Non-refundable. Refundable tickets are three times the price

I haven't spoken to her in 24 hours so it's kinda hard to say what she's thinking...

Ok so when is she coming there???? 24 hours is no big deal not to talk to someone....ppl get busy.

Maybe she's afraid that you won't like her once you have met her. That's a tough one to swallow after you have been talking so long.

Hiya hon..... did she say she was not coming or what? 24 hours isn't long.

do you want to meet this person water? even if it ends up as a beautiful friendship, a love affair, a forever relationship, I say what do you have to lose? go with an open mind

good luck 2 ya

Quick summary:

I've been talking to this woman since January. We've both said we love each other. We've overcome many obstacles to get to this point. August is our window. She's a teacher and will go back to work shortly thereafter.

We talked about an 8 day stay. She was backing off of that yesterday for silly reasons, but I believe was seeing sense when apparently she had some sort of accident which required 7 stitches. She will not tell me where the stitches are. Like I effing care. I went ahead and purchased the ticket anyway since I've spent more than that on one roll of the dice and began to sense that all of this time she might have been bullsh!tting me. Now I wait

you both have professed your love for each other while never having met -- now that's romantic!!!

Dont fret nor worry, take things one day at a time.

best wishes waterloo

I'm big on communication Fran and it's not this woman's strongest point... Plus, I naturally worry. I think it is the Brooklyn Jew in me....

Thanks sharp

I truly think that our differences is what brings people together, you may like to communicate she may prefer to listen, both complimenting each other but totally different (follow)

stop worrying and focus on the positive!!!

Good luck sunshine!!!!!!!

I'm pretty sure you've nailed it. The thing is, the mental and emotional bond is so strong and we have all these feelings without having met. Isn't it reasonable to assume that the externals don't matter to me??? Btw, she is an inherently attractive woman so it is not the issue anyway...

Thank you

How long ago did you purchase the tickets? I did non-refundable and had to cancel and got full refund but that was very shortly after I purchased them. If you think she is backing out and says so... you can still cancel and get an airline credit.

Wait and talk with her... stop freaking out until you have a reason to do so.

If she says that she doesn't want to meet then you have reason to freak and cancel the tickets.

If she is just concerned about cost for 8 days or where she'll be staying during the time of her visit... well those are valid reasons to be cautious and back off a little.

Breath and relax for now!

Nah, she's avoiding talking. I know this for fact.

how, because you 2 havent spoken in 24 hrs?

I say 24 hours is a long time unless the person is overseas. It would worry me, bug me, and damn well piss me the hell off. Especially if I talked to said person everyday.

Oh well, just my opinion. Best of luck Waterloo.

I hate to be a naysayer but from what I know of you if the communication hasn't improved now, you need to seriously be prepared for this not to work out.

This late in the game foundational issues need to be in sync. I'm sorry hon and I so hope I'm wrong, but this is a dealbreaker for me, and I think for you too.

Believe me, LDR are hard. For some it works out, for me I know it would not have worked. He came here to see me, and I was supposed to go out to see him. I had my plane ticket to go, now I have a credit with the airlines. I'm sure there is apprehension, if not on your part...than possibly her's. There has to be a reason for the lack of communication. Hopefully she will be able to talk to you about it. I wish you all the luck in the world....