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Topic: "I would like to get to know you more"
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Sun 07/20/08 08:32 PM


I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that men get worn down and as tired of some of the BS that makes up online communication, as we women do.

My guess is that after a few dozen unanswered emails they just don't want to invest the time/energy into getting specific with their questions until they have a reasonable assurance that the other person is at least mildly interested in continuing the process with them.

Written communication is not everyone's strong suit, so sometimes you have to read between the lines and give an extra benefit of the doubt with regard to intent/sincerity, etc.


I agree with you Elaine but it's a bit of an evil cycle at a certain point. if everyone gives up, no one wins.


Absolutely right. But do YOU respond to all the emails you get?

One thing I would like to add...some guys, when they decide to email an attractive woman ( which you are ) get pretty nervous about the impression they are going to make. They don't want to blow any chance they may have had at getting to know you, so they take the generic route and don't say much of anything.

You happen to find the lack of specific questions kinda creepy. To each their own I suppose.

What I might suggest would be that you make reference to that somewhere in your profile. Not necessarily say " it's creepy " but let them know that if they want to email you, they are going to want to be a little bit creative.

Just a thought.

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