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true that

i would pick the guy who treated me the best, me, NOT where he could take me, what he could buy me etc...i am NOT like that at all!

it would be penniless nice guy for me...

Nice Guys with deep Pockets!

I believe you are sincere but i dont think you quite understand what you are saying. You would justify it differently if you were in that situation. Penniless nice guy= Imatture and unable to support himself, and most people wouldnt be attracted to such.

Nobody ever said immature....Id rather have someone be nice to me than buy me whatever I may want whenever I want it.And ive been with guys that dont have great jobs before as well...and I was still happy..

analyze what you are saying, a jobless nice guy... think about it, most people wouldnt even give him such a chance. am i wrong? Whats attractive about someone who cannot support themselve. Men or women

im not gonna get into this anymore...its a lost case...no offense meant to you...but i look for nice rather than what can be provided for me.


time to crash...c ya tomorrow...goodnight

I went through this phase after my divorce where I was a jerk and a pure Azzhole to women and I got more action than what I knew to do with.

The problem was 1, I did not like who I had become and 2, the type of women I was attracting disgusted me!!!! They were pretty, great bodies but the foulness of the being was beyond sad. Because they disgusted me so bad I found myself treating them worse and worse and the worse I treated them the more they kept coming around. The more they wanted me and wanted me to a point that was sick.......Stocking me and crying for me, throughing themselves down at my feet and would do ANYTHING I wanted them to...

It was a very sad part of my life...I would rather be alone than be with women like that and from what I can tell there are a LOT of women like that.

i know what you mean

just think about what your really saying, im not trying to argue, but broke nice men dont get far in this world

Good night =)

thanks for trying

@iRon - You call it a sad phase of your life (and it obviously was), but I simply call it proof.

Now what's really ironic about this is, I do OK financially, especially for someone my age. I've got a good solid job and from the looks of it I can only go up from here. I don't exactly lead a quiet life, either. I race R/C trucks on a semi-pro level (we can get pretty serious about this stuff ), ride dirt bikes, I'm starting to get into mountain biking and hiking...I mean, I generally keep to myself but when I do go out I can make noise! And it seems like the women in this area would STILL rather go for some slacker dirtbag who works part time at a gas station. It's been something I've been racking my brain over for years now, it just makes no sense to me whatsoever

How about you quit crying

I'm glad that someone else gets it. I fell into this by accident, by ex had cheated on me so I was just pissed at all women and women just loved to be treated like ****.... I never call them back, acted like they meant nothing when around me, dating multiable women at the same time and not caring if they each knew or not....I am don't have the model thing going on but I do have a little cash and I know how to make it look like a lot...I got a nice house and as soon as they saw my house, my toys i.e. boat, bikes and atv's, jet ski It was like I owned them...Some would never leave my house until I made them..........it is so sad they are like that......Today I look for an equal

That is unfortunatly true. I have seen this happen over and over again. I will tell you that it is gold diggers that give good honest women a bad name. I have nice things and am in no way hurting for anything. I have been dumped before plenty of times for women that were gold digging and didn't have a pot to piss in. It seems as if some men would prefer to be that "provider" than to have an equal. Why is that exactly?

to feel important,basically, its almost as though we a are doing our job. I would feel as though i failed if i couldnt provide for my family, never really questioned why.

Like I said today I search for an equal and it maybe I might be alone for awhile......no bimbo is going to get my stuff just because she spread her legs for me. Too many act like thats the way its going to happen Like no!!


Check this, I was seeing and almost living with this way hot blond, things were ok....I find out her "ex" old man was in prison for cooking meth........the day he gets out she goes back to him.... That morning her and I was going at it like bunnies in super heat and as far as i could tell all was well,. I come home her stuff and some of my stuff was gone. SHE WENT BACK TO A METH HEaD that was a cook...Well I don't know what ever happened to him, don't care but she is in jail for taking my stuff......TRUE STORY and I treated her very well, she was a nice piece of eye candy and treated her like a lady......I never saw that coming.....unbelievable......

Missile,

Here is the conclusion I have come to.


I am going to have a good life, share it with long time friends and very close family. I am not talking just material stuf but all the parts that make up a good life and as I live that good life should I find an equal......someone who has it together financially (that does not mean stuff that means responsible with with they got) Spiritually, adventuress, mentally stable, they need to have long time friends and close family and should I be fortunate enough to stumble on this person then in time perhaps I could come to the conclusion that I have found an equal......until then I will enjoy my life to the fullest and that is the best I guess I can do for now.

Ick - Nice guy threads.
Not-Ick - Kind hearted people, giving without strings. Strong on selflessness, truly friendship material. I'd try to never insult a friend by saying she/he is a "nice guy/girl", and often find that some of the most endearing comments are often vulgar or offbeat but maybe that's just me.