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Topic: Once a cheater,
KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Thu 07/17/08 10:21 PM
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STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Thu 07/17/08 10:22 PM
do you believe in change? I do...I do believe in change! I have a whole piggy bank full of it! JK...someone can have made a one time only mistake, or even a habitual cheat can mend his ways...but I'm afraid the next woman he's with will have to find that out. OR HER !AND SHE DID'NT CHANGE ONE BIT !

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Thu 07/17/08 10:22 PM
do you believe in change? I do...I do believe in change! I have a whole piggy bank full of it! JK...someone can have made a one time only mistake, or even a habitual cheat can mend his ways...but I'm afraid the next woman he's with will have to find that out. ahh but he said once a cheater always! not once a cheater with you, would you stay with him, different question =)

JaymeStephens84a0lc Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 2704	Thu 07/17/08 10:22 PM
I won't date anyone who's EVER cheated on anyone else...lol. I'll give them a break if their indiscretions were before the age of 18, but otherwise not interested at all.

XxFallenAngelxX Joined Tue 06/10/08 Posts: 162	Thu 07/17/08 10:23 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself...

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Thu 07/17/08 10:25 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... i think you deserve a gold star or at least a flower

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Thu 07/17/08 10:25 PM
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jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Thu 07/17/08 10:25 PM
I can't answer this question couse I never cheated but I did do some other things when I was younger that I wouldn't think of doing now, only because now I see how stupid and self destructive it was then. Live and learn my JSH friends!

Rainbolt Joined Thu 01/17/08 Posts: 94	Thu 07/17/08 10:25 PM
People can change...dunno about cheating but is cheating really the worse mistake someone has ever made? Think not. Everyone deserves another chance depending on the circumstances.

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Thu 07/17/08 10:26 PM
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XxFallenAngelxX Joined Tue 06/10/08 Posts: 162	Thu 07/17/08 10:27 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... i think you deserve a gold star or at least a flower thanks!

AtariBaby Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1497	Thu 07/17/08 10:27 PM
I think cheaters only change when they are giving the ultimate ultimatum, like when they realise they are about to lose something good. I always viewed that leopards can not change their spots................but maybe they do. As rocky balboa said in rocky 4 "If I can change....you can change.... We all can change".

STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Thu 07/17/08 10:28 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... I'm sorry I was such a fool never rode her about it at all 23 yrs later find out my son is not mine after all! After she did it to me again so there goes that theory sorry !

mass Joined Tue 04/22/08 Posts: 1091	Thu 07/17/08 10:29 PM
Your questions used to provoke more thought.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Thu 07/17/08 10:30 PM
do you believe in change? I do...I do believe in change! I have a whole piggy bank full of it! JK...someone can have made a one time only mistake, or even a habitual cheat can mend his ways...but I'm afraid the next woman he's with will have to find that out. ahh but he said once a cheater always! not once a cheater with you, would you stay with him, different question =) I don't necessarily believe that is true...but I will never know for sure since any first hand knowlege will not be available to me if I ever knew the cheater personally.

XxFallenAngelxX Joined Tue 06/10/08 Posts: 162	Thu 07/17/08 10:34 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... I'm sorry I was such a fool never rode her about it at all 23 yrs later find out my son is not mine after all! After she did it to me again so there goes that theory sorry ! Should I requote my quote? "Some people will forever cheat". My point was that you dont know that just because your ex cheated twice means that everyone who cheats will do it again. Sometimes just seeing the hurt you cause someone is enough to remember why you should never do it again. Im just so tired of everyone wanting to lable and judge based on something someone else did! guess what! I cheated once! Keyword once! never did it again. So I guess once a cheater is not always a cheater.

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Thu 07/17/08 10:39 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... I'm sorry I was such a fool never rode her about it at all 23 yrs later find out my son is not mine after all! After she did it to me again so there goes that theory sorry ! Should I requote my quote? "Some people will forever cheat". My point was that you dont know that just because your ex cheated twice means that everyone who cheats will do it again. Sometimes just seeing the hurt you cause someone is enough to remember why you should never do it again. Im just so tired of everyone wanting to lable and judge based on something someone else did! guess what! I cheated once! Keyword once! never did it again. So I guess once a cheater is not always a cheater. I believe I am the only person to use the term 'label'. And even if you have done it only once still means you cheated. Sad fact is your still young and may do it again.

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Thu 07/17/08 10:43 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... i think you deserve a gold star or at least a flower thanks! welcome , 2 sides to this question each with both extremes, the sucess story and the victim in the other

STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Thu 07/17/08 10:44 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... I'm sorry I was such a fool never rode her about it at all 23 yrs later find out my son is not mine after all! After she did it to me again so there goes that theory sorry ! Should I requote my quote? "Some people will forever cheat". My point was that you dont know that just because your ex cheated twice means that everyone who cheats will do it again. Sometimes just seeing the hurt you cause someone is enough to remember why you should never do it again. Im just so tired of everyone wanting to lable and judge based on something someone else did! guess what! I cheated once! Keyword once! never did it again. So I guess once a cheater is not always a cheater. Don't misunderstand I am not labeling all with a broad brush hell I would never meet anyone again . just sayin it's not always men and I gave her that second chance without rideing her . how do you think it went another twenty three years ? but she was evil all the way she knew all along my son was not mine and then went and screwed around again .

XxFallenAngelxX Joined Tue 06/10/08 Posts: 162	Thu 07/17/08 10:52 PM
damn...all the labels! Im sorry you all got cheated on...Ive been there. But I think people are way to quick to judge. Sure some people cheat and will forever cheat. Others just screw up. I think if you keep dredging up the past cheating...your bringign the next on yourself... I'm sorry I was such a fool never rode her about it at all 23 yrs later find out my son is not mine after all! After she did it to me again so there goes that theory sorry ! Should I requote my quote? "Some people will forever cheat". My point was that you dont know that just because your ex cheated twice means that everyone who cheats will do it again. Sometimes just seeing the hurt you cause someone is enough to remember why you should never do it again. Im just so tired of everyone wanting to lable and judge based on something someone else did! guess what! I cheated once! Keyword once! never did it again. So I guess once a cheater is not always a cheater. I believe I am the only person to use the term 'label'. And even if you have done it only once still means you cheated. Sad fact is your still young and may do it again. You know its funny that people say that just cause you cheated you'll do it again....I may be young, I may have cheated once (and my version of cheating was that I kissed someone other than my b/f,), but the odds of me cheating again are just the same as you cheating. Just cause I (and others) have screwed up, that doesnt mean that our screw ups define who we are or how we act in a relationship.