You know its funny that people say that just cause you cheated you'll do it again....I may be young, I may have cheated once (and my version of cheating was that I kissed someone other than my b/f,), but the odds of me cheating again are just the same as you cheating. Just cause I (and others) have screwed up, that doesnt mean that our screw ups define who we are or how we act in a relationship.

Circumstances change and so do people.

You know its funny that people say that just cause you cheated you'll do it again....I may be young, I may have cheated once (and my version of cheating was that I kissed someone other than my b/f,), but the odds of me cheating again are just the same as you cheating. Just cause I (and others) have screwed up, that doesnt mean that our screw ups define who we are or how we act in a relationship.

OK I never said you would do it again. I have said that if someone has cheated once, AND NEVER DOES IT AGAIN, they will still will always be a cheater. Personal history has been made and in that was an account of cheating.
You are right about our odds being the same about future cheats. The difference is that I have never done it and you have. Nobody on earth can call me a cheater but sad to say your (I am assuming ex boyfriend) can.
I also said that a cheater can be forgiven, but that doesn't erase the fact.
Its just my opinion. If someone kicked my dog, only once, I will still think of them as a dog kicker....and I would forgive them, sure would, but not forget.

I thought you were smarter than that.

I respect your opinion, I just wish that I had never screwed up so that I could sit back and label, judge, sterotype, or whatever you wanna call it, someone based on something that has absolutly nothing to do with who they are, what they stand for. And based on the way you think, Im sure its safe to say that you've lied in your life time (right or wrong)? So should you forever be known as "the lier"? Im sure you've said something mean to someone in your life, should you also be know as "the mean girl". Life is full of mistakes that we've made along the way trying to figure ourselves out. Mistakes help point out our morals and help to define them. We are human. We do incredibly STUPID things. Should be be judged, sterotyped, labeled, or "known as" for those stupid things? I'd rather be judged, sterotyped, labeled, or "known for" my ablility to rectify and learn from those stupid things. Wouldnt you? Or would you prefer that every stupid mistake you make be held over you forever?
But I do what to say that I respect your opinion and the fact that you believe in it as much as you do.