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Topic: Do girls really want a 'nice guy'?
TheMissile's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:17 AM
Here's to all the girls who think that all the nice guys are gone... There are still nice guys in this world. Guys who will call just to say i love you. Guys who will hold your hand while walking. Guys who will say that you look amazing because they mean it, not just to get in your pants. Guys who will buy you a star and name it for you, just so you have a star to wish upon. Guys who will stay awake next to you and watch you sleep just because of you peaceful you look. Guys who love the way you look when you just woke up. Guys who will look into your eyes instead of your shirt. Guys who will Kiss you on the forehead when you're crying. Guys who will open the door for you. Guys who will dance with you and kiss you in the rain. And finally, guys who say, 'I love you" and mean it truly for now and forever. We are still out here. Most likely we are your best friend who you've never thought of that way, but thats all we've thought about when you tell us about the latest asshole that dumped you. We aren't hidden away or all taken. We are still here, and we are looking for you. The true and honest girls who wont take advantage of us and take us for granted. So if you're looking for that one nice guy left in the world, perhaps you should look behind you because most likely, they've supported you all along.

These are my words. Take them as you will. Many people make the mistake of assuming that simply because someone is a "nice guy" that they are also a doormat for people to walk all over. Do not mistake kindness for weakness. This is a common mistake that is made more often than is necessary. Learn from the past and the last "bad boy" that cheated on you, beat you, or just didn't care. Find yourself a nice guy, and realize that just because we're nice on the outside doesn't mean that we can't still be a man.

Nursenell76's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:21 AM
I can only speak for myself on this one, but YES a nice guy is what I am looking for. happy

myssfytz's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:23 AM
Yes, we are.And yeh, I KNOW for a fact they are still out there.flowerforyou

YourLove1's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:24 AM

I can only speak for myself on this one, but YES a nice guy is what I am looking for. happy
we're all nice guys drinker drinker drinker

Nursenell76's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:27 AM


I can only speak for myself on this one, but YES a nice guy is what I am looking for. happy
we're all nice guys drinker drinker drinker


With nice wieners

YourLove1's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:29 AM



I can only speak for myself on this one, but YES a nice guy is what I am looking for. happy
we're all nice guys drinker drinker drinker


With nice wieners
bigsmile

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:32 AM
be careful on what you wish for....

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:32 AM
Actually when you "buy a star and name it" you're getting scammed. Only one government agency names stars and they don't sell any of the rights to them. flowerforyou

guyguy1225's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:34 AM
I'm a very nice guy....:angel: but been trying to be a bad boy too !!pitchfork :wink: laugh

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:36 AM

Actually when you "buy a star and name it" you're getting scammed. Only one government agency names stars and they don't sell any of the rights to them. flowerforyou


its the thought that counts flowerforyou

iRon's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:39 AM
No they don't!!!! They want to be treated like crap, cheated on, made the last priority in their mans life. As long as he has money, a nice car and a place they can live in they don't care how bad they get treated. Some will even let their man beat them and cheat on them as long as they get the diamond ear rings, nice clothes and have a nice car to drive.

This chick at work knows her husband is cheating with at least two other women and one her best friend and she says as long as she has access to his/their fat bank account she don't care....She has a little boy toy on the side that shows her and once of respect and that is all she needs. well that and a fat bank account.

I have been around awhile and the above is the norm. I mean how much fun is it to talk to their girlfriends about a boring nice guy that treats her with respect, comes home on time and follows all the rule. To women that is not sexy, it's boring and unwanted. They would rather have the bad boy as he is far more of a challenge, full of drama and much more sexy than any nice guy could every be

dangurtner's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:40 AM

Here's to all the girls who think that all the nice guys are gone... There are still nice guys in this world. Guys who will call just to say i love you. Guys who will hold your hand while walking. Guys who will say that you look amazing because they mean it, not just to get in your pants. Guys who will buy you a star and name it for you, just so you have a star to wish upon. Guys who will stay awake next to you and watch you sleep just because of you peaceful you look. Guys who love the way you look when you just woke up. Guys who will look into your eyes instead of your shirt. Guys who will Kiss you on the forehead when you're crying. Guys who will open the door for you. Guys who will dance with you and kiss you in the rain. And finally, guys who say, 'I love you" and mean it truly for now and forever. We are still out here. Most likely we are your best friend who you've never thought of that way, but thats all we've thought about when you tell us about the latest asshole that dumped you. We aren't hidden away or all taken. We are still here, and we are looking for you. The true and honest girls who wont take advantage of us and take us for granted. So if you're looking for that one nice guy left in the world, perhaps you should look behind you because most likely, they've supported you all along.

These are my words. Take them as you will. Many people make the mistake of assuming that simply because someone is a "nice guy" that they are also a doormat for people to walk all over. Do not mistake kindness for weakness. This is a common mistake that is made more often than is necessary. Learn from the past and the last "bad boy" that cheated on you, beat you, or just didn't care. Find yourself a nice guy, and realize that just because we're nice on the outside doesn't mean that we can't still be a man.


Thank you for writing this

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:40 AM
however you forget to realize that she doesnt speak for the women of america... she the extreme data of the Bell-shaped Curve

Steve3815's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:40 AM
i personally think most women "think" they want a nice guy but when 1 shows up there not really interested.

AtariBaby's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:43 AM
We are all motivated by different forms of people.
Some girls like the arrogant cocky type while others go for quiet reserved guys.The same applies to us guys.
Its only when your older that you truly decide on what type of person is really correct for you.
All in a lifetime I guess!!

TheMissile's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:45 AM

Thank you for writing this

Actually a repost, srry. oops

myssfytz's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:47 AM

No they don't!!!! They want to be treated like crap, cheated on, made the last priority in their mans life. As long as he has money, a nice car and a place they can live in they don't care how bad they get treated. Some will even let their man beat them and cheat on them as long as they get the diamond ear rings, nice clothes and have a nice car to drive.

This chick at work knows her husband is cheating with at least two other women and one her best friend and she says as long as she has access to his/their fat bank account she don't care....She has a little boy toy on the side that shows her and once of respect and that is all she needs. well that and a fat bank account.

I have been around awhile and the above is the norm. I mean how much fun is it to talk to their girlfriends about a boring nice guy that treats her with respect, comes home on time and follows all the rule. To women that is not sexy, it's boring and unwanted. They would rather have the bad boy as he is far more of a challenge, full of drama and much more sexy than any nice guy could every be


please do not generalize, all women are not this way...because we "all" are NOT the same.just because of ur experience and who you know doesnt make it true for all of us. id rather have a nice guy than a fat bank acct and a piece of ar$e on the side!

TheMissile's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:48 AM
Edited by TheMissile on Sun 07/20/08 12:48 AM
OK so replace "all" with "most"...

no photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:51 AM

id rather have a nice guy than a fat bank acct and a piece of ar$e on the side!


But if the guy had a big bank account, wasn't nice, but didn't cheat...would you pick him over a penniless nice guy?

iRon's photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:53 AM

OK so replace "all" with "most"...



What he said......


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