So what am I suggesting? A "Buddy System"....

id be ur buddy... its always great to have a random stranger as a buddy especially if hes cute....

please explain further???

I LOVE that tune , bro

this is a radio song??

A song from Pat Benatar

But i doubt the thread is about the tune

Yeah, but I need someone to hold me accountable for my actions. Someone I can run things by and they can help guide me from making a fool of myself when I intend not to. Sometimes I think I am just misunderstood, but this is another form of protection (The Buddy System). So that no man/woman gets left behind and can live another day in this Battlefield.


Thank you for the compliment by the way, if it were to be as such directed to me.

The song inspired the thread, but no so much just for entertainment. I am being serious.

"we are young, heartache to heartache we stand, no promises no demands..."---wish i had a "stand by me" guy! Random, you strike me as a "from the soul" guy with wisdom beyond your years! where were guys like you when i was in my 20's?

Gotcha bro

my buddy deactivated..
and my bestest guy friend is never online anymore, and hes moving soon

i think lottsa buddies are a good thing!!
friends are awesome...no matter where they are at..

I thought you were talking "wingman" (or woman) at first but...I guess not.

Just a "BS" caller?

I want to know where the souls that are compatible are for guys like me?! I am serious! A part of me tells me I am not ready for relationships. And a part of me wants it so bad. I am laughing on the outside, and I feel sad inside. I want to be strong and do neither, but it takes a lot out of me.

Do you ever feel like that? Maybe I am having one of those chemical imbalances or something, or maybe too much free time?

I think I am going to go bowling tomorrow and shake it off. Then start working out again to keep the mind away from these things.


Anyways, I guess even the good things come with cons in a person. Just glad that I am not crazy, and that at least you "Beautiful, Older Women" who have their heads together see the good in me. Now if only a girl who can catch my eye as I would catch hers can see what you who are experienced can see. Now that would be something!

Yeah, and a Wingman, at least for me in my case.


This could be like the enrollment thread for The Buddy System. Women can just join in or start "Neighborhood Watch" for those stalkers. Where things are confidential, but for those with similar concerns to discuss privately.


Why need a thread for this? Because it will be out in the open maybe? I dunno. I feel funny just messaging someone for advice. Especially after so many people that I respect and admire tell me that I appear "Wise beyond my years". I feel like asking for advice would make me look less in those eyes. How great it feels to even be thought of as such, when all my life I felt like a dumbass. Then I discover what I believed in myself, others say to me out of no where, and then I question if that is a flaw, or is those I try to talk to (you know what I mean) are the ones with greater flaws? I do not even know of that last sentence was supposed to be 1 or 2 or even end with a question mark, but whatever.





By the way...... I was also cracking jokes.... ......

Ya know Faust. I've learned the last few days that I know what to do. It's just a lot easier dispensing opinion and advice than putting it in practical application. The stuff we just said to Mike, are we going to walk it.

I like the idea of the neighborhood watch for the women. However I think it's alright to let flaws hang out. I think people know you struggle with matching your actions (as strict as you'd like) to your ideals. I think folks see you as integral. I know I can lose my self in pondering and come across as a pontificating ass, but I think folks see me as at least thoughtful.

I took it on the chin last night, but it was good. I do like the idea of having a buddy to bounce ideas, compare notes, and generally support. I don't want to hide any warts though.

u guys are cute and just really impressed me.
thats just interesting to know that guys would even think like that.

much more prone to and quicker with a d!ck joke

Thanks Though

First order of business. Ya blew right by this sweetness.

Claude!

I think I just remembered why I value your friendship the most. You are by the one of the most remarkable human being I have ever met. And any compliment I send your way is meant beyond the words I have chosen for you. Joel, I am glad to be able to call you a friend.

It is things such as this, by the few, such as you. That keep me grounded and press on. I feel like you spot me, as I strain to better myself. Thank you Joel. You are very gifted in many ways than one.