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Topic: why do nice guys finish last
poetwriter72's photo
Mon 07/07/08 01:36 AM
why does the nice guy always finish last i just try every time and i treat a woman with love and respect but i get always the head games I have a daughter and she is my world.My favorite things to do are write poetry and listen from anything from rock to hip-hop.I am currently in school trying to better myself in life.I like movies and like to have a good time.Not in to the head games looking for someone who is straight forward and honest.I am looking for someone who is caring and that has a good heart like myself looking for that special someone to write my poetry for and to show her love and respect

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Mon 07/07/08 01:37 AM
That would make an awesome profile.smokin

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/07/08 01:37 AM
huh I have deja vuhuh

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Mon 07/07/08 01:37 AM
The problem is...the nice guys need to find the nice gals!
I feel the same way about guys...
Chin up :]

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Mon 07/07/08 01:38 AM
on yahoo's homepae right now theres sumtin about why nice guys finish last.

Nursekimmie09's photo
Mon 07/07/08 01:38 AM
I was looking at that lol :]

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Mon 07/07/08 01:43 AM
huh I think this guy posted the exact same thread earlier todayhuh Ive got some serious deja-vuhuh

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Mon 07/07/08 02:16 AM
nice guys can attain great wisdom from this if they pay attention, and finnish first in that category, and the date race starts to mean a whole lot less eventually, but will start to finnish higher in this date category as well, because when you're relaxed about it, knowledge is just as much as a turn-on if not more for the more aware people, men and women both. so search into yourself.

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Mon 07/07/08 02:19 AM
I dont like whiney men!!!noway noway noway

And this so called "nice guy" pfffffffffft who says you are nice?????

Youre whining me to death!!!noway

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Mon 07/07/08 02:24 AM

I dont like whiney men!!!noway noway noway

And this so called "nice guy" pfffffffffft who says you are nice?????

Youre whining me to death!!!noway


hey, i wanna whine!!!! whine whine whine whiney cheese whine cheese wine, winey wino woodle woo.
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: yay.

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Mon 07/07/08 02:26 AM
I will take the wine and cheese but geeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus!!! Here is the problem!!! Women like me will not give you the time of day if you sound like a whiney girl!!!noway noway noway noway and ya your child is the world to you???? Uhhhhhhhhhh shouldnt that be the norm??? why mention it???? Of course my child is my world too but why do you get a medal for saying it????

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Mon 07/07/08 02:29 AM
i guess because there's a lot more deadbeat dads than deadbeat moms, so he's just saying i think something to that magnitude.

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Mon 07/07/08 02:36 AM
Nice guys finish last because sometimes being TOO nice is a sign of weakness. No woman wants a weak man, unless she been used and abused by too many, then she learns real quick what it is all about.



Men, ask yourself this.

How many times do you show a woman interest, and you get excited, you cannot control yourself and say things too soon, but decide to speak from the heart and........ Ya get shut down? It happens WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY more than you know.


So if you are a nice guy, play against your feelings. Women give you mixed signs of interest anyways. They want to add you as a friend, but not talk to you. If you try to talk to them (too much), they lose interest. So you got to do the same when it comes to how you feel. It's the only way to play fair for both both sexes with a decent shot!

This is what I have came to terms on. I am going to try this and take notes. When I decide to play again. These women on here are too brutal on here. I suppose online makes it just too damn easy.

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Mon 07/07/08 02:39 AM

i guess because there's a lot more deadbeat dads than deadbeat moms, so he's just saying i think something to that magnitude.
Yes well we women have been doing it for years!!!! But good for him......I just hate that they say that in their profiles!!!! Like they deserve a medal!!!noway noway noway noway noway

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Mon 07/07/08 02:40 AM

Nice guys finish last because sometimes being TOO nice is a sign of weakness. No woman wants a weak man, unless she been used and abused by too many, then she learns real quick what it is all about.



Men, ask yourself this.

How many times do you show a woman interest, and you get excited, you cannot control yourself and say things too soon, but decide to speak from the heart and........ Ya get shut down? It happens WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY more than you know.


So if you are a nice guy, play against your feelings. Women give you mixed signs of interest anyways. They want to add you as a friend, but not talk to you. If you try to talk to them (too much), they lose interest. So you got to do the same when it comes to how you feel. It's the only way to play fair for both both sexes with a decent shot!

This is what I have came to terms on. I am going to try this and take notes. When I decide to play again. These women on here are too brutal on here. I suppose online makes it just too damn easy.
I hear ya faust.......its all a game isnt it????

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Mon 07/07/08 02:41 AM


i guess because there's a lot more deadbeat dads than deadbeat moms, so he's just saying i think something to that magnitude.
Yes well we women have been doing it for years!!!! But good for him......I just hate that they say that in their profiles!!!! Like they deserve a medal!!!noway noway noway noway noway
:smile: Yeah.:smile: I dont think most women are attracted to guys with kids either.:smile: They want their own kids, not someone elses.:smile:

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Mon 07/07/08 02:45 AM


Nice guys finish last because sometimes being TOO nice is a sign of weakness. No woman wants a weak man, unless she been used and abused by too many, then she learns real quick what it is all about.



Men, ask yourself this.

How many times do you show a woman interest, and you get excited, you cannot control yourself and say things too soon, but decide to speak from the heart and........ Ya get shut down? It happens WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY more than you know.


So if you are a nice guy, play against your feelings. Women give you mixed signs of interest anyways. They want to add you as a friend, but not talk to you. If you try to talk to them (too much), they lose interest. So you got to do the same when it comes to how you feel. It's the only way to play fair for both both sexes with a decent shot!

This is what I have came to terms on. I am going to try this and take notes. When I decide to play again. These women on here are too brutal on here. I suppose online makes it just too damn easy.
I hear ya faust.......its all a game isnt it????



Yes it is a game, because people like to play with bull$#!T too much. Some people play hurt until they see how many are interested and make them feel good about themselves, and you know why?

So they can over look the good people and pick the one that seems to have somewhat of a heart but with the best looks. So they are lying to themselves that they want a "Decent Guy".

There are lots of other examples of such with different outcomes but I do not feel like listing them all.

I am supposed to be quitting smoking...... but F*** that too. My heart rate...... I am going outside now....

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Mon 07/07/08 02:50 AM

I dont like whiney men!!!noway noway noway

And this so called "nice guy" pfffffffffft who says you are nice?????

Youre whining me to death!!!noway
hehe love that response!

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Mon 07/07/08 02:53 AM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Mon 07/07/08 02:53 AM
Faust!!! Lol I actually watched a pbs show on the whole attraction thing with men and women and it was quite fascinating!!!

It is a game.....has been.........will be.........

I dont like it any better than you do!!! But it is what it is.......learn to play and quit whining all you so called "nice" guys!!!drinker

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Mon 07/07/08 02:54 AM


I dont like whiney men!!!noway noway noway

And this so called "nice guy" pfffffffffft who says you are nice?????

Youre whining me to death!!!noway
hehe love that response!
yaaaaaaaaaaaa whiney nice guy thread 4789327892789123789128912~~~!!!noway laugh

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