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Topic: this is a difficult one
debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 11:34 AM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT

Duffy Joined Sat 10/07/06 Posts: 3775	Sat 07/19/08 11:36 AM
tell um u r a blond, and only date blondes.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 11:37 AM
tell um u r a blond, and only date blondes. lol,

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sat 07/19/08 11:37 AM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT just tell them you already found you a weiner

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sat 07/19/08 11:38 AM
Tell them you prefer powdered sugar, not brown!

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sat 07/19/08 11:38 AM
How you gonna hate on a brother,

coco56 Joined Sun 06/24/07 Posts: 12347	Sat 07/19/08 11:38 AM


mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Sat 07/19/08 11:38 AM
Seriously that is a hard one to answer

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Sat 07/19/08 11:38 AM
I have had this come up actually...I told him straight out, I am not racist but do not date other than caucasion..he was very understanding...or you could tell them you just found someone!

Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Sat 07/19/08 11:39 AM
Forget 'um. If their going to be imature and assume you don't like them because of their race there's nothing you can do. Just tell them your real reason and hope they believe you.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 11:40 AM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT just tell them you already found you a weiner

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 07/19/08 11:41 AM
Why tell anyone youre not attracted to them whether they are a different race or not??? Just say youre not interested. Enough said!!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 11:42 AM
I have had this come up actually...I told him straight out, I am not racist but do not date other than caucasion..he was very understanding...or you could tell them you just found someone! its really hard because im NOT racist, and i dont want to be accused of being one. im just simply NOT attracted to black guys. the hard part is telling them without them calling you racist, but with some i think its unavoidable.

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Sat 07/19/08 11:42 AM
OOOH I know try this!!!! thank you but NO!!! why does it have to be about race???? it really isnt unless you make it so!!! IMHO sounds rascist to me....

30andbored Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 658	Sat 07/19/08 11:42 AM
It shouldn't be too big of a problem I know alot of women that prefer or will only date black men because it is such a appeal for them . . can't change attraction . . some people are attracted to crosseyes and buck teeth . . its not racist its just what floats their boat =P

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 07/19/08 11:43 AM
OOOH I know try this!!!! thank you but NO!!! why does it have to be about race???? it really isnt unless you make it so!!! IMHO sounds rascist to me....

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 11:43 AM
Why tell anyone youre not attracted to them whether they are a different race or not??? Just say youre not interested. Enough said!! i do say that, and they ALWAYS say its because im black isnt it? and i say no, thats why im asking of a way to tell them without coming across racist.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 11:44 AM
It shouldn't be too big of a problem I know alot of women that prefer or will only date black men because it is such a appeal for them . . can't change attraction . . some people are attracted to crosseyes and buck teeth . . its not racist its just what floats their boat =P i agree, its lile i go for a older men, thats my preference.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 11:44 AM
OOOH I know try this!!!! thank you but NO!!! why does it have to be about race???? it really isnt unless you make it so!!! IMHO sounds rascist to me.... like i said its because they ALWAYS SAY, ITS BECAUSE IM BLACK ISNT IT, everyone of them has said that.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sat 07/19/08 11:44 AM
sounds rascist to me. i feel ya on that