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Topic: this is a difficult one
Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sat 07/19/08 04:20 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT I think thats silly, And insulting to Black Men(People). We are not Animals ready to attack. Most Black people Have Brains, and feelings. Not every Black Man is atracted to White Woman. SURPRISE!!!!! Just treat them like a Human Being, and tell them your not interested. Can believe its 2008 Hey bro! Chill.. She isn't attacking anyone. She just needed advice on how to respond when given the 3rd degree. She said she wasn't interested. And he asked her if it was because he was black. She just wanted to know how to deal with that. Please read the entire post before coming to your own conclusion. Thanks!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:22 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT I think thats silly, And insulting to Black Men(People). We are not Animals ready to attack. Most Black people Have Brains, and feelings. Not every Black Man is atracted to White Woman. SURPRISE!!!!! Just treat them like a Human Being, and tell them your not interested. Can believe its 2008 Hey bro! Chill.. She isn't attacking anyone. She just needed advice on how to respond when given the 3rd degree. She said she wasn't interested. And he asked her if it was because he was black. She just wanted to know how to deal with that. Please read the entire post before coming to your own conclusion. Thanks! thankyou.

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Sat 07/19/08 04:25 PM
Just tell him you are a petite girl & you are worried that if the two of you have sex you might explode....

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:28 PM
Just tell him you are a petite girl & you are worried that if the two of you have sex you might explode.... lmao, thats true actually

YamilethJ Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 463	Sat 07/19/08 04:29 PM
I think it is funny

Peekinin Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 4970	Sat 07/19/08 04:32 PM
Hey (((((Debbie)))))) I equate this to the experience I once had with a lesbian When asked if I was interested, I simply said no,,,I prefer men she said, if I ever was to let her know End of conversation I think you tell the truth. Can never go wrong with that

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Sat 07/19/08 04:33 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT Tell them you only date guys who wear chaps, have blonde hair ( not from a bottle) blue eyes ( not contact lenses) yodels like a true Austrian goat herder and answers to the name of How-de-doo-dee

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sat 07/19/08 04:34 PM
Just tell him you are a petite girl & you are worried that if the two of you have sex you might explode.... lmao, thats true actually TMI! jk

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:35 PM
Hey (((((Debbie)))))) I equate this to the experience I once had with a lesbian When asked if I was interested, I simply said no,,,I prefer men she said, if I ever was to let her know End of conversation I think you tell the truth. Can never go wrong with that yes i know, i just didnt want to hurt there feelings, but everyone is telling me to do the same thing so thats what ill do. i did this thread so i wouldnt offend some of the other raced men, and it seems some people havnt read the thread and im getting a bashing for it, when i was just trying to be nice and i wanted some advice. thats the way it goes i guess, i tried, thanks for the advice

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:36 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT Tell them you only date guys who wear chaps, have blonde hair ( not from a bottle) blue eyes ( not contact lenses) yodels like a true Austrian goat herder and answers to the name of How-de-doo-dee lmao

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:36 PM
Just tell him you are a petite girl & you are worried that if the two of you have sex you might explode.... lmao, thats true actually TMI! jk

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sat 07/19/08 04:38 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT Tell them you only date guys who wear chaps, have blonde hair ( not from a bottle) blue eyes ( not contact lenses) yodels like a true Austrian goat herder and answers to the name of How-de-doo-dee You're a riot girl!!! That was hilarious! I spit out my soda!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:39 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT Tell them you only date guys who wear chaps, have blonde hair ( not from a bottle) blue eyes ( not contact lenses) yodels like a true Austrian goat herder and answers to the name of How-de-doo-dee You're a riot girl!!! That was hilarious! I spit out my soda! it was very funny

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Sat 07/19/08 04:44 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT Tell them you only date guys who wear chaps, have blonde hair ( not from a bottle) blue eyes ( not contact lenses) yodels like a true Austrian goat herder and answers to the name of How-de-doo-dee You're a riot girl!!! That was hilarious! I spit out my soda! I have never dated a Black man, does that make me racist? I know for a fact that I intimidate the few men of colour who have been dared by their friends to go ask "the ice queen" for a date, so bravely or stupidly they have approached me only to find that all we have in common is the colour of our skins, that said, there may or may not have been a man of colour who is "man enough" to tame this Amazon!! Now I'm going to make a run for it before my mail box gets filled with cute little notes of " how can you hate a brother?"

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:46 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT Tell them you only date guys who wear chaps, have blonde hair ( not from a bottle) blue eyes ( not contact lenses) yodels like a true Austrian goat herder and answers to the name of How-de-doo-dee You're a riot girl!!! That was hilarious! I spit out my soda! I have never dated a Black man, does that make me racist? I know for a fact that I intimidate the few men of colour who have been dared by their friends to go ask "the ice queen" for a date, so bravely or stupidly they have approached me only to find that all we have in common is the colour of our skins, that said, there may or may not have been a man of colour who is "man enough" to tame this Amazon!! Now I'm going to make a run for it before my mail box gets filled with cute little notes of " how can you hate a brother?" it doesnt make you racist, its your just like most of us who have posted and you want someone your attracted to, youve got a great sense of humour, your funny.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/19/08 04:46 PM
goodnight all my dear friends

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Sat 07/19/08 04:50 PM
how do you tell the opposite race (black/african men) your not attracted to them without being racist. im not racist at all, my neice is mixed race. its just i cant tell thes guys im not attracted to them because ill get accused of being arcist and im NOT Tell them you only date guys who wear chaps, have blonde hair ( not from a bottle) blue eyes ( not contact lenses) yodels like a true Austrian goat herder and answers to the name of How-de-doo-dee You're a riot girl!!! That was hilarious! I spit out my soda! I have never dated a Black man, does that make me racist? I know for a fact that I intimidate the few men of colour who have been dared by their friends to go ask "the ice queen" for a date, so bravely or stupidly they have approached me only to find that all we have in common is the colour of our skins, that said, there may or may not have been a man of colour who is "man enough" to tame this Amazon!! Now I'm going to make a run for it before my mail box gets filled with cute little notes of " how can you hate a brother?" it doesnt make you racist, its your just like most of us who have posted and you want someone your attracted to, youve got a great sense of humour, your funny. Why thank you little lady, I had to laugh my way through life at the best of times, it started from birth, my mum told me that my umbilical cord had more fat around it than I did when I was born,my 4 sisters and 5 brothers took that as their cue to poke fun at me, so I joined in and laughed along with them.

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sat 07/19/08 04:51 PM
goodnight all my dear friends Goodnight to you sweetie! Hope you sleep well..

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Sat 07/19/08 04:53 PM
Good night Debs, sleep well

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Sat 07/19/08 04:55 PM
Good night to you Debbie....Enjoy your evening....there is a full moon tonight, so be careful