Topic: "I would like to get to know you more"
907daydreamer's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:00 AM

I do not find it creepy at all. You want to know more about WHAT you say? Ummmm YOU. I mean they could say nothing at all not show any type of interest. This is a dating site that is what we are here for, is to get to know each other.huh


exactly.

guyguy1225's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:02 AM

I do not find it creepy at all. You want to know more about WHAT you say? Ummmm YOU. I mean they could say nothing at all not show any type of interest. This is a dating site that is what we are here for, is to get to know each other.huh
Right -on !! well said !:thumbsup: :thumbsup: ....

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:05 AM


Makes sence, i never thought of it that way



well, you would think that they would just start off getting to know you, rather than saying that they would like to.

there's that...and the odd number of times that that exact statement is included in an email. it almost feels like code for something I'm not privy to.


Maybe its just the opposite of the meaning, maybe its the idea that the men dont really care. Ahh , it seems like you said that they would ask more specific questions about things they really want to know, to know everying seems too odd. Interesting that this phrase is common.

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:08 AM



Makes sence, i never thought of it that way



well, you would think that they would just start off getting to know you, rather than saying that they would like to.

there's that...and the odd number of times that that exact statement is included in an email. it almost feels like code for something I'm not privy to.


Maybe its just the opposite of the meaning, maybe its the idea that the men dont really care. Ahh , it seems like you said that they would ask more specific questions about things they really want to know, to know everying seems too odd. Interesting that this phrase is common.


common and creepy!

iRon's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:08 AM
Is that not why we are here to get to know one another?

iRon's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:08 AM
Is that not why we are here to get to know one another?

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:10 AM
its the approach, in which she is making a vaild point.. if you want to know more about me, what exactly do you want to know? Not everything, especially if this is common in mens messages.

whispertoascream's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:10 AM
When they say they want to know more about you, does not mean you have to tell them everything. You are your own person, only tell what you want to tell.

I just do not get where the creepiness comes from.

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:11 AM
consistency is creepy

iRon's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:11 AM
Better than them coming out and asking what your bra sizes is......



See it could be worsehappy

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:12 AM
lol i like to leave that up in the air

whispertoascream's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:12 AM

Better than them coming out and asking what your bra sizes is......



See it could be worsehappy

What IS your bra size?laugh

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:13 AM

Better than them coming out and asking what your bra sizes is......



See it could be worsehappy


bahahaha and I think on that note I'm done complaining...

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:15 AM
i think they are still waiting laugh

iRon's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:15 AM


Better than them coming out and asking what your bra sizes is......



See it could be worsehappy

What IS your bra size?laugh



See I am not offended in the least. Now if you had ask me the size of my penis we might have to talk but my bra size does not offended at all.:wink:

guyguy1225's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:17 AM
I really don't see anything creepy about it I think your reading more into this then should be ..I think there is a lot of questions that people take out of context....yes one should be precise in what they have to say ...but in the spirit of dating it is sometimes not easy....thats all I got to say !!drinker drinker

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:18 AM



Better than them coming out and asking what your bra sizes is......



See it could be worsehappy

What IS your bra size?laugh



See I am not offended in the least. Now if you had ask me the size of my penis we might have to talk but my bra size does not offended at all.:wink:


but it is at least a specific question.
how would any of you respond if someone said "I would like to get to know you more"

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:18 AM
Edited by KalamazooGuy87 on Sun 07/20/08 02:20 AM
i would ask you what would you like to know laugh

and i would be creeped out!

907daydreamer's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:24 AM

i would ask you what would you like to know laugh

and i would be creeped out!


cause it's effin creepy!

iRon's photo
Sun 07/20/08 02:25 AM
Edited by iRon on Sun 07/20/08 02:31 AM




Better than them coming out and asking what your bra sizes is......



See it could be worsehappy

What IS your bra size?laugh



See I am not offended in the least. Now if you had ask me the size of my penis we might have to talk but my bra size does not offended at all.:wink:


but it is at least a specific question.
how would any of you respond if someone said "I would like to get to know you more"


Here or in person I seriously would have no problem with that question.....We all have to start somewhere and that to me is
a fair question,

At a party a guy walks over and says, I have noticed you here tonight and you have a great smile and "I would like to get to know you more" What is you favorite food? Where is the coolest place you have ever been?
Did you like school?

My point is it leads to simple question and sometime love can come for simple places.

My .02