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Topic: Once a cheater,
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 07/17/08 10:15 PM
always a cheater? Opinions?

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Thu 07/17/08 10:15 PM
do you believe in change?

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Thu 07/17/08 10:16 PM
You already asked this question!

XxFallenAngelxX Joined Tue 06/10/08 Posts: 162	Thu 07/17/08 10:16 PM
nope some (not all) learn and grow from their mistakes

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Thu 07/17/08 10:16 PM
granted once a alcoholic always, cheaters once they do it once, are much easier to do it again, why i never attempted such...

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 07/17/08 10:16 PM
i agree pretty much, as i dealt with my ex hubby.and im pretty sure he hasent been faithful to his wife, but she can deal with him now

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
It's not true.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
as i've said before i believe people can change I also believe that if you claim to be a christian you should especialy believe that people can change

YamilethJ Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 463	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
Once a cheater, lonelyness will be your best partner.

SAEgirl10 Joined Sun 06/22/08 Posts: 804	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
ALWAYS A CHEATER

STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
do you believe in change? nope thought I did got burned a second time !

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
absolutly i belive that my x wife proved it

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
who knows.. generally yes, but people CAN change.. I just know, I hate cheaters!! lol

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM
I believe people can learn different. I have cheated in the past as revenge for being cheated on but I learned that revenge is not so sweet. If they cheat, don't worry about the get back, just leave.

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Thu 07/17/08 10:18 PM
do you believe in change? nope thought I did got burned a second time ! alcoholics dont change after 1 incident.....

XxFallenAngelxX Joined Tue 06/10/08 Posts: 162	Thu 07/17/08 10:18 PM
I think people get to caught up in the CANT when it comes to change, when infact in all comes down to the WANT

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Thu 07/17/08 10:19 PM
There are NO Absolutes!

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Thu 07/17/08 10:19 PM
Yes, once a cheater always a cheater. Even if they never cheat again they have to own that label because they did it once. I suppose they could become 'former cheater' or 'recovering cheater' but the word cheater is still in both those new labels. IT does not mean they can't be forgiven though.

DrX Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1539	Thu 07/17/08 10:19 PM
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No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Thu 07/17/08 10:20 PM
do you believe in change? I do...I do believe in change! I have a whole piggy bank full of it! JK...someone can have made a one time only mistake, or even a habitual cheat can mend his ways...but I'm afraid the next woman he's with will have to find that out.