people have to overcome the bias. Sometimes it makes it more difficult for them. again i say... ive personaly never had that problem... as i am a duck.... and the ugly people (aka ducks) get treated differently all the time.. its not jelousy.. its just hatered. as we are not what people want society to see.. we are not what people want to have to look at day after day... poor pretty people.. so sorry for your tough time.. geting all the guys in highschool.. having all the people fight to be your friend.. so sorry things were so tough for you.... EVERYONE has had it tough at one time or another..... its called life... JMO Your taking this way too personally...............calm down its just a discussion and now we got your side of the story..............wow to that..............so my question is valid it must be a curse to be attractive...................point taken.......

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 07/21/08 10:20 PM
Seriously....I am glad that I am not a total dog...I deal with it.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 07/21/08 10:21 PM
long ago and far away, i worked with sun-coast chippendales and international male, when i was young and beautiful, and none of us were cursed with any infliction of datelessness at any time, and yes, i'm very comfortable with being ugly as hell now, and i don't worry about anything. i just don't date, or look.

christyc Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 26	Mon 07/21/08 10:21 PM
It depends on the situation. Your popularity can contribute to that factor as well. Like if you were a famous model or movie star. There is a difference in how you show yourself. You can wear skimpy wear and totally catch every guys eye, and you can just wear a thick sheet and flip-flops and still catch men looking at you. It really all depends on how you handle it and how you decide to treat others. Our womanly curves and appearance can be our power. Just be proud of who you are and don't worry about the degree of your looks. Just try to look presentable and nice. There is always going to be good and bad guys out there. We all seem to have to kiss plenty of toads before we find a prince.

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 07/21/08 10:22 PM
By the way if you consider yourself attractive there is nothing wrong with that............it means that you are comfortable with who you are and dont need outside approval.............. And I am beautiful! And yes you are....................

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 07/21/08 10:24 PM
We all seem to have to kiss plenty of toads before we find a prince. LIES!!!! Us toads NEVER get kissed!!!! LOL

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Mon 07/21/08 10:26 PM
can being too attractive be a curse................and does that complicate your life sometimes? Ive noticed in people that are good looking that they have to try that much harder to be accepted. The overweight person seems to be more accepted than the barbie doll..... This comment is SO NOT TRUE! The society "men" WANT BARBIE DOLLS, plain and simple.. we as "healthy" women have to try HARDER to even get them to look at us, not to mention even TALK to us. Just because we may be overweight does not make us unattractive..

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Mon 07/21/08 10:30 PM
can being too attractive be a curse................and does that complicate your life sometimes? Ive noticed in people that are good looking that they have to try that much harder to be accepted. The overweight person seems to be more accepted than the barbie doll..... This comment is SO NOT TRUE! The society "men" WANT BARBIE DOLLS, plain and simple.. we as "healthy" women have to try HARDER to even get them to look at us, not to mention even TALK to us. Just because we may be overweight does not make us unattractive..