Topic: Internet LDRs are like poker
lilith401's photo
Wed 07/09/08 11:21 AM
Ohh I was fresh. My mom told me to apologize to my sister and I said, "You can make me say I'm sorry but you can't make me mean it"....oops

I took my mom's new car to MA for a "few days" at age fifteen, I told my dad once I'd call DCF if he hit me and how would the town like its local pediatrician hitting his own child....oops

Damn, Waterloo I was awful. My mom often says she hopes I'll have a girl who was as smartmouthed as I was.

I am glad they were great, even if I wasn't. They taught me a lot. (My parents)

And, on topic, it's okay if she doesn't come. I know you want this to work and I wanted jist to work too, but I'm not going to settle to do it. You need a person who will talk to you, and doesn't a relationship include getting some of your needs met?

I so hope I'm wrong... I do.

caamken's photo
Wed 07/09/08 11:21 AM


Ha, that was what my mom used to always say to me when I was a kid and in trouble....

Okay minor trouble. If she was really peeved she'd ask me if I wanted to go to foster care.



You got in trouble as a child???? I'm not sure that I believe that. I'm going to need details...

bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


yep i agree with you Bro I see the HALO even in her photo today:banana:

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Wed 07/09/08 11:29 AM
Edited by Unknow on Wed 07/09/08 11:33 AM

Ohh I was fresh. My mom told me to apologize to my sister and I said, "You can make me say I'm sorry but you can't make me mean it"....oops

I took my mom's new car to MA for a "few days" at age fifteen, I told my dad once I'd call DCF if he hit me and how would the town like its local pediatrician hitting his own child....oops

Damn, Waterloo I was awful. My mom often says she hopes I'll have a girl who was as smartmouthed as I was.

I am glad they were great, even if I wasn't. They taught me a lot. (My parents)

And, on topic, it's okay if she doesn't come. I know you want this to work and I wanted jist to work too, but I'm not going to settle to do it. You need a person who will talk to you, and doesn't a relationship include getting some of your needs met?

I so hope I'm wrong... I do.




I understand the reasons behind her lack of strong communication skills. The woman has lived in a small town her entire life and there is much reticence on her part to reveal her business. Part of the bond between us are the absolute differences. We each have much to share with and learn from the other.

I guess I created this thread because I needed to vent and those who are close to me will not be objective. I know who she is and what I've chosen to accept. I'll deal with it good or bad. Thanks for listening my friends...

lilith401's photo
Wed 07/09/08 11:32 AM
Anytime my friend... but I apologize that I was not objective, I just can't not do that. I would do it for myself if I was able to have more perspective.

Vent anytime..... but be prepared for me to open my big fresh smartass of a mouth. slaphead

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Wed 07/09/08 11:34 AM

Anytime my friend... but I apologize that I was not objective, I just can't not do that. I would do it for myself if I was able to have more perspective.

Vent anytime..... but be prepared for me to open my big fresh smartass of a mouth. slaphead




:wink: I would expect no less laugh laugh laugh


lov2fish's photo
Wed 07/09/08 02:38 PM
Edited by lov2fish on Wed 07/09/08 02:41 PM
sounds like youve gotten some good advice and I can see your friends here are good friends to you. Without really knowing all the details I cannot give you a valid opinion other than I would feel like you at this point. I agree that she should explain in truth and not excuses. Its not fair to you! If it doesnt work out then your better off now than later. I wish you luck man.. and please let us know the outcome..


OH and.... if she does make it out Id go all in:laughing:

Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 07/09/08 02:50 PM

I haven't spoken to her in 24 hours so it's kinda hard to say what she's thinking...


Oh jeez. Just breathe.

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Wed 07/09/08 02:50 PM
i will never trust Internet datingnoway ..im just on here for the fun on the forumshappy

Winx's photo
Wed 07/09/08 02:54 PM
Edited by Winx on Wed 07/09/08 02:57 PM

i will never trust Internet datingnoway ..im just on here for the fun on the forumshappy


Sexi,

I've dated online this year. It's not a bad thing. It's been good to me. But...I've not done the LDR.



Winx's photo
Wed 07/09/08 02:54 PM
Edited by Winx on Wed 07/09/08 02:56 PM
double post:tongue:

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Wed 07/09/08 02:57 PM


i will never trust Internet datingnoway ..im just on here for the fun on the forumshappy


Sexi,

I've dated online this year. It's not bad thing. It's been good to me. But...I've not done the LDR.
you were lucky thenflowerforyou

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Wed 07/09/08 05:22 PM


I haven't spoken to her in 24 hours so it's kinda hard to say what she's thinking...


Oh jeez. Just breathe.



Am breathing thanks, amd I'm trying to get perspective. It's not easy though when your 1700 miles away and talking is all you have. It's not like there's any chance of non-verbal communication....


laugh laugh laugh

bad_girl's photo
Thu 07/10/08 05:37 PM
Guard your heart Mitch:heart:

TheShadow's photo
Thu 07/10/08 07:21 PM

All my chips are on the table. Has she been bluffing?


laugh laugh

feralcatlady's photo
Sun 07/13/08 03:32 PM
I can't say that I am surprised...

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 07/13/08 03:37 PM

All my chips are on the table. Has she been bluffing?





How bout checkmate?pitchfork

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 07/13/08 03:47 PM

All my chips are on the table. Has she been bluffing?


Are you good at reading your opponents?

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 07/13/08 03:53 PM
((((((((( MITCH )))))))))


I sooooooooo hope you are concerned for nothing .. we are here for you hon flowers

lov2fish's photo
Sun 07/13/08 05:01 PM
its been a few days... is there an update?

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Sun 07/13/08 05:35 PM
Edited by Unknow on Sun 07/13/08 05:36 PM
smokin Just came back to JSH to let everyone know it's all good. My friend will be coming. Thanks for the help my friends smokin


waving I might stop back from time to time to make sure you are all behaving waving