OK, so I have a question, but I have to give you the details of whats been happening first. Ok, so Ive know this guy for quite some time. I have never got to know him personally but we have alot of the same friends. Well a few weeks ago he had some friends over and invited one of our mutual friends whom I was hanging out with that night. She invited me and we went. At his house he and I hung out and got to know each other. He continued to tell me that he had wanted to ask me out for several years but never knew how I would respond. The night continued, we talked all night, and he kissed me several times (infront of friends also). I left thinking that we would be seeing each other again soon. The next day we spoke and he ask me to come over and hangout with with him and his friends again, but I had plans already. We made plans to hangout the next day. So the next day I called to see what time he wants me to come over and he cancelled on me. We once again, make plans to hangout later in the week....a few days go by and no call. So after building up the courage I call. He doesnt answer. I left a message saying, ok, since you are bad at making plans I am making them for us. I told him that I wanted to cook dinner for him one night and hangout and watch movies either that night or the next and for him to call me and let me know which night. No call...until late the next night. He apologized, told me why he hadnt called and then continued to tell me that he still wanted to hangout. He seemed so interested. So then he asked me what my plans were for the 4th, which i had plans already. We decided to meet up later in the night on the 4th for a party, and I told him I would call in the afternoon on the 4th to make plans on what time to meet. He sounded excited and still interested. So on the 4th, i called...like I said I would...and once again no answer! I still havent heard from him!! He seemed so interested and then he just quit calling. So here is my question. Do you think I should call him one last time? There is a concert coming up that some of our mutual friends are going to... I thought about asking him to go with me to that since we will have mutual friends. Do you think I should even bother? It almost seems like he wants to hangout with him, but only when its convient for him.

I personally wouldn't call.. but it's up to you. I'd let him make the next contact.

I agree... I wouldn't call

if it was me, I would wait for him to call me.

Ha ha he is a guy alright..lol
Well no I would not call him
Sounds like he is just contacting you when he wants some affection..a lil something something if u know what I mean..;)
So by ignoring him a bit, you may actually get his attention back, and u may meet for another date..
So put him on the backburner for a bit, if he really wants you soo bad for years, then he will call u to make a date..he knows you like him by now..I am sure..

Kill him!

I think I dated his sister. Let him make the next move. Good luck hun

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, Interesting situation/
Sounds to me like you are both active, busy people. However I tend toward if he were REALLY interested he would make sure he was available to chat at the times you have agreed. I'm thinking he's not really THAT TAKEN and maybe you'd fare better to go on with your life and not call (some people like being chased, it's an ego THING, regardless of REAL interest). If he's truly interested you will hear from him again...if not, then you are no better or worse for it. Just some thoughts. Good luck.

I'd say keep calling him. Call him 5 times a day. No make it 8 times a day. Just call, call, call. Then let us know what happens cuz I love these threads.

then kill him!

sounds like a game going on.. I wouldnt call him.. go on with your life.. it hes interested he will call.. and when he does.. explain how you feel to him.. I didnt look at your age but let me just say this... dont play games.. it may be a little fun at first.. but it gets old real quick and game players never end up together.. thats JMO

Ehh he is playing head games. You can always call me :D

move on..the rush and thrill of the moment is gone...

Move on girl.... dont call him.. If hes truly interested he wont like the fact that you quit calling and hell be begging to spend time with you..Go to the concert and have fun, dont worry about him

You don't seem too special... to him.

Seconds after I get a message saying her boy's asleep and it's okay to call, I'm dialing, and usually already hungry to hear her voice.

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