But why do people complain about not having any mony and having a hard time paying bills, knowing they have a person living with them that does nothing but sit and play video games or just watches tv all moning and night and will never do anything to help. How can you b@tch knowing this?

Whats the point if your not going to do anything about it? I hate people that much off others. I could never sit on my ass and not work or at least go to school or somthing.


And No, there is nothing wrong with this person that he can't work.

No one has ever known or heard of anyone like this

I would just say, I have told you my opinion and that's all I can do.. Either shyt or get off the pot!


You could master the art of tuning people out..

my best friend lets her brother stay with her..
but he does clean and babysit..so that helps her..
cept she gotta buy him cigarettes and food

With all the opinion that most have. kinda hard to believe on here

That's pretty cheap child care really.

I would have to work and it has nothing to do with just earning money. Just sitting around the house would drive me crazy. I have gotten used to sleeping in a bed now and having atleast two meals a day. Have to have gas for the vehicle because I have been without wheels before and living in the country we don't have buses like the cities.

it's fine that he helps, but what life will he ever have if he don't do anything to take care of himself. I would go nuts with no money, no car no life. Why would anyone do this to themselves knowing they can have a life...

It would drive me nuts to and how it would change my personality for the worse and who a am as a man. I like having that freedom of knowing i can take care of me and my son and not rely on others.

Its harder than it would seem to 'kick' someone out, some family members of mine wore living rent free, utility free and had a gross income of about
$1800-$2100 every month, all thay could do was cry about the bills, then i found out the so called bills wore their children(all over 20) that thay wore giving their total income away to.
Some people cant grow up and take charge of their lives, the people that support them arnt really healping them at all, only making them worse. Look at the american welfar state.
(its not a stupid question)

i know countless women who support such jerks, and they think they will change, cause they do just enough to almost be costructive, but sure enough, ducktails cartoons at 4:00 on the couch, everyday, or video games. dude, they give us a bad name. they need to be heavily pounded apon.

it's true, you can't baby anyone or they will walk all over you. Family or not.

well hes slightly mentally handicapped and has difficulty keeping a job.
the situation worked fo rthem, temporarily anyhow.

My ex was that way, when I was working, he was on a bar stool running up a bar tab, so we went farther in the hole. I could never sit around and expect someone to support me, I have taken care of myself too long and raised my daughter by myself too.

Lack of self respect, laziness, I don't know what the answer is. But I agree with you, I couldn't put up with it.

Would drive me crazy to do it or to have someone do that to me!! Everyone needs to learn to be responsible for themself!!!

OH! i wish i could pound on him. May make him wake up and do somthing to provide for his daughter.

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I don't get it. I get too much self respect from making my contribution to the world...no matter what it is...just DOING something! Anything! I had to sit on my azz for six months after a ski accident and after a week of Springer and bon bons I almost went mad. Two years later it was 4 months on crutches and I was pretty useless then too. Worst times of my life.

I don't think there really is an answer. other then thanking god that is not me..

It's knowing you want more for your life and your willing to work for it.